I hate kids

[WeedFreak78]

I fell your pain, I can't really stand most kids, but it seems like if they are around they gravitate to me, I don't get it, I'm even kind of rude to them and they won't go away, I don't think they understand subtle hints, little snotbags.
Tell him any time he annoys an adult a monster will be waiting under his bed/in his closet. Next time he annoys you get a mask and scare the crap out of him at like 1am, screaming "you annoyed an adult,I'm going to eat your liver" or something to that effect. Gotta use psychological warfare with kids these days, really get in their head and F them up. It'll make them stronger adults..or quivering messes..meh..ain't my kid, maybe you should throat punch the mother instead?

 

[GrowUrOwnDank]

Since the child is not motivated and self entertained, well. Let's just say, hmmm. Anyway, set up a tv, put sponge bob on. Download him some games on an iPod, old iPhone, kindle fire or whatever. Then just sit him down somewhere and let him veg on that. Feed when necessary. No cokes or candy. No Popsicles or anything that will make him hyper. Have a different tv in the bedroom for you and your girl. Make her get up and go check on him. I wouldn't let him think you are "part" of his family until you are sure about the girl and decide YOU are ready to take on the challenge of being an important part of this kids life. Tell him to call you by your first name. No pops or any of that crap. It's misleading unless you are ready for taking on responsibilities like a parent. I don't know man. I've actually been where you are. The kid was spoiled as heck by his mom and her mom. It was god awful spending time with him. Sometimes, the package just isn't worth it. The kid needs a father figure no doubt. But, you gotta decide if you want to be that type in his life or else, you may need to find you a new girl so she can find someone who wants to mentor the child like the child needs.

I don't hate kids. But I elect NOT to raise other people's kids. Sorry. Just not my cup of tea. But, there are a lot of guys out there who love children and would gladly mentor her child I am sure.

 

[lahadaextranjera]

Poor kid. Is he so desperate for your attention because his parents ignore him?

Try not to be mean to him. Id speak to the parents.

Tv and video games are an easy way out of taking care of kids properly.

 

[Bublonichronic]

Seems like the child is craving attention.
Is there anyone else there who actually communicates, not just talks to but actually listens to him? Is there anyone else who plays with him?

Kids can be annoying at times, but they can also be lots of fun. You've just gotta try to remember what it's like to be a kid and make the effort.

A bat, a ball, a baseball glove or a football and the great outdoors are great places to start.

I know his best friend(maybe only) died a couple months ago, he was left in a car and ended up over heating, he was with his grandparents and apparently fell asleep in the car and was left there for way to long, so the story goes... it was pretty say...i dunno I guess next time I'll try to get him outside n skateboard or somthing with him

 

[Bublonichronic]

Poor kid. Is he so desperate for your attention because his parents ignore him?

I think that's a lot to do with the problem

 

[whitebb2727]

If your brother has the kid in his household, then it is somewhat his kid. Shrugging his shoulders and passing along the responsibility is lame on your brothers part. Like Corso said, more physical activity and less video. Tell your bro to man up and help set a better example for the kid. Kids need direction from people they respect.

Yep. Kids need structure and a role model. Also discipline.

Sorry, I know he is your brother but he needs to do all those things.

My kids hate the corner more than anything.

 

[ricky1lung]

Yep. Kids need structure and a role model. Also discipline.

Sorry, I know he is your brother but he needs to all those things.

My kids hate the corner more than anything.

If the brother wanted to step in, he also has to step up.
I couldn't agree more.

Kind of a double edged sword being a step parent I believe.
Gotta be careful not to be too lax or too strict. Most importantly respect the family, their household and their way of doing things.

 

[curious2garden]

so every time I go to my brothers place his girlfriends kid is like obsessed with me, always hanging on me and screaming at me to play video games with him and just being a little nut case..she tells me he loves me and is always askin when I'm coming over which is cool but the kid is so damn annoying and I don't really know how to get him to just calm the fuck down, it's getting to the point I don't even want to go over there anymore, so how do you deal with a kid that's not yours that acts like a total pain in the ass, I've tryd bribing him with money to just sit down and chill the fuck out but that don't work I think he has some serious adhd or somthing, should I hit him? Lol jk, but sometimes I think that's what he needs is some serious discipline

Take control instead of letting that poor attention starved kid wag you. Take him out to a park or anyplace with a hill and run him up and down the hill. Get a ball and a bat and have him chase fly's. 45 minutes should about do it. Then you will have a peaceful evening with your brother.

Give the brother the ball and bat (wiffle if he's young) and hopefully he will begin to interact with aforementioned child so he can begin to build a social interface.

 

[justugh]

so every time I go to my brothers place his girlfriends kid is like obsessed with me, always hanging on me and screaming at me to play video games with him and just being a little nut case..she tells me he loves me and is always askin when I'm coming over which is cool but the kid is so damn annoying and I don't really know how to get him to just calm the fuck down, it's getting to the point I don't even want to go over there anymore, so how do you deal with a kid that's not yours that acts like a total pain in the ass, I've tryd bribing him with money to just sit down and chill the fuck out but that don't work I think he has some serious adhd or somthing, should I hit him? Lol jk, but sometimes I think that's what he needs is some serious discipline

your the adult with access to mind altering drugs ....... get stoned back to 5 year old and sit down play army men

i got the same trouble with my nephew ......i am the Funcle (fun uncle)....even worst other ppls kids like me and they fallow me around when i am drunk in the woods (buddy has a camp site drink horse shoes motorcross knife throwing .22 plinking )

as a guy u just have to suck it up (and trust me single ladies see u playing nicely with kids pantie dropper)...........this is what u do u sit down play with the kid for 20/30 mins they win in the video game u make funny sounds ....then u go ok adult time i get a hour to see the family and do that adult stuff when it is up play again fair .....the kid will agree

money never works untill they are teen and know they can use the money to buy something they want (as a kid parnets will get them stuff)

 

[Bublonichronic]

If the brother wanted to step in, he also has to step up.
I couldn't agree more.
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I've told him that before that if he wants to be with her he has to be with the kid aswell that it's a package deal kinda thing but he just shrugs it off...the scariest part is that now I guess she is pregnant and I really don't see him becoming more of a parent even then