Would you quit smoking weed for the love of your life?

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You are right Tip Top. So right.

Sounds like you made your choice. Good for you.
I'f you are not in a power struggle now just wait.
I believe your in a power struggle and don't even realize it.
Have a kid. Then when she don't like something else about you that you can't change.
She leaves your ass. Now thiers a power struggle.
And then you may not be able to afford weed much less smoke it.

Pussy got you blind.

I have the same situation. My girlfriend of a year does not like weed at all, she had a ex that was into more then weed and was a huuuuge screw up. I have known her for 4 years now had the chance to date her then but her ex was still in the picture and she was torn. Now that i am with her i have to hide my smoking. I am never high when im around her and its something that im eventually going to quit but for now since im young i want to just experience all of what i can. I dont do any other drugs, i drink occasionally but shes fine with that but to tell the truth id rather smoke then get drunk. Its a tricky thing and im not to proud of it but it is what it is.

I love my old lady. We've been together for 4 years. We have a daughter together.
I truly believe she loves me. I believe we will be together forever.
I have my faults and she looks past them and still loves me. I can't believe it sometimes.

I hope smoking is the only fault she is not willing to look past. Pot was a easy one for her.

Check this out....10 years smoking together. She left me for blazing a bowl after a 2 hour drive to go 17 miles ( 91 freeway is a bitch) And we smoked together for 7 of those years. I'm 28 now. Either she accepts you for you or ditch the bitch. Find yourself a stoner chick. Found my new girl by visiting a dispensary..she is my everything now..she also eats all my edibles everytime i get them...( only downside)..find someone who loves you regardless of your habits..good luck

ThatGuy113 said:

I have the same situation. My girlfriend of a year does not like weed at all, she had a ex that was into more then weed and was a huuuuge screw up. I have known her for 4 years now had the chance to date her then but her ex was still in the picture and she was torn. Now that i am with her i have to hide my smoking. I am never high when im around her and its something that im eventually going to quit but for now since im young i want to just experience all of what i can. I dont do any other drugs, i drink occasionally but shes fine with that but to tell the truth id rather smoke then get drunk. Its a tricky thing and im not to proud of it but it is what it is.

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Your situation is nothing like his. Sounds like you know what you want. Eventually I would say she would let you. I mean the other guy and all, sounds ike shes willling to look past a lot of shit for the man SHE loves.

i would have to say no...if there not happy with that they'll try and find other things to nit pick about...if i still function as normal and am still able to spend the time required to keep her happy then if thats my pleasure then let me do it...I myself have never been put in a situation like that as i lay it out from day 1 this is who iam and this is how iam...honestly havent met 1 yet that didnt accept me and all my habbits...

true that blaze

Polecat said:

Your situation is nothing like his. Sounds like you know what you want. Eventually I would say she would let you. I mean the other guy and all, sounds ike shes willling to look past a lot of shit for the man SHE loves.

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Well she did almost dump me but some how i convinced her otherwise. Someone brought up in front of her that my eyes were redic bloodshot the other weekend and that i was so high. She instantly flipped after a couple of hours we finnaly talked and i convinced her that i was having problems with my contacts (which is a common problem for me i need new contacts). She isnt going to look past it, she will leave because she doesnt want a repeat of the other guy.

I say do not concern yourself with things of this earth and the flesh. Try to enjoy every day like it is your last. Do what brings you joy and treat everyone like it is the last time you will ever see them. Just my two cents.

I would say after making that statement I am going to side with, do not let anyone control you, it can lead down a very terrible and dangerous path. Once you release control it is impossible to get it back.

Nope.. Why? Because I haven't had a girlfriend since... 2007. No, it was 2006. Because I met her in 2005, we were going out for about 8 months.. and it was January 4th, 2006 when she told that it wasn't going to work out.

She asked me what I thought about marijuana. But, being the idiot I am.. I did tell a lie to her. Which I regret doing.. because I still to this day, think about her from time to time. I lied to her and told her that I smoked pot in high school, but that I stopped smoking it after graduation.

And I think that she figured it out.. that I in fact do smoke pot. And that's the lie that broke the trust in our relationship. I take full responsibility for the outcome and sudden stop in that relationship. But hey, life goes on right? Right...

So yeah, again.. I would still say no. If I do ever find another girlfriend.. I'll probably just tell her outright, that hey you know.. I smoke pot and so if that's not going to work out for you.. just tell me so now. You know?

well, that's my 2cents worth.

peace...

when i'm showing people around the flat when the other room is spare, i always warn them that look, i love to smoke dope, i don't do it inside but i have to warn you, i only feel it fair.

The love of my life DOES smoke weed!

Here's the deal with quitting for a girl. If you tell her you quit but then 4 years down the road you hit a J on 420 with some buddies she's gonna be PISSED cause you LIED to her. Even though you've changed 99.9% that one incident is gonna piss her off big time like you've "been smoking weed behind her back" this entire time.

Plus I don't know if I could go from smoking multiple times a day everyday to not smoking at all. I did when I went on probation and I couldn't sleep at all, and when I could sleep I had VIVID dreams, which would wake me up again...

If that girl truly "gets" you then why is she making you quit something you love? Starts with weed, ends with you owning 2 Lhasa Apsos, driving a Camry, living back home in Ohio near HER family, etc.

Find something she loves that you're not crazy about and ask her if she'd quit that since you're quitting weed. Make it a teamwork thing. She caves.. you get to smoke weed again!

ThatGuy113 said:

Well she did almost dump me but some how i convinced her otherwise. Someone brought up in front of her that my eyes were redic bloodshot the other weekend and that i was so high. She instantly flipped after a couple of hours we finnaly talked and i convinced her that i was having problems with my contacts (which is a common problem for me i need new contacts). She isnt going to look past it, she will leave because she doesnt want a repeat of the other guy.

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but your not the other guy and bro if you need to lie then that lie will get nothing but bigger...and b4 you know it she isnt gonna give a fuck that you smoked weed she gonna be pissed that you have gone behind her back and smoked and then lied about it...what else have you been sneeking around and lieing about...get where im going...good luck my man...

Here's my view on this, if you are MADLY in love with her, then go by what your heart tells you. Sounds like a bunch of BS I realize that, but you would be suprised if you went with your heart. Certainly, not all decisions made that way are always positive. In the end though, if you are honest, and are the one who speaks first (in this case). She'll in all likelyhood be abit taken back by it, if she feels the same and doesn't want to break it off. You should have a heartfelt discussion.

......and here's is what I told my girlfriend (at the time)....."You do realise why I do it right?? Tokin' helps the rage inside of me keep at bay." "Don't you realise that I could kill anyone, and have no emotion while I do it" "It's the one bloody thing I have control over.""These kids screaming my head are quiet now. Let me smoke in peace please."

I realise man, you're situation is different. The point I am trying to make is, if you tell her how you truly feel, letting it be known that she is #1, you should be okay.

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Buddy_Williams

Buddy_Williams said:

Here's my view on this, if you are MADLY in love with her, then go by what your heart tells you. Sounds like a bunch of BS I realize that, but you would be suprised if you went with your heart. Certainly, not all decisions made that way are always positive. In the end though, if you are honest, and are the one who speaks first (in this case). She'll in all likelyhood be abit taken back by it, if she feels the same and doesn't want to break it off. You should have a heartfelt discussion.

......and here's is what I told my girlfriend (at the time)....."You do realise why I do it right?? Tokin' helps the rage inside of me keep at bay." "Don't you realise that I could kill anyone, and have no emotion while I do it" "It's the one bloody thing I have control over.""These kids screaming my head are quiet now. Let me smoke in peace please."

I realise man, you're situation is different. The point I am trying to make is, if you tell her how you truly feel, letting it be known that she is #1, you should be okay.

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Buddy_Williams

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That may sound like good advice, but the LAST thing you want to tell her is when you're sober you're a murderous lunatic who could fly off the handle at any minute.

DUDE you already answered your question at the beginning of your thread. someone who loves someone else doesn't judge them by petty things like smoking herb. clearly she has no clue about its medicinal qualities and what it does for people who need it and doesn't care if she's trying to make you quit. someone who loves you would never make you compromise who you are. i've heard this scenario a million times before. find a girl who loves you for who you are and BE HAPPY! i thought this girl was the love of my life and i considered quitting once now i'm with someone who is behind me 100% in whatever i do. thank god i listened to my head!!!

DON'T COMPROMISE WHO YOU ARE FOR ANYONE!!!

p.s. the future love of your life will never make you quit herb

My girl even supports my growing. Girls who don't judge you for pot do exist. Go find one!

ColoradoLove said:

Plus I don't know if I could go from smoking multiple times a day everyday to not smoking at all. I did when I went on probation and I couldn't sleep at all, and when I could sleep I had VIVID dreams, which would wake me up again...

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Same shits happening to me man