What To Do?

my girlfriend isnt tha best..she was raped a couple times before and had jus decided to tell me we've been together 6 months it didnt bother mr much but she ahd me check her emal yesterday and i found email of her tlkg to an old boyfriend and saying she doesnt like coming over and hates me and loves him and tht her other friend logged in last time and told him that but she doesnt like him anymore and after that i found another message saying she might be pregnant from another guy other than him form when we first started dating i havnt said anythign to her about it yet but any suggetions would be wonderful! im really distraut she also told me she use to be a slut , sooo do you still think she is ? im leaning toward a yes .

dump that bitch

ah man.

how could anyone be so retarded.

why do you need advise on this? just dump her.

tell her your hiv positive and you wanna break up

good luck growing that redheaded child man

hey man, fuck all those dudes with the negative comments, they aren't good for you anyways. man just do what makes you happiest. if you think your going to be happy with her, whilst still being treated like shit? is the pussy really that good? or do you think you would be happier without her? without the stress? just gotta think about what you want the most man, whats really gonna make you happy. i say fallow your heart broman, but always take into consideration the concequences of your actions. remember that happiness resides within, and until you are happy with yourself.. you just don't have the ability to be happy with someone else.. in my opinion that is.

i mean i honestly believe that humans were not "meant" to be together forever. i mean its our customs that give us that image, that we are supposed to pick one person and be with them forever. to me that is just ridiculous, we as humans change too much as time goes on. 5 years from now i will be a completely different person, with different perceptions about life in general. when we change, the things that interest us changes too. i think marriage is just as silly as theology, BUT! i think that when you have a child, you are there for obligated to stay together... not for yourselves but for your child. when you have a child until he/she "leaves the nest", life is not about you anymore. it is about the child. sorry im getting off of topic, good luck man.

Zaehet Strife said:

i mean i honestly believe that humans were not "meant" to be together forever. i mean its our customs that give us that image, that we are supposed to pick one person and be with them forever. to me that is just ridiculous, we as humans change too much as time goes on. 5 years from now i will be a completely different person, with different perceptions about life in general. when we change, the things that interest us changes too. i think marriage is just as silly as theology, BUT! i think that when you have a child, you are there for obligated to stay together... not for yourselves but for your child. when you have a child until he/she "leaves the nest", life is not about you anymore. it is about the child. sorry im getting off of topic, good luck man.

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I agree follow your heart on this matter and do what makes you happy. Remember, there are plenty of ladies out there. And if a person is to afraid to tell you they hate you to your face or they dont like coming over then you might just be wasting time investing in that relationship.

I tend to disagree with "obligated to stay together part". If a person truly isn't happy with his or her baby mama/ daddy then it is sometimes better to leave instead of staying together. As long a both parents still care for the kid. My parents split when I was 13 even though it hurt to see them split it hurt my siblings and I more to see them fight all the time or seeing my pops hauled off to jail.

Get the hell out of the relationship and GET TESTED!!!! I can't believe you are actually asking for opinions on this. She is nothing but trouble, run for your life.

if shes a slut pimp that ho

Zaehet Strife said:

i mean its our customs that give us that image, that we are supposed to pick one person and be with them forever. to me that is just ridiculous. . . "

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Well . . . I guest you could be like a dog. Go around fucking any bitch that comes along. Why worry about genealogy, you’re a dog.

BrotherBuz said:

Well . . . I guest you could be like a dog. Go around fucking any bitch that comes along. Why worry about genealogy, you’re a dog.

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lol, thats all your personal perception bro. i don't go out and fuck everything, sex is fun.. but there are much more fun things. like video games, smoking my beautiful flowers, diving off of bridges, jumping off of things. all im trying to say is, people change. straight up, throughout all of the experiences you will have in your life you are bound to change the way you think about different things on occasion. im not saying its not passable to spend the rest of your life with someone, it happens. my grandparents were married at 16 and died together. it is possible, im just saying... it is not human nature to be with one person their whole lives, it is our customs that teaches us those "vaules" or "morals" if you will. People were not "meant" to be together forever, you both CHOOSE to do so.

so, i say take your judgements elsewhere. and good day to you

gNurgles said:

I agree follow your heart on this matter and do what makes you happy. Remember, there are plenty of ladies out there. And if a person is to afraid to tell you they hate you to your face or they dont like coming over then you might just be wasting time investing in that relationship.

I tend to disagree with "obligated to stay together part". If a person truly isn't happy with his or her baby mama/ daddy then it is sometimes better to leave instead of staying together. As long a both parents still care for the kid. My parents split when I was 13 even though it hurt to see them split it hurt my siblings and I more to see them fight all the time or seeing my pops hauled off to jail.

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ahh, now that you say it i would have to agree with you. it doesn't really matter if you are together or not.. it will be a lot more complicate i think, but if you both work together and know in your hearts that both of your lives are not as important as your childs... i think that would work. but its so much harder, because you are sometimes involving two other would-be parents in the situation, and you can never know if their intentions are pure or not.

Zaehet Strife said:

". . . it is not human nature to be with one person their whole lives. . ."

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This is found where? at ZaehetStrife 3:6-7