Parents!!!!! Growing with younger children... Do you explain?

Toke+Choke

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I had a friend who thought his daughter everything he knew so if uni and everything else fell through she had a trade also she was learning ;) she was 12 at this point lol
Very close family actually had respect for the man!
 

Carthoris

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That's Wheat.. and its irrelevant. 1938 was the year for that ruling.

The government will allow it in the memo.. 2013..

The federal governments stance on this is that local enforcement take care of marijuana. As long as they follow the guidelines in the cole memo, they will not enforce. They could regulate if they see things are getting out of control, but right now its good to go.

I dont even think you're taking into account that was to control overproduction. Not so much as the government telling you what you can and cant grow, MJ isn't exactly a necessary crop like wheat. I could see them stepping in a situation like california and restricting MJ grows in favor of food crops. I have serious doubts that Alaska would be able to oversupply with our indoor gardens.
Memo's don't make things legal or illegal. Until marijuana is rescheduled it is illegal, no ifs ands or buts.. All the memos in the world don't change what the law is. The law says marijuana does not have medical benefits and is illegal.

They were still shutting down legal dispensaries last year in California. http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2014/10/24/dea-raid-medical-marijuana-los-angeles_n_6038926.html

The point wasn't about wheat. It was that the federal government can outlaw anything it wants in the name of 'interstate commerce' whether that be growing a plant in your yard, picking your nose, buying insurance, or flushing your toilet. The same (imaginary) powers that allowed them to do that in 1938 is what the entire drug war is based off of. They use the argument that interstate trade is affected by individual or intrastate production and consumption of something. You growing a marijuana plant at your house changes the supply/price in the entire country in the same way that the wheat example did and thus gives the federal government complete control over it. If you want to continue debating it then lets do it in PM or in the debate forum.
 

Carthoris

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Dude after debating this with you i dont see any reason not to involve your kids if you want to. As a person you seem responsible enough but say your 18 year old son is spending all his time with dubious friends and getting in trouble and rebelling then i dont think he needs to be anywhere near your stash.

That said if anyone has a hot daughter approaching 18 with a really hot ass then you should totally teach her to grow weed, this is sooo sexy in a woman it needs to be law.
Plenty of reasons not. It doesn't change what people do though.
 

Carthoris

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I'm at a tour of a brewing facility right now, where they do beer tasting. Guess what? People actually bring their infant children here. I'm looking at a stroller right now.
How often do grow houses have crimes vs breweries? How many brewers get murdered vs growers?
 

GrowerGoneWild

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Memo's don't make things legal or illegal. Until marijuana is rescheduled it is illegal, no ifs ands or buts.. All the memos in the world don't change what the law is. The law says marijuana does not have medical benefits and is illegal.

They were still shutting down legal dispensaries last year in California. http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2014/10/24/dea-raid-medical-marijuana-los-angeles_n_6038926.html

The point wasn't about wheat. It was that the federal government can outlaw anything it wants in the name of 'interstate commerce' whether that be growing a plant in your yard, picking your nose, buying insurance, or flushing your toilet. The same (imaginary) powers that allowed them to do that in 1938 is what the entire drug war is based off of. They use the argument that interstate trade is affected by individual or intrastate production and consumption of something. You growing a marijuana plant at your house changes the supply/price in the entire country in the same way that the wheat example did and thus gives the federal government complete control over it. If you want to continue debating it then lets do it in PM or in the debate forum.
The same memo is mentioned in your link that outlines the federal guidelines for a legal state. As far as that link they only tried to shut down 2, of them how many hundreds of dispensaries are in the LA area? Most likely they were in violation of the terms in the memo.. With all the dispensaries like say.. Harborside Medical, they continue to run because of compliance with state law not federal laws.

Marijuana is governed by state laws in legal states. IF there are violations the government could shut them down but that does not mean it will end in a conviction.. That is the the message communicated by the memo.

I do not deny marijuana is a schedule 1 substance.

But there is no price structure or does the government subsidize mj, so stop with that position. in a way the government forbids marijuana, but will allow it if the state laws follows the memo.

Im not taking this to PM.. Hell no..
 

Nullis

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How often do grow houses have crimes vs breweries? How many brewers get murdered vs growers?
I don't even think those statistics are available.

But seriously? Think critically for a sec here... people growing small-scale really don't get murdered all that often. Even commercial growers are probably more likely to get busted than murdered. You're being overly dramatic.

How many tobacco growers get murdered? Wonder why that is.

Either way your point is moot and you're missing the forest. Although I'm sure some brewers and bathtub-booze producers got murdered during prohibition.
 

Keighan

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Hello from Aroostook County. I have 3 little ones and I feel its alot better than them seeing pills in a medicine cabinet etc, its truely no different than keeping your kids sheltered from you smoking cigarettes other than by hiding your natural medicine I see a larger negative subconcious implications that could possibly lay for our children.
 

Nullis

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I was just at a Wegmans and witnessed an Indian family with three seemingly well cared for kids and nothing but three 36-packs of booze in the shopping cart.

I'm sure the children wont witness their parents consume the horrible intoxicating beverages, though. :roll:
 

Carthoris

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Hello from Aroostook County. I have 3 little ones and I feel its alot better than them seeing pills in a medicine cabinet etc, its truely no different than keeping your kids sheltered from you smoking cigarettes other than by hiding your natural medicine I see a larger negative subconcious implications that could possibly lay for our children.
You shouldn't leave your pill bottles in the play area of your children, you shouldn't leave an unlocked kegerator in reach of children, ect. These are all safety hazards as well as things that really are examples of bad parenting. People who grow marijuana have what is essentially a fireball in a glass tube in a plastic tent full of other plastic materials that readily burn with lots of water involved. The risk of shock and fire is pretty high with kids 'playing' around it. Skating, throwing balls, ect. Aside from the mental connection that getting high is OK even if it is justified medically or if you are in a legal state.

The argument that people smoke tobacco and drink around their children and so it must be OK to be high and grow marijuana around your children is a silly one at best.

I don't think there is anyone here who isn't pro-marijuana. That is why we are here, right? I feel that every one of you should be allowed to make these decisions for yourself. The OP asked peoples opinions and what they do about it.

My opinion is that children should not be around it. If it is in your home then you need to set ground rules for an area that is yours. No one aside from my wife has been in my bedroom for the last 5+ years. The door stays locked at all times. Even if you entered the bedroom, there is no sign that anything is or ever was grown there. You might be able to make out a slight hum but it sounds like it is the AC in the attic. If you want your kids to know you smoke/eat/grow marijuana then that is your decision to make about your children. Just know that your children will tell people, people will consider you a bad parent, and that while you operate in a grey area of enforcement, it is illegal and you need to be considerate of the example you set for your children. Just because you aren't ashamed of it doesn't mean there aren't consequences to your children being involved.

Calling it medical doesn't change anything for me. Most people do not medically 'need' it. They already smoked before they were sick and they just use that as an excuse to grow it. You shouldn't need an excuse to do what you want when you aren't hurting anyone but I understand how the world works. Spend the couple hundred dollars, make a small grow room in your bedroom or area that is not accessible to children, and grow happy and secure knowing the kids aren't shocking themselves, burning the house down, or seeing it every day.
 

Carthoris

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I was just at a Wegmans and witnessed an Indian family with three seemingly well cared for kids and nothing but three 36-packs of booze in the shopping cart.

I'm sure the children wont witness their parents consume the horrible intoxicating beverages, though. :roll:

I saw a Somalian kill people on TV therefor it must be ok for me to beat my neighbor with a baseball bat.
 

GrowerGoneWild

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Just know that your children will tell people, people will consider you a bad parent, and that while you operate in a grey area of enforcement, it is illegal and you need to be considerate of the example you set for your children. Just because you aren't ashamed of it doesn't mean there aren't consequences to your children being involved.
Thats your opinion and incorrect based on facts.
Since you are so fond on using Wiki for facts.. here ya go..
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Legality_of_cannabis_by_U.S._jurisdiction#By_state

There are thousands of state regulated shops operating now, dispensaries, recreational, operating legally under state guidelines... This demonstrates that federal law clearly has made exclusions for enforcement.

Here's the rules and regs draft for my area.. part of them anyways. https://www.commerce.alaska.gov/web/Portals/9/pub/DraftSet3Final.pdf

Currently as a private home cultivator, even now I am not breaking the local law. And when I get a licence I will not be breaking the law either... And I do not flower in my home, my plants are literally inert and pose no physical hazard.

However.. its more dangerous in my opinion to operate a grow that has has a felony penalty for cultivation. The last thing a child needs is a parent in jail.
 

Nullis

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I saw a Somalian kill people on TV therefor it must be ok for me to beat my neighbor with a baseball bat.
Go search for the forest moron. Don't let it stab you in the ass. I've heard pine sap irritates the rectum.

Point is adults get intoxicated around children all the time. Only difference here is the substance and method of production.

People growing their own Cannabis who have children aren't exactly shooting it up or cooking meth, they're growing fucking plants. As far as older adolescents go it would be prudent for parents to lock up their grow room and consumable Cannabis just as they would their liquor or prescription drugs. Whether the Cannabis is for medical or recreational doesn't really matter.

Most parents don't hide the simple fact that they have a few drinks every now and again (or every night) from their children. They usually don't have to because again, it's socially acceptable. As long as they aren't raging alcoholics or abusive they don't have to worry about jackasses like you and 2Hearts judging them for it.

If you want to talk drugs and kids as far as real dangers go, let me tell you I've seen some shit. Such as heroin and crack cocaine being sold openly in front of young children by their parents or relatives. So if you want to worry about some parents or their children getting murdered you might want to start with ones like that.
 

Carthoris

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Go search for the forest moron. Don't let it stab you in the ass. I've heard pine sap irritates the rectum.

Point is adults get intoxicated around children all the time. Only difference here is the substance and method of production.

People growing their own Cannabis who have children aren't exactly shooting it up or cooking meth, they're growing fucking plants. As far as older adolescents go it would be prudent for parents to lock up their grow room and consumable Cannabis just as they would their liquor or prescription drugs. Whether the Cannabis is for medical or recreational doesn't really matter.

Most parents don't hide the simple fact that they have a few drinks every now and again (or every night) from their children. They usually don't have to because again, it's socially acceptable. As long as they aren't raging alcoholics or abusive they don't have to worry about jackasses like you and 2Hearts judging them for it.

If you want to talk drugs and kids as far as real dangers go, let me tell you I've seen some shit. Such as heroin and crack cocaine being sold openly in front of young children by their parents or relatives. So if you want to worry about some parents or their children getting murdered you might want to start with ones like that.
Go search in your ass, idiot.

Just because someone does it doesn't mean it is ok. One shouldn't justify their own action by how others act.

Cocaine, opium, and heroin all come from plants. Opium isn't processed. This doesn't change what these things are.

Whether someone chooses to hide what they do or not has nothing to do with it. That doesn't change right or wrong.

I thought the point of the OP was to ask our opinions about this. He would not have asked if he didn't feel that what he was doing was somehow wrong, would he have? It isn't about judging people. That was my opinion. I don't hold anyone else to it, it is just how I feel about it and that was the entire point of this thread, wasn't it? It is messed up that no one really had an issue with someone saying something like they taught their 12 year old to grow marijuana and trim is but saying that children shouldn't be around grow rooms or drugs was an instant attack fest. It is no wonder such a big chunk of the country looks down on marijuana smokers.

You seem to be implying that I don't care about crackheads doing drug deals in front of their children or that I am attacking marijuana in particular. I'm not. If the guy would not have asked the question then we wouldn't even be talking about this, would we? It isn't like I popped into a conversation that wasn't about this and started bashing someone for letting their kids play in their grow room. You need to grow up. I think it is pretty easy to tell who is being the jackass here.
 

Bacala

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.... More than anything I want enough for trial and error to cook with. I expect I'd need a bit, as the first few batches might suck?
There is an excellent How-To on this site that will ensure your first few batches won't suck. I followed it for my first-ever batch of butter and it was a total success. Of course this is RIU, so the thread eventually went off the rails like this one has, but just focus on the illustrated instructions and don't bother with all the chatter. Here's the link:

Canna Butter Tutorial

Good luck, and enjoy.
 

colonuggs

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Just Remember guys .... Marijuana is listed a schedule 1 drug because the U.S. Government states it has no medical value

The U.S. Government (Dept. of Health) has a U.S. patent on the medical properties in Marijuana :)

U.S. Patent # 6630507..." Cannabinoids as Antioxidants and Neuroprotectants" acquired in 2001 and holds it til 2021

The Federal government has had a patent on the Medical properties of/in marijuana for 13 years already

By the U.S. Governments own definition of what a schedule 1 drug is.....Marijuana is can not be listed as one.....VOID!!!
 
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upinthesticks

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Hello from Aroostook County. I have 3 little ones and I feel its alot better than them seeing pills in a medicine cabinet etc, its truely no different than keeping your kids sheltered from you smoking cigarettes other than by hiding your natural medicine I see a larger negative subconcious implications that could possibly lay for our children.
Ahh up in THE county! I'm also from the county originally, little farther south now :). Thanks for your input!

There is an excellent How-To on this site that will ensure your first few batches won't suck. I followed it for my first-ever batch of butter and it was a total success. Of course this is RIU, so the thread eventually went off the rails like this one has, but just focus on the illustrated instructions and don't bother with all the chatter. Here's the link:

Canna Butter Tutorial

Good luck, and enjoy.
Awesome!!!! Thank you!!!!
 

Nullis

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Go search in your ass, idiot.

Just because someone does it doesn't mean it is ok. One shouldn't justify their own action by how others act.

Cocaine, opium, and heroin all come from plants. Opium isn't processed. This doesn't change what these things are.

Whether someone chooses to hide what they do or not has nothing to do with it. That doesn't change right or wrong.

I thought the point of the OP was to ask our opinions about this. He would not have asked if he didn't feel that what he was doing was somehow wrong, would he have? It isn't about judging people. That was my opinion. I don't hold anyone else to it, it is just how I feel about it and that was the entire point of this thread, wasn't it? It is messed up that no one really had an issue with someone saying something like they taught their 12 year old to grow marijuana and trim is but saying that children shouldn't be around grow rooms or drugs was an instant attack fest. It is no wonder such a big chunk of the country looks down on marijuana smokers.

You seem to be implying that I don't care about crackheads doing drug deals in front of their children or that I am attacking marijuana in particular. I'm not. If the guy would not have asked the question then we wouldn't even be talking about this, would we? It isn't like I popped into a conversation that wasn't about this and started bashing someone for letting their kids play in their grow room. You need to grow up. I think it is pretty easy to tell who is being the jackass here.
My ass is clean I just took a huge dump.

Have you ever been to a liquor store? BBQ? Family function or reunion? etc? Tell me for a second that people (adults) don't openly purchase or consume alcoholic beverages around children of all ages. We're not talking about "someone" singular and this is far from person-who reasoning. This is a social fucking norm we're talking about, at least where I am from, and from the East to the West coast of the USA. People bring their children to liquor stores. People bring their children to breweries. People brew beer in the presence of children. People consume alcohol in the presence of children. Not some people... many people... frequently. We all agree that alcohol is or can be significantly more intoxicating than Cannabis, right?

So I'm implying you're a moron by saying shit like:
One shouldn't justify their own action by how others act.
When justifying/assesing one's own actions based upon how others act collectively is the virtual definition of normal.

And also by saying shit like:
How often do grow houses have crimes vs breweries? How many brewers get murdered vs growers?
Which, in my opinion, is judging parents who grow. As if you must know what is best for their children or what their fate might be. As if you think you know how everything goes everywhere as a matter of circumstances and so forth. Do you honestly think parents would grow, let alone be at all open about it, if they figured it would get them or their children killed or injured? Sure some would just as some people would do virtually anything without thinking of the consequences (case in point, selling crack around children). The fact is, though, that in many places including many parts of the US it simply is not like that. That is pure melodrama.

Also cocaine and heroin definitely ARE processed. Heroin doesn't come from any plant directly. It's processed from morphine (acetylated) which is processed from opium, which is a far cry from heroin. Even opium sap, it comes from a plant but it is not a plant. Then of course pure morphine has a markedly different effect profile than raw opium. Morphine, cocaine and heroin are all refined substances. Cannabis is a plant, which is merely a plant, which does not contain any seriously addictive substances of any kind. Even cocaine is present in Coca plants in such small quantities (half of 1%) so as not even to be addictive if consumed in it's natural form. Opium is addictive in it's 'natural' form, but not exactly like morphine or heroin is. Both diamorphine (Heroin) and morphine are significantly more addictive than natural opium. God created opium to give us this wonderful class of compounds to ease our pain and aid our sick (case in point Tuberculosis). It didn't give it to us without stipulation or limitation, because pain is part of life and the one who attempts needlessly to dream it all away will only perpetuate more of it in the long run.

That's exactly what I'm going to tell my child about opium/opioids/drugs in general when the time comes and I wish someone had told me that instead of "Drugs R bad mmmkay?". Because half-truths, misinformation, stern warnings and adults beating around the bush is exactly what gets kids curious about drugs in the first place. Again most children/adolescents are not stupid, in fact the more intelligent they are the more likely they are to see through it and deem it an attempt to conceal something from them. In fact, studies have demonstrated that kids with higher IQs are more likely to use drugs. The exact reasoning is yet unknown and I don't think the BCS1970 even assessed drug education curriculum/attitudes of authority figures, which may actually be an important third variable.

Of course, opium is absolutely nothing like Cannabis, which should be obvious. Even so, people do grow the opium poppy (Papaver somniferum) in their gardens all across the country. There are different varieties of poppy such as the California poppy (Eschscholzia californica) which produce an all-together different set of alkaloids. However, opium poppy is still grown for ornamental purposes despite it being technically illegal and despite the potential someone may scratch the pods to harvest any opium. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Papaver_somniferum#Ornamental_cultivation

So what I am saying is that in a world where Cannabis is legal and socially acceptable like alcohol (as it should be) this should be a non-issue, especially considering that Cannabis isn't a lethal, damaging or addictive substance like alcohol is. It's not a refined substance like hard liquor is; even refined forms of Cannabis are not nearly as dangerous. Remember, alcohol actually kills people and is physically addictive. Not to mention that alcohol withdrawal can kill you too. Yet, children actually brew beer as a hobby as well. Children help their parents brew beer. Some teachers use beer brewing as a biology assignment. Not without some controversy, but all of that is perfectly legal as long as little Billy doesn't drink the finished product.

http://insider.foxnews.com/2013/11/02/underage-kids-taught-how-brew-beer-school
http://www.homebrewtalk.com/showthread.php?t=232562 <<< Home-brewing parents discuss brewing with children.
http://redtri.com/socal/kid-friendly-craft-beer-joints-in-san-diego/#

Does that make it right? Well, maybe that's not for you or me to say. I'll worry about my child, my parenting and nobody else's- except in a case where I could say beyond reasonable doubt that someone else's parenting (or lack-thereof) is putting a child in direct harm. Otherwise, not my kid not my call. Don't tread on me, bitches, and I'll return the favor.

Me personally? I don't even like beer! Nor do I necessarily agree with teaching a 12 year old how to manicure, but that just isn't my call and I still don't think it posses any direct harm to the child in most cases. Most dangerous factor there is they are handling scissors. Scissors are notoriously prone to leading to injuries with children.
 
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