I seriously doubt it's true that most long time Growers stopped pHing their liquids. I haven't, for one.
An example: I started growing again 3 years ago, shortly after that I broke my leg, last thing I wanted to do was go mix up newts and pH and all, so when I finally dragged my ass into the garden I had a bucket of water straight from the tap and I put it in three beautiful white widows
3 or 4 days later they were unrecognizable as the same plants, and they continued to get worse for a while too..
Took a month or so to get them back to where they were, and all this from one bad watering!
So if you want to dump just any old water in go ahead, and you'll find out the truth in this matter quickly.
Regarding soil "buffering" your pH:
There's a big difference between all the soil in the world, and the all the soil in your little 3 gallon bucket!
For outside growing, all the soil in the world will buffer your water, agreed.
However all the soil in a little 3 or 5 gallon bucket, not so much, you'll see the difference really fast op, depending on the pH of your tap water, and you won't like it. Good luck!