is it really that common for girls to cheat? none of the girls im friends with would cheat or anything like that. i dont date or fuck so i dont ever get myself into those situations lol. not all girls who like drugs are bad though either...you know what i do for weed? i either grow it, or i pay for it! i dont even get my dealer to spot me here and there...if i dont have money...i dont smoke
but who knows...maybe im just one of those rare girls who understands respect and kindness.
I guess it depends on how you look at it. I'm not too much of a relationship type because I feel like men and women are not built to live together for long periods of time. I've had 3 serious relationships, and one I cheated on (long story, but it was over in my mind long before I did that--I only stayed with him because he owed me $10,000). So I guess that's pretty schiesty.
Every other guy I've "dated" or whatever you wanna call it, I've announced before hand that I don't like relationships and they're free to do whatever they want as long as I'm free to do what I want. This was the scenario recently with someone I was seeing. But apparently, after a few months, he got jealous because I wasn't spending time with him. This is ironic because I wasn't actually seeing anyone else... just working 2 jobs
Anyway, you guys can say what you want about girls. Some of us just want sex with no strings attached. On the other hand, what serious relationships I have been in, I've been a very loving, giving, respectful partner. And in my opinion, guys, if your girl is acting like a cunt, just leave cuz you're not meant to be together. I've "dated" a lot of people in my 16 years of dating experience and to say that only 3 of them were worth dating for more than a couple weeks/months just proves that you're going to find more bad matches than good matches.
So stop blaming girls for being the problem. Everything you guys said, I can think of at least 5 men that I know that do the same thing. It's the clash in personality/interests/attitude/etc which causes problems. Think of the bitchiest girl you've ever dated. Chances are there's gonna be a guy out there that she's loves so much that she'll do anything for... just wasn't you, so in turn she was a bitch. Nothing personal, it's just that when you spend so much time with someone that you're not meant to be with, they tend to get really annoying really fast and the frustration just starts coming out.