Why do you consider me offering money to someone who is openly offering a public service an act of aggression, Rob?
An "offer that can't be refused" is not a real offer. It is a threat and a strong arm tactic. When people interact, if the glue that holds the interaction together is based in a threat....it is impossible for the interaction to be consensual.
I don't think I have the right to force anyone to interact with me on their own property if they prefer not to. If I make them interact with me, I become the aggressor, that is self evident. Since if I never went to THEIR property in the first place, no forced interaction will have taken place as long as they are remaining on THEIR property.
Also, those people that don't want to interact with you, they are not "openly offering" to interact with you. They are not consenting to interact with you, they are only doing so to prevent the non owner of the property (government) from harming them. That is also self evident.
If you believe you have a right to control your own body and your own property, it also becomes self evident other people do to.
What they do with it, is another story and it isn't necessary to the protection of your right to control yourself to violate their right to control themselves or their own property.
I appreciate your asking questions and refraining from saying my recognition of a bigots rights to control his own property is not my endorsement of how he would control it. They are two distinctly separate things.