All women desire protection. Be it in the form of shelter, food, financial stability, knocking someone out who is assaulting her...
Some women put out a tough front but inside they are wanting to find someone they can share their soft and vulnerable side with.
No I'm not talking about sex in marriage. I'm talking about the idea that the man provides money and protection and the woman provides sex is just pretty old school I guess. Don't know many women in their 30's who think that way anymore. Just surprised to hear it that's all.
Well that is just breaking it down to basics
Women are usually more capable of managing home life. Baby, cleaning, Bill payments, activity planning, organizing, and so on.
I am responsible for budgeting our money,paying the bills, researching large purchases and making most purchases. I do the majority of house maintenance. Once a week he vacuums for me. Usually on saturday.
I do the laundry and the cooking and take care of Esther all day. When he comes home he helps by watching Esther, changing a diaper or two, and refilling her drinks. He makes sure she eats her food at dinner and usually puts her down for bed.
Sometimes I help him with yard work and sometimes he does a load of laundry. We are partners but we have defined our roles over the 10 years of marriage and it works well for us.
All he as to concern himself with is working hard and providing support when he gets home. I take care of the rest.
Do we have sex every night? No. We do make sure to tell each other earlier in the day if we are wanting sex though. That way we can be sure to make time for it.
Just expressing desire for the other with a kiss or a touch can make our intentions known. Knowing someone wants you is a turn on.
