Hmm....Seems like we have another victim of the "OMG, don't water your plants or they'll die" bullshit, that goes on around here, waaaaay too much. Grrr.....that pisses me off.lol When you water, water heavily, so that every single crumb of soil gets wet, THEN, let it dry out for a few days, until about 75-85% of the moisture has dried, or been used by the plant, then water heavily again. Overwatering, is caused by soil with crappy drainage(most commonly), that stays wet too long, or by someone who waters all the time, never giving their soil a chance to dry out. If it dries out once a week, you'll never have a problem, no matter how heavily you water, when you water. Think about the rain outdoors.....If MJ plants couldn't handle heavy soakings, they would've went extinct years ago. Agreed? Also, ever notice how everything goes through a growth spurt, after a nice heavy rain?
I'm not sure about RO water, and it's PH, I never used it before. Sorry, I wish I could help.