Hi All...I've been single for I guess about 5 or more years. I've only ever been with one girl. I'm begining to wonder if it's gonna be like this for the rest of my physical experience on Earth. Every female I meet thinks I'm really nice, but has no interest. I don't get it. Any opinions???
I'm sending you some +rep. This thread demonstrates an impressive level of self-awareness and courage.
Most guys who find themselves in this position just need to fish in a sweet spot and use the right bait. This is where female acquaintances come in handy. Ask a female friend: What outside activity she would love to do with her man? You'll receive answers presenting a wealth of opportunities to meet women.
For example, if the acquaintance says, "I'd love it if my man took me dancing every once in a while." If dancing suits you, take dancing classes. Without fail, more women than men show up at those classes. You'll meet plenty of women. Substitute any activity with 'dancing.' You get the idea.
The next thing is you have to look in a mirror. When women date, they are looking for a mate. That is the ultimate goal. Having fun is a fringe benefit.
What you should look for when you gaze at the mirror is anything a woman in the dating scene might label 'un-matelike.'
What's the old joke about stoners? Something like, 'How do you spot a car-full of stoners?' None of them have girlfriends.