Look at it this way, if you are going to be a partaker of bud, and want to grow your own..then the education your giving yourself is no waste of time. Yes there are some people who've had problem free first grows, but they did'nt get to learn what to do when problems arise. Just let her keep on doing her thing and don't think of it as a waste of time just a learning experience. Im growing 2 NL autos right now, and ive had one thats just had issues from day 1, and the other has been going hard since is sprouted, im personally glad one has had alot of issues because i've learned to recognize what the signs are and how to handle them, and from what i find most of the time, doing nothing is the best medicine. Cannabis is a very hardy plant and wants to survive and thrive just like we do. Just keep positive and even if you don't get the mother load off this one, you'll get better grows down the road if you keep to it