It's quite simple, according to the Bible a marriage is between a man and woman whom come together as one. The woman came from man, and through the marriage are coming back together to be completed. Therefor, the marriage cannot happen. this applies to any same sex couple trying to get married in a Christian ceremony.
My first quote of yours was misdirected as I thought that post was from Chesus, so I apologize for that one. I'm still not sure which side of the fence you are on. Reread my posts here to see I am for equal rights. I am no bigott as UB has tried to imply over and over here.
As for a debate I'm up for any topic. I've spent years of my life also studying Christianity, Judiasm, Islam, Hinduism, and Buddhism. I have thoroughly studied apologetics. It really doesn't matter to me.
well I don't think the religious order has a say in these matters as this is a state issue, do I think gay men and wome should marry in a Christian church? No I don't, and why would they want to? But should they have all the same rights and responsibilities as a heterosexual couple yes I do. I only say no to a Christian wedding because the church has not evolved enough to accept gay unions, does God hate gays no, do a lot of christians hate gays oh yes they do. My whole point is who are we to judge people? Does not God judge us all at the end? Will God reject you because you didn't love everyone and judged them for their sins whilst acting pious and ignoring your own? We can't just love those who are the same as us we must love everyone and especially the ones society shuns because as a Christian that's what Jesus would do. He washed the feet of philistines, prostitutes and criminals and recruited the lowest from society to be his disciples. He said
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r“Do not think that I have come to bring peace to the earth.
sI have not come to bring peace, but a sword.35
rFor I have come
tto set a man against his father, and a daughter against her mother, and a daughter-in-law against her mother-in-law.36
uAnd a person's enemies will be those of his own household. 37
vWhoever loves father or mother more than me is not worthy of me, and whoever loves son or daughter more than me is not worthy of me. 38
wwhoever does not take his cross and
xfollow me is not worthy of me. 39
yWhoever finds his life will lose it, and whoever loses his life for my sake will find it.
in other words you must reject what those around you say if it is not the path of Christ, you must turn away from those that pervert the scripture whether it be family or friend, even if it costs you everything! That's what a Christian is and yes that means defending gays, and anyone else that is oppressed and discriminated against