Why do people always take kindness for weakness?!

kentuckyboy

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A hook is some times hard to through after a jab, unless you've practiced that move. Usually a straight right comes after the jab (1-2). However some wise people preach never through a right hand unless you plan to follow up with a left hook. So in your case i would through a straight right followed by left hook or the classic 1-2-3 (jab right left hook).
Honestly I am way past the age where I want to fight. I hope that I never get into another fist fight as long as I live., but I will fight if I have to. My mom raised me not to start shit but to finish it if someone ever fucks with you. I have always lived by those words. Hopefully I don't see or talk to him for quite some time. All I can hope for is that I have calmed down enough to where I just tell him to frack off and never to bother me again without going ballistic. I just have to remember not to stoop down to that childish level.
 

kentuckyboy

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All he wants is your reaction, so give him one; 'ignore'
I know. You are completely right. This is the first time I have had a troll on my thread spitting out nonsense like some immature kid. I won't be replying to his posts anymore. Thanks for commenting like a normal adult. It seems there are less and less of us here on RIU nowadays! Lol!
 

ttystikk

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I know. You are completely right. This is the first time I have had a troll on my thread spitting out nonsense like some immature kid. I won't be replying to his posts anymore. Thanks for commenting like a normal adult. It seems there are less and less of us here on RIU nowadays! Lol!
There are fewer of us anywhere every day, so we gotta stick together.
 

kentuckyboy

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Yea bummer this shit happened. All I can add is don't let it change you as a person. You can only apply the experience to future relationships. I know how you feel though. Keep truckin bud.
Thanks man! That's all I can do really. I am just so tired of being screwed over by people who are supposed to be your friends. I am an only child, so I always considered my few best friends to be like brothers. I would do anything I could to help them out. But over the years I have lost the majority of my friends because of similar situation's to this one. I blame most of these situation's on hard drugs. Because most of them were strung out on coke, crack, meth, or opiate's. I had my own battle with all of the above, but I eventually got help and got clean from all the hard shit. I went back to college and got me a degree, but I never would have been able to do that without the help of my friend's and family. I guess that is why I try to help out my friend's whenever they are in need. It just sucks when you get shitted on after trying to help that person!
 

kentuckyboy

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Dude is a fuck up and thief. You better change your locks before he comes back and takes all your shit. He's probably a drug addict.
He is definitely an addict like most of my friend's. Whether or not he would admit is a completely different story! Lol! He had been living with me for about 2 moths, so I know all he had been doing is smoking my weed, so I know for a fact that he wasn't strung out on the harder shit. I would have expected something like this if he had been doing crack or heroin. It is what it is though. He did it, but I can't for the life of me understand why he did it!
 

texasjack

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He is definitely an addict like most of my friend's. Whether or not he would admit is a completely different story! Lol! He had been living with me for about 2 moths, so I know all he had been doing is smoking my weed, so I know for a fact that he wasn't strung out on the harder shit. I would have expected something like this if he had been doing crack or heroin. It is what it is though. He did it, but I can't for the life of me understand why he did it!
He saw an opportunity and reveled his true self. I don't want to tell you how to live your life but if all your friends are drug addicts you may want to find new friends. It's hard to be a good friend when your best friend is drugs.
 

bradburry

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I am so fricking mad and hurt right now that I just have to write some shit down on here to try and release some of this built up frustration and anger, so I don't end up doing something stupid! Let me tell you all exactly what just happened to put me in such a mood.

A very good friend of mine who is about 7 years older than me. I have known him, since I was about 15 years old. He used to buy my friends alcohol back then. I am 33 years old now, so he is about 40. So to put it mildly, I have known and been like best friends with this guy for a very long time.

Anyways, about 2 months ago he called me up asking if he could stay at my crib for a little bit until he found a new place to stay. With him being such a good friend I couldn't possibly say no, since I had the room at my place. Everything was all good for the 1st couple of weeks until he got fired from his job. When he told me that he had been fired, I just thought to myself, "how in the hell is this motherf#*#er going to pay for a new place without a gosh damn job?!" Now I had to deal with someone being in my house 24/7 when I am used to living by myself. He really started getting on my nerves about that time, but I never said anything about it at all. I treated him exactly the same. So he played the lazy game for about 2 weeks until I was really getting fed up, and I said something to my ex-girlfriend whom I am still very good friends with. I also consider that girl's kids as my own. And those kids consider me to be their father as well, so I have to say it is a somewhat complicated situation between me and her. But it is a good situation.

Anyways she needed to get a job and so did my buddy Bob. They ended up working together through a temp service. They worked there about 6 or 7 days until yesterday when my supposed friend Bob pulled an okey doke on her! Angela had to catch a ride with Bob to work, since she didn't have a car of her own. Bob picked her up like all the other days, and they drove to the warehouse where they were supposed to work at. Angela left her purse in the car along with her lunch and some other unimportant shit. They both went up to the entrance where you clock in and shit. Angela went her separate way to the part of the warehouse where she worked at. Apparently Bob just acted like he clocked in, but he instead went to his car and left. Angela had at least 30 Suboxone strips, $150 in cash, and a paycheck in her purse. Plus, she had all kinds of personal information type papers like her driver's license and health insurance card. Anyways she didn't know that he wasn't at work until her first break when she went out to his car and to her surprise it wasn't there. She then asked the supervisor's if they had seen him and of course they said no. She then had them look to see if he clocked in, which he hadn't! Next thing I know she is callling me tripping out asking if he had come back to my house, but he hadn't. So right then and there I realized he had pulled a bitch move and was gone. I honestly hoped all day long that he would finally show up with all of her stuff, but he never did.

I just got off of the phone with Angela and she just reported he shit stolen by him and got her a police report. She is going to try to get her doc to refill her script with enough subs to hold her over until she goes to the doctor again in 2 weeks, but I seriously doubt that the doc will do it. Too many people do all their meds and then try to say that their shit got stolen, so they can get more. It has made it impossible for people who are telling the truth to get there meds when their shit actually did get stolen.

It's crazy because everything that Bob owns is at my house which is only clothes and shoes and some hygiene products. Needless to say that shit is going to the DAV, because i sure as hell won't be giving it back to him. I am so fricking tired of people who are supposed to be friends or sometimes even faily do this kind of shit to people when they are just trying to help them out. Gosh damn it just kills me. I am truly at a loss of words on this situation. I never expected that son of a bitch to pull some shady ass shit like this! I would have done anything within my capabilities to help him out because that was how I was raised by my parents, but I am so tired of being shit on by people. It is a fracked up world that we live in! Anyways thanks for listening to my rant! I do feel a tad bit better now. At least I won't ever have to worry about him doing this to me ever again! Lol!
i can totally realate to this i hope im wrong but hes got the behaviour of a herion addict just dissapearing with money and no explanation......i hope im wrong but you shouldnt blame the addict for his wrong doings ........its the herions fault.......he wouldnt have done it if herion wasnt making him feel poorly....it all sounds very very familiar i hope im wrong.

help him if im right .......youll find your anger a thing of the past .
 

greenlikemoney

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Fucking addicts are just about the lowest form of life. Had a family member who was an addict and their world revolves around their addiction. They will lie, cheat and steal from anyone to get what they need to continue their addiction. Just be glad he's gone and help get your female friends shit replaced.
 

chewberto

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Gosh dang! Frackin BS! But a cool story Bro! I thought he was going to bang her... The Suspense was killing me. Gosh Dang!
 
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