I notice you said 'a lot', not 'all', but I'm just curious why most people with homeopathic behavior tend to mind males, but not females?
It seems to be another of society's quirks.
Guys and Gals both, gay or not, I notice from conversations and what not, will watch one girl eating another, but give them a vid of a guy with a woody stuffed in his mouth, and forget it.
One of my ex'brother in laws was openly gay, and always had new 'friends', but didn't hold hands in public, no kissing or anything else, and was a real nice guy.