Dabu
Well-Known Member
I have a pretty good friend of mine who helped me with advice and stuff on my grow. There's no way in heck he'd ever steal anything from me, or rat me out to the police. Every week or so he gets a kick out of coming over and checking out my grow, and seeing how it's going and stuff.
But now that it's like 2/3 of the way through flowering, he jokes around every so often "so... how much do i get? You know if you gave me some, I'd smoke you out when you came over" etc.
What should I say? In all honesty, I'd say he deserves about 1/8 ounce for moral support and smoking me out with his own weed. This is my first grow, and I honestly haven't smoked much weed. I've been stoned off my fucking ass about 5 times, properly high a total of maybe 10 times, buzzed another 15-20 times. That's it. He's been high like 100+ times, and smoked so much more than me. I've never really smoked by myself. Even when I had my own stuff (1/4 ounce), I smoked it with other people including him.
This grow is finally a chance for me to get a ton of my own shit, and have nice relaxing fun toking up on my own. But, I feel like it's being threatened by people wanting a share of the weed. An experienced pot smoker who doesn't grow, wanting the weed of an amateur pot smoker who took the initiative and the risk to grow.
Any advice?
In addition, I would like to note that yes, I have a backbone, and yes, I could tell him to fuck off if I really wanted, but no, I don't want to be a complete dick. What I really want to do is just have all my own shit, and just smoke him out whenever we hang out, etc.
The reasons for this: He's never actually given me weed to take home to smoke by myself; so why should I give him weed to smoke by himself? Especially when I am the inexperienced guy who has SO MUCH CATCHING UP TO DO! Amiright?
Also, I spent about $400 total on sunk costs such as two 150w HPS systems, a dozen or so CFLs, four lamp reflectors, some CFL y-splitters, an ELF carbon filter and 4 inch inline fan, and soil, pots, and hours and hours and hours of time.
None of my friends have really spent any money on the grow, so it's 100% my own. If that makes sense.
Advice from a noob pot smoker?
P.S. I'm expecting somewhere between 1 and 3 ounces harvest for the first grow (two plants). I have some insanely tall outdoor plants but they are just starting to show sex, and I'm not sure how well they'll do, or if I'll even be able to find a place to hide them until harvest.
But now that it's like 2/3 of the way through flowering, he jokes around every so often "so... how much do i get? You know if you gave me some, I'd smoke you out when you came over" etc.
What should I say? In all honesty, I'd say he deserves about 1/8 ounce for moral support and smoking me out with his own weed. This is my first grow, and I honestly haven't smoked much weed. I've been stoned off my fucking ass about 5 times, properly high a total of maybe 10 times, buzzed another 15-20 times. That's it. He's been high like 100+ times, and smoked so much more than me. I've never really smoked by myself. Even when I had my own stuff (1/4 ounce), I smoked it with other people including him.
This grow is finally a chance for me to get a ton of my own shit, and have nice relaxing fun toking up on my own. But, I feel like it's being threatened by people wanting a share of the weed. An experienced pot smoker who doesn't grow, wanting the weed of an amateur pot smoker who took the initiative and the risk to grow.
Any advice?
In addition, I would like to note that yes, I have a backbone, and yes, I could tell him to fuck off if I really wanted, but no, I don't want to be a complete dick. What I really want to do is just have all my own shit, and just smoke him out whenever we hang out, etc.
The reasons for this: He's never actually given me weed to take home to smoke by myself; so why should I give him weed to smoke by himself? Especially when I am the inexperienced guy who has SO MUCH CATCHING UP TO DO! Amiright?
Also, I spent about $400 total on sunk costs such as two 150w HPS systems, a dozen or so CFLs, four lamp reflectors, some CFL y-splitters, an ELF carbon filter and 4 inch inline fan, and soil, pots, and hours and hours and hours of time.
None of my friends have really spent any money on the grow, so it's 100% my own. If that makes sense.
Advice from a noob pot smoker?
P.S. I'm expecting somewhere between 1 and 3 ounces harvest for the first grow (two plants). I have some insanely tall outdoor plants but they are just starting to show sex, and I'm not sure how well they'll do, or if I'll even be able to find a place to hide them until harvest.
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