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Realizing Love and Having a Sex Video in Your Past; When to Share it to Your Love Potential?
Is it 'Love or Lust'
If you are in a relationship and you sense that love is developing and you did a sex video in your past; I recommend that you begin to insinuate it to that person within the 3 months, no later than 12 months of the notion of the love effect.
Honesty is important from the begining of that relationship even before love is realized to testify to the eventual confession. Honesty is what secure Love and without it you have insecurity.
I can understand the (potential) embarrassment of telling somebody that you have a sex video and it gets out when you just want to forget about it, but, the reality is that you will never truly get over it until you can accept yourself for who you are and what God called you to be.
The sex video dosen't make or break you; its how you live after you've done such a thing; lies steal out true destiny (shit happens); don't let a carnal mishap(?) steal your destiny. God first, accept me or not.
Don't let the lie, denial, or deceiption control your life.
Fellows it you know something about your boys girl; you should reasonably encourage her to tell him in reasonable time, no later than a year.
The Truth shall set you free.
Is it Love or lust; don't confuse passion within a LOVE relationship for lust; lust is strictly carnal and/or worldly, that is self seeking and obsessive. Love is selfless and spirirutal in essence.
Passion (in a Love relationship) is a natural desire or appetite of that spiritual realization.
Ladies who have a sex tape and ladies and gentlemen in general, if it is love that you desire you are looking for the Holy Spirit, the Spirit of Truth; discern their heart, mind, spirit, and their deeds.