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FreeTheMaryJane

FreeTheMaryJane

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hair is only like 5 points on the 100 point scale ;) I am 25 myself id date/marry a bald girl no probs.. it doesnt bother me and it shouldnt bother anyone else, but hey the guys you meet while you are "out" are usually pretty shallow at our age, at least in my small town....wigs....sounds like an excuse for role play ;)
 
caveman117

caveman117

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sunni, I dont think she was lying to me (doesnt matter nowadays anyway) but the way she explained what happened is the bleaching agent she used damaged something that is important in the hair developnent process (not gonna lie I dont know squat about hair and I dont really remember the convo too well).

but basically her hair grey in a dull greyish fromthe bleaching process happening every 2-3 days or so. thats what she told me anyway and it sounded feasible.
 
sunni

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caveman117 said:
sunni, I dont think she was lying to me (doesnt matter nowadays anyway) but the way she explained what happened is the bleaching agent she used damaged something that is important in the hair developnent process (not gonna lie I dont know squat about hair and I dont really remember the convo too well).

but basically her hair grey in a dull greyish fromthe bleaching process happening every 2-3 days or so. thats what she told me anyway and it sounded feasible.
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what would i know i just was and still am a hairstylist
youre right im wrong.
 
caveman117

caveman117

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I was just elaborating on what I said, I'm sure there are different ways to bleach color out of hair and I dont know any of them (never died my hair). I thought cpnsidering you do know about that stuff than you would know better than i, and may be able to make a better deduction of what happened with what other info I knew.
 
sunni

sunni

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caveman117 said:
I was just elaborating on what I said, I'm sure there are different ways to bleach color out of hair and I dont know any of them (never died my hair). I thought cpnsidering you do know about that stuff than you would know better than i, and may be able to make a better deduction of what happened with what other info I knew.
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you dont need to elaborate because my origonal comment still stands
sunni said:
uh thats total bs. when you shave your hair and it grows back its new. it doesnt remember what the previous dead hair follicles had done to them.
she lied to you she probably had something else
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its bs, thats not how hair works lol
 
caveman117

caveman117

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if I didnt need to elaborate than I would say its logical that you didnt need to repeat what you said either haha.

I'm not angry either just minor communication issues. happens all the time. apologies for the wasted space to the op.

if the guy your with now doesnt care about the hair loss issue than why are you worried about there being no other guys that wouldnt have a problem with it? in my opinion if youve found one already id say the odds are pretty good that there are plenty of others.
 
researching

researching

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You seem a little vain. I can understand the insecurity because everyone judges everyone. Either outwardly or inwardly. I wouldn't have a problem dating a woman in your situation. But I am not much into vanity. That being said too, I am not like most people. Sure, I love a hot chick, but that doesn't make or break it for me. I live in reality and realize we all have flaws. The key to finding happiness and someone who you like is looking past the flaws to what makes them good and appealing. Part of this equation is you letting go of some of your hangups. Kudos to you for being honest with the guy at the bar. But, really are you going to meet anything other than a sex partner at the bar? Not very likely. Channel and utilize your confidence and that will be very attractive as well. Confidence is a hug attractor for both sexes. If I meet a woman who lacks confidence, I see her as an easy target so to speak and easy to bed. But no way could maintain a relationship with someone who needs constant reinforcement/support. That gets old and I have been there.

I am not saying lower your standards, but realize that some ( a lot ) of people are vain and therefore that reduces the amount of people who can see past it. Another option and to make life easier in the sense of filtering through the douchebags is embrace it and quit wearing the wig. Again, this requires confidence. Any guy who approaches you obviously wont care.

Now, me being a guy and a pervert.... Does this affect your other area as well?
 
Alienwidow

Alienwidow

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I just saw how gorgeous the op really is and all i have to say is WOW... like jaw dropping hot. Hair or no hair you would be a trophy wife Bygon. I can see why the crappy boyfriend is sticking around. If you ever make it to portland i would love to buy you dinner, every night forever and ever :):):)
 
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