Yessica...
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How rude!Is that why they roll out on ya? jk jk
You fuck your mother with that mouth???
How rude!Is that why they roll out on ya? jk jk
I honestly appreciate this feedback.... it makes me feel better. lol. I've always felt men are FAR more obsessed with appearance. Most of my friends are guys though, and based on feedback from them I've got a pretty good reason for feeling this way. Maybe I just surround myself with shitty people.Sound like your obsessed with appearance, yours and others, believe it or not there are people who see beyond that
Yes, @BygonEra , chuck makes a good point.either take care of the dude your with...or dump him and move on...don't drag on a good dude willing to put up with your problem.
It helps if you are just born with a really nice Vagina.I honestly appreciate this feedback.... it makes me feel better. lol. I've always felt men are FAR more obsessed with appearance. Most of my friends are guys though, and based on feedback from them I've got a pretty good reason for feeling this way. Maybe I just surround myself with shitty people.
But you can't say most people don't form an immediate assumption based on looks alone before meeting someone. What else do you have to form an opinion? Obviously that can CHANGE after meeting someone... but I hear guys judge their friends ALL the time for talking to some less-than-ideal chick at the bar. Or talk shit about some hot girl who come to find out has a weird lookin downstairs. Guys suck. If I waited until I got in bed with a guy for him to find out my hair isn't real, you KNOW he'd tell all of his friends and they'd have a good laugh about it. It's just what people do.
Nah, my mom has meff teeff and y'all know how I feel about thatHow rude!
You fuck your mother with that mouth???
This is a big issue I'm having. I'm afraid if I leave him, I'll be fucking myself over. But I'm afraid if I marry him, I'll be miserable. It's some stupid shit I need to figure out soon. If he got a decent job and I was no longer supporting him, I'd feel a million times better. And marriage would be a definite conversation topic.Yes, @BygonEra , chuck makes a good point.
The hair thing has made you unfairly feel terribly unattractive. And yet your boyfriend still loves you and thinks your beautiful. While I agree with chuck that you should kindly cut him loose (based upon the way you feel about him), you may find later on that you had a real gem in him.
You HAVE to leave him. If you are questioning it now, it WILL NOT get better.This is a big issue I'm having. I'm afraid if I leave him, I'll be fucking myself over. But I'm afraid if I marry him, I'll be miserable. It's some stupid shit I need to figure out soon. If he got a decent job and I was no longer supporting him, I'd feel a million times better. And marriage would be a definite conversation topic.
BGE I've seen your pics you are beautiful.
I blew my hair when I went off opiates in 2013. I only thinned and then really looked like an old crone. You know the old witch with three stringy hairs. I can't tell you how many times I had the clippers in my hand and was getting ready to lay waste to the left overs. My hair was well below my butt and I finally chopped off what was left, no not bald, mine is coming back so I was very lucky. Therefore take my advice with a grain of salt.
My advice will be really hard to do. Wear wigs at work but all other times get rid of them. Simply ignore people. I would not be above some tattoos on my head either. Why the fuck not? Try painting them on to be sure first LOL. Your bone structure is classic. You are not used to seeing yourself without hair so go for it and get used to it then decide.
As for your long term disappointment called a boyfriend think about being 60 with him with far fewer options than you have now. Decide based on that. You'll be surprised how much positive feedback you'll get once get used to yourself without hair. Things will change inside you and hopefully your relationship will follow suit.
Sorry you have to go through this, life blows hard, hugs,
Annie
I love you!BGE I've seen your pics you are beautiful.
I blew my hair when I went off opiates in 2013. I only thinned and then really looked like an old crone. You know the old witch with three stringy hairs. I can't tell you how many times I had the clippers in my hand and was getting ready to lay waste to the left overs. My hair was well below my butt and I finally chopped off what was left, no not bald, mine is coming back so I was very lucky. Therefore take my advice with a grain of salt.
My advice will be really hard to do. Wear wigs at work but all other times get rid of them. Simply ignore people. I would not be above some tattoos on my head either. Why the fuck not? Try painting them on to be sure first LOL. Your bone structure is classic. You are not used to seeing yourself without hair so go for it and get used to it then decide.
As for your long term disappointment called a boyfriend think about being 60 with him with far fewer options than you have now. Decide based on that. You'll be surprised how much positive feedback you'll get once get used to yourself without hair. Things will change inside you and hopefully your relationship will follow suit.
Sorry you have to go through this, life blows hard, hugs,
Annie
Yeah we all are, sexuality is a continuummy wife shaved her head to get rid of dreads, i thought see was hott. She looked like a super cute little guy. But then again I'm bi..