I'm probably staying put here. Things will come around. This site has the best Michigan sub-forum of anywhere on the net, and I have met a ton of nice peeps (Rrog included) that I have become friends with and networked with.
I won't rule out joining elsewhere, but it seems that every place has its issues and eventually implodes. First it was ICMag (which is still OK, but kind of dead), then TSD which is now blown up and dead, then it was living organic soil, which we all know how that went. RIU has its issues, but it's been pretty good all things considered