What's your opinion on spanking kids?

medicalmaryjane said:

lol, he is too old to be spanked. i would make that kid go home and not allow him over until he got some manners. i don't need to watch someone elses kids, if they come over, they better act like fucken angels or they r not coming over.

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I agree. If you're so nice to him, then at the very least he should act like an angel out of gratitude. You shouldn't ever take leniency for granted or no one will be willing to give it again. I think the only reason mother lets me smoke is because I'm always such a kiss ass. Had I been rude In the house or failing at school, I would not have the allowances I do.

I'm glad you're so good to your nephew but skipping school for one, then having his friends over, then drinking and smoking, AND at his age- that was straight up taking the piss. Do not feel bad for however you punished him X3

RavenMochi said:

†LOL† Thats no lie, my daughter does that shit, I immediately take her home, and then I come down upon her like the wrath of god. She forgets sometimes that the whole 'protection of witnesses' only works until we go home, and we WILL go home.

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Oh don't get me started on that dreaded day when my oldest uttered these words "Go ahead spank me, I am going to call the cops." After I was done laughing, I uttered these words "Welp, I might as well beat you extra good since I am going to jail." She is not dead, she got it harder then she would have, she still loves me, and she does remember that day. You know why I know, because she never said that phrase to me again.

It's not "if" you as a parent hear that, it is "when" and usually about the time they are becoming too old to spank. You just have to remind them they are NOT. LOL.

lol, usually there is a better solution that violence and spanking (violence) should always be an absolute last resort (scare the crap out of them, second last resort lol)

but, lets say my kid is bullying and beating up other kids and nothing is working to make him stop?

well, id try making the lil bastards ass red before i started putting him on some drug or wait for him to get old enough to actually be able to hurt people..

if that dont work, i might spank him in front of the other kids

but..

i dont know, id try something like starting to follow the kid around and be REALLY embarassing to him

and promise to keep it up as a personal hobby (oh id be a working at home father then lol, plenty time)
till he gave up the bullying.

come to school alot in silly outfits and say stupid things to the kids (silly stupid)

course, if wanted to be really nasty, id follow him around and be the really cool but nice guy till everyone would start to say to him , why arent you more like your dad?

though i tend to think

that a few moments of

"This Is How It Feels MotherFucker!" is beneficial for some people.

I told my mom I was going to call the cops when she cussed at me.

She replied, "GO THE FUCK AHEAD!"

I still laugh at that when I think about it.

"iim gonnna call the cops on you dad!"

"come for a drive son"

"this is the local orphanage" and this is the local home for "troubled young boys"

"do you like what you see son?" "do ya like the ..company?"

"would ya like spending christmas in there? "

Morgan Lynn said:

I told my mom I was going to call the cops when she cussed at me.

She replied, "GO THE FUCK AHEAD!"

I still laugh at that when I think about it.

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I wish I was a cop, because if a child called and I had the call. I would show up, take the belt from the parent, issue the spanking and leave. HAHAH.

sso said:

"iim gonnna call the cops on you dad!"

"come for a drive son"

"this is the local orphanage" and this is the local home for "troubled young boys"

"do you like what you see son?" "do ya like the ..company?"

"would ya like spending christmas in there? "

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Wow. My dad did that, as a scare tactic and not to those words. It works from my experience.

Sorry folks abuse is abuse, don't be stupid. Violence is never the answer, your parents were wrong if they spanked you. Here is the perspective, if your kids could kick your ass you wouldn't even think of spanking them, correct? So you are only spanking because you can get away with it and you don't know how to parent effectively. Take a parenting class and quit beating your children.

bobquan said:

Sorry folks abuse is abuse, don't be stupid. Violence is never the answer, your parents were wrong if they spanked you. Here is the perspective, if your kids could kick your ass you wouldn't even think of spanking them, correct? So you are only spanking because you can get away with it and you don't know how to parent effectively. Take a parenting class and quit beating your children.

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Waka Flocka FLAME!

hah my dad brought me to the local hooker spot in Edmonton when I lived there. He told me thats where I'd end up if I didn't pull up my grades. I'm still not sure if he's calling me a trick or a male prostitute

bobquan said:

Sorry folks abuse is abuse, don't be stupid. Violence is never the answer, your parents were wrong if they spanked you. Here is the perspective, if your kids could kick your ass you wouldn't even think of spanking them, correct? So you are only spanking because you can get away with it and you don't know how to parent effectively. Take a parenting class and quit beating your children.

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LOL. Mods find out who's IP this is. Obviously he/she is trolling or too much of a poontang to voice his/her opinion without outting themselves. Took longer then I thought but like anything around her will happen with thread traffic.

Nusky said:

hah my dad brought me to the local hooker spot in Edmonton when I lived there. He told me thats where I'd end up if I didn't pull up my grades. I'm still not sure if he's calling me a trick or a male prostitute

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hahahah DAMN.

My dad did a similar thing to my sister. He brought her to a grave yard after she got her second DUI. He made her stare at my grandmothers grave and told her she would end up there if she didnt chill the hell out.

she got the point.

when I was young I only got spanked one time. that was when my uncle was napping on the couch and I smacked him with a book in the face. he spanked me lol. my mom would just ground me. take my game system away wouldn't let me go to my friends house. I was lucky to go out of the yard. grounding always worked for me. I had one week of grounding. every time I would do something wrong she would add a day or two. I got grounded for a week before in the end I got 3 more weeks added on lol. I turned out to be a good kid. I'm 22 now. work a full time job. mom does too. live with her and our 2 dogs. and she is ok with me growing mj in the house. she's getting into it more and more now. we aren't the wealthiest people. but we help each other out if we need. good mother son relationship

Nusky said:

hah my dad brought me to the local hooker spot in Edmonton when I lived there. He told me thats where I'd end up if I didn't pull up my grades. I'm still not sure if he's calling me a trick or a male prostitute

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Jesus if my dad did that I would be like, gimme a hundo and I will be back in 10 minutes. You lucky @!&ker.

so don't spank your kids. ground them.

dont have a kid,

just went by what might possibly have worked on me as a kid.

Frito Bandito420 said:

so don't spank your kids. ground them.

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just send them to their bedrooms. you know, where they have the macbook and the iphone and the hdtv and the game systems.

Frito Bandito420 said:

when I was young I only got spanked one time. that was when my uncle was napping on the couch and I smacked him with a book in the face. he spanked me lol. my mom would just ground me. take my game system away wouldn't let me go to my friends house. I was lucky to go out of the yard. grounding always worked for me. I had one week of grounding. every time I would do something wrong she would add a day or two. I got grounded for a week before in the end I got 3 more weeks added on lol. I turned out to be a good kid. I'm 22 now. work a full time job. mom does too. live with her and our 2 dogs. and she is ok with me growing mj in the house. she's getting into it more and more now. we aren't the wealthiest people. but we help each other out if we need. good mother son relationship

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Ya no doubt there is special circumstances that kids who don't get physical punishment turn out good, most don't but some do. Dunno about 22 and living at home though, unless it's for medical or aide of some sort.

My sister and I pranked called a funeral home and said we had a dead body in the closet. The funeral director said for us to call the police so we hung up. Later that week the cops showed up with a warrent and searched the entire fucking house.

We got grounded for WEEKS.

If they dont listen to a fucking word you have told them or when i have to repeat myself over and over, over things i have addressed more then 3 times, i put on a spanking clinic. What i do is the first two spanks are a pat on the butt, you get them thinking, "ah this aint too bad, he hits so soft i can take, put up a fake cry" when the last two are fucking fiiery spanks! My hand is big and meaty so it carries a lot of inertia and velocity, i let him have it, whap whap. Then the crying starts cause i know it really hurt. Then i sit him in a corner so he can think about what he did and why i spanked him.

As a kid we lived in a home with a glassed in front porch in the middle of the block. My mom would sit me in the porch and tell me I had 15 minutes to sit there and think about what I did. It was the longest 15 minutes. There would be all the other kids riding their bikes, skipping, wandering around out front, asking when I could come out and play.

She only had to do that a couple of times. It worked on me.