I got arrested

[spandy]

how would you handle that situation?

Walked away without a word like I've done before.

But seriously, I would like to see the "cool head" crew react to a guy treating you like a bitch in front of your woman. All I can do is accept you say you would walk off, but IMO there is hormones and 300k years of evolution waiting to switch on.Fight or flight.. you gonna be treated like a bitch and then run off like one ? I have my doubts

There is no fight, so why engage in some douchebag's mouth? People can say many things, how you react is 100% on yourself.

Imo, the real bitch is the one not man enough to walk away from something has simple as words.

 

[spandy]

There is a lot of high horse riding around this thread. The fact of the matter is if any dude, regardless of race, insulted your masculinity by hitting on your gf in a derogatory manner, you would have to be some kind of pussy not to get in a fight. If there is ever and i mean ever a reason for us to use our evolved aggression mechanisms, it's when a hostile male threatens your mate. Stop preaching moral b.s.

Years back I told a guy at a bar I was taking my wife home to fuck her after he told her I wasn't man enough for a woman like her. His friends laughed so fucking hard as I immediately stood up and dropped cash on our table and walked out the door. Our food hadn't even showed up, kinda was pissed about that because I love that places cheese fries, but making him look like a douche was worth way more than throwing fists at him.

 

[sunni]

Walked away without a word like I've done before. There is no fight, so why engage in some douchebag's mouth? People can say many things, how you react is 100% on yourself. Imo, the real bitch is the one not man enough to walk away from something has simple as words.

ima have to agree. however i do know that OP is 18 but if a man said that to me at walmart, and my boyfriend beat him up i would leave my boyfriend, LOL thats just tacky violent and stupid be the bigger person ignore , walk away , go home, smoke a joint and laugh about it.

 

[BarnBuster]

sunni, you know there's more to the story we're not hearing and/or OP's spin on story to his "favor"

 

[tytheguy111]

My girlfriend heard that shit and looked at me all pissed off and it was a rational thought that I had to do something and I did now I could've walked away from the situation but my girl whould be pissed because she always expects me to defend her now I chould have done a bunch of other shit but I did that and I kinda fell bad because I don't want my brother to think fighting is the only way to solve problems now I will admit that I backed up his plan to beat up the school bully but thats it and I am ashamed of my actions

 

[mr sunshine]

ima have to agree. however i do know that OP is 18 but if a man said that to me at walmart, and my boyfriend beat him up i would leave my boyfriend, LOL thats just tacky violent and stupid be the bigger person ignore , walk away , go home, smoke a joint and laugh about it.

sMh are all Canadians unloyal .. If my gf left me because I got in a fight I would have to say fuck that bitch.but I'm from cali we stick by our people no matter what so maybe it's just different I don't know.

 

[UncleBuck]

don't give me rep, tyguy. i don't need you sullying up all my good rep.

 

[tytheguy111]

sunni, you know there's more to the story we're not hearing and/or OP's on story to his "favor"

Well godamn ill go into detail


Well I had just spit my dip out she wrapped herself in my arm and I thought damn this is going to be a good day even though my grandpa died ( I was vary close to him ) and we saw a group of black dudes sitting on a truck and one guy that had a smerk on his face came up and said to my girlfriend who was still in my arm and said " hey baby do you want to suck on my big black dick" and she looked at me with this really pissed off look and didn't say anything but she had that sturn girl look when they are pissed and needing something from you so I thought welp I have to do something and I just punched him in the eye and tackled him kinda and started laying haymakers ( like 8 ) and he spit in my eye so I took my keys in my fist and punched him in the face and walked off but this security guard type guy kept me and him there and my girl kept on saying that I didn't do anything and then the police asked me and him then his friends and my girl about what happened then they took me and him ( in separate cars of course ) then they took me to this station slash jail and cuffed me to a chair next to a Mexican who I talked to and he said he was gay and I still talked to him about how Kendrick Lamar is a good rapper then they took him and about 15mins later took me and finger printed me and put in jail with 5 other guys then they told me my that a officer wanted to talk to me and he told me it will probably be a mistamenor and I'll probably have community service and a anti violence class then they pulled ne again and told me that my mom and gf paid bail and they gave me a court date and I left

 

[tytheguy111]

don't give me rep, tyguy. i don't need you sullying up all my good rep.

Well godamn then iam sorry :/ I didn't mean to piss you off

 

[UncleBuck]

Well godamn then iam sorry :/

i think this calls for an apology thread.

 

[mr sunshine]

Years back I told a guy at a bar I was taking my wife home to fuck her after he told her I wasn't man enough for a woman like her. His friends laughed so fucking hard as I immediately stood up and dropped cash on our table and walked out the door. Our food hadn't even showed up, kinda was pissed about that because I love that places cheese fries, but making him look like a douche was worth way more than throwing fists at him.

So the guy insulted you in front of your wife and a room full of people. Then you left without your food! And you think you made him look bad? WTF

 

[ProHuman]

i think this calls for an apology thread.

I think it already is...

Guys well it happened I got arrested for assault and battery so I'll make a public apology too ...

Well godamn then iam sorry :/ I didn't mean to piss you off

As for the detailed explanation, ty...
... I can see in that case you had some limited options, there. Clearly someone trying to be an ass to impress his buddies targeted you. I think I would have came off with a smart ass comment and attempted to go about my buisness, but if pressed it may have come to blows, as well.
Sunni stated you were young, and I used to get into fights a lot back in the day, too. You live and learn that random fights in parking lots is not really worth it.

 

[mr sunshine]

I think it already is...



As for the detailed explanation, ty...
... I can see in that case you had some limited options, there. Clearly someone trying to be an ass to impress his buddies targeted you. I think I would have came off with a smart ass comment and attempted to go about my buisness, but if pressed it may have come to blows, as well.
Sunni stated you were young, and I used to get into fights a lot back in the day, too. You live and learn that random fights in parking lots is not really worth it.

Unless you win!

 

[tytheguy111]

I think it already is...



As for the detailed explanation, ty...
... I can see in that case you had some limited options, there. Clearly someone trying to be an ass to impress his buddies targeted you. I think I would have came off with a smart ass comment and attempted to go about my buisness, but if pressed it may have come to blows, as well.
Sunni stated you were young, and I used to get into fights a lot back in the day, too. You live and learn that random fights in parking lots is not really worth it.

Yeah I think I have already learned my lesson lol unless my life is threatened or I become the next chuck Norris I think my fighting days are over as well

 

[UncleBuck]

So the guy insulted you in front of your wife and a room full of people. Then you left without your food! And you think you made him look bad? WTF

did you notice his sig?

 

[ProHuman]

Unless you win!

AND get away with it.
going to jail, getting fingerprinted, having to shell out money for bail, and being summoned to court, paying fines, having a criminal record, etc.
..... All things I would consider a fail, even if I was victorious in the fight itself.

 

[dirtyho1968]

Hey OP, who called the cops? A concerned citizen or the guy's ass that you kicked?

 

[tytheguy111]

[QUOTEdirtyho1968;10378897]Hey OP, who called the cops? A concerned citizen or the guy's ass that you kicked?[/QUOTE]


Iak not sure but a security guard type person came up and made us stay there until the cops came which only took Like 4mins

 

[Red1966]

Nah, but on the off chance that OP was actually sincere this time, I offered my 2 pence. Speaking of 2 pence, I have a .50 euro coin in my car. It's worth about a dollar U.S., but nobody will accept it as currency. We have a bunch of random foreign currency from our previous careers.

a bank will take it.

 

[Red1966]

how would you handle that situation?

I wouldn't have left any witnesses.