Needs advice on a girl

Lil_Bud97

Lil_Bud97

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Okay, so today where I live, we celebrated the 4th of July, and me and this girl have been together for 9 months on the 23rd. Okay, I went up there to see her and I couldn't find her anywhere, and her phone died she said when I finally met her. So my mom pulls up in her truck (I'm with her) and I get out and was like "wtf? Where have you been? I been lookin for you for 2 hours." And so I could get her to get out to talk to me. So that hurt my feelins very bad so I start cryin, and she just like.. Drives off with her friend and now she doesn't wanna continue the relationship because she's fixin to go off to college and she thinks my momma is crazy. What do I do to get her back? Any advice? I love her to death.. And I've cried since like 8:00PM and it's 3:30AM here now. And she also smokes weed. Maybe that can help you guys help me. I feel like I can come to you guys for advice since I don't have a dad (he died when I was 4-5)
 
tyke1973

tyke1973

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Ya will be fine dude,if she has done one let her go,it will hurt for a while but ya will get there in the end woman are a funny bunch stick to female cannabis plants they give you nothing but love and the right woman will come along when ya least exspect it.
 
Dr. Who

Dr. Who

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On average, you'll be hurt again....Sounds like she may be on the way out. Let her go and don't appear to "clingy", stay aloof and make her think she needs you. If she splits.......There's A LOT more fish in sea. The best thing is to find one that fits your "needs" and bugs you to do things with her. Yet able to accept your space.......

LOL, My Dad said that there are 3 type's of girls out there (and they ain't gunna like this) "Spitter's, Swallower's and Painters. If you find a painter, don't let go, they are rare" !

Pop passed right before Christmas at 94. WWII vet, 206th Pathfinders, 101st Airborne.....One hell of a tough guy!
Miss you Dad!
 
tyke1973

tyke1973

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just one reason to keep all things like growing to your self,unless you have a permit,if she has done this to you then she must not have felt the same for you has you felt for her so its hard but just move on plenty more fish in the sea.

wish ya well dude sometimes lifes a bitch and then you marry one
 
TubePot

TubePot

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Do NOTHING and cowboy up.

Can't force her to like you, hurts like a bitch now but take the advice from all of us here that have been there and done that.
Something good will come of this, I guarantee it. :bigjoint:
 
THCbreeder

THCbreeder

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Lil_Bud97 said:
Okay, so today where I live, we celebrated the 4th of July, and me and this girl have been together for 9 months on the 23rd. Okay, I went up there to see her and I couldn't find her anywhere, and her phone died she said when I finally met her. So my mom pulls up in her truck (I'm with her) and I get out and was like "wtf? Where have you been? I been lookin for you for 2 hours." And so I could get her to get out to talk to me. So that hurt my feelins very bad so I start cryin, and she just like.. Drives off with her friend and now she doesn't wanna continue the relationship because she's fixin to go off to college and she thinks my momma is crazy. What do I do to get her back? Any advice? I love her to death.. And I've cried since like 8:00PM and it's 3:30AM here now. And she also smokes weed. Maybe that can help you guys help me. I feel like I can come to you guys for advice since I don't have a dad (he died when I was 4-5)
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So the first love always hurts the most . That was your first love and won't be your last . My honest advice is to let her go . If your man enough to suck up the tears , Face her one more time to say " this it it , goodbye, I hope you do well in college . Maybe I'll see you around " and walk away with your head held high like a man . The pain will subside and you have to be bigger and stronger than her no physically but emotionally. She"ll keep texting you but believe me if you want to always leave that door cracked do not respond . Then think about yourself . What are you going to do in life ? Where are you headed ? You going to be educated ? Trade school ? Nothing attracts women more than an educated man with passion for a future plan he has for himself . Forget about everyone else and take on the world . Life lessons I'm only passing on to you my friend . We've all been there
 
Singlemalt

Singlemalt

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THCbreeder said:
So the first love always hurts the most . That was your first love and won't be your last . My honest advice is to let her go . If your man enough to suck up the tears , Face her one more time to say " this it it , goodbye, I hope you do well in college . Maybe I'll see you around " and walk away with your head held high like a man . The pain will subside and you have to be bigger and stronger than her no physically but emotionally. She"ll keep texting you but believe me if you want to always leave that door cracked do not respond . Then think about yourself . What are you going to do in life ? Where are you headed ? You going to be educated ? Trade school ? Nothing attracts women more than an educated man with passion for a future plan he has for himself . Forget about everyone else and take on the world . Life lessons I'm only passing on to you my friend . We've all been there
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What this guy said^^^^^ We've all been thru it and it never works
 
srh88

srh88

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Lil_Bud97 said:
I love her to death.. And I've cried since like 8:00PM and it's 3:30AM here now.
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but some decent advice i guess.. i had a chick i was super into in high school.. we were together around a year was nothing but good times with her.. now actually this week our paths crossed.. in a whole different state and everything. we had a really good talk for a little bit then went out got some dinner and stuff then spent 3 days just destroying a hotel bed. and a hot tub lol.. but now shes looking for a job where i am and im kinda excited. so you never know what kinda shit life will toss you
 
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The Coppers

The Coppers

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The first cut is the deepest. It's a life experience we all go through. Find a way to get mad, it helps getting over her. Try to hook up with another girl ASAP, that helps even more.

Good luck, ma dude.
 
tytheguy111

tytheguy111

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Lil_Bud97 said:
Okay, so today where I live, we celebrated the 4th of July, and me and this girl have been together for 9 months on the 23rd. Okay, I went up there to see her and I couldn't find her anywhere, and her phone died she said when I finally met her. So my mom pulls up in her truck (I'm with her) and I get out and was like "wtf? Where have you been? I been lookin for you for 2 hours." And so I could get her to get out to talk to me. So that hurt my feelins very bad so I start cryin, and she just like.. Drives off with her friend and now she doesn't wanna continue the relationship because she's fixin to go off to college and she thinks my momma is crazy. What do I do to get her back? Any advice? I love her to death.. And I've cried since like 8:00PM and it's 3:30AM here now. And she also smokes weed. Maybe that can help you guys help me. I feel like I can come to you guys for advice since I don't have a dad (he died when I was 4-5)
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I usually don't help out people who like dodge because of my ford power stroke obsession

BUT ILL TELL YA WHAT TO DO


If she isn't moving far then

tell her that you love her and you dont care if she moves an hour away or a week away

You still want to be with her

Make sure that she knows that YOU love her

And you'll be heart broken

If she knows that then it truly is her decision

Ik how u feel it sucks it make u not want to get out of bed for days on end

But if she does leave u you'll move on
 
ChingOwn

ChingOwn

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The Coppers said:


The first cut is the deepest. It's a life experience we all go through. Find a way to get mad, it helps getting over her. Try to hook up with another girl ASAP, that helps even more.

Good luck, ma dude.
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that is honostly probably the worst you tube video I have ever seen and that includes FinShaggys

Luckily with two internal clicks to that vis I found this and if it don make you feel good nothing will

 
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