But again, its all in writing. There is not one single surprise in this game, only bad decisions.
I've watched the big short. It shows how people who dont understand contracts sign their lives away because they want that house so damn bad, and then get fucked. It wasn't interesting, it was just obvious.
First vehicle I bought few decades ago I walked out of 4 or 5 used car lots because they thought they could swindle a 16 year old with a grand in his pocket. They thought wrong.
I'll admit, there is alot of emotion going on inside, but you can't show it or let it allow you to make stupid decisions, like buying shit with ARMS that are unrealistic, or payments you can't make. This is why many, if not most home owners are "house poor." How much can I afford? Oh okay, lets find a house that costs that much and finance it all including the damn furniture, derp derp derp.
Get a lawyer to help you understand, read up on sound finance practices, or get fucked, pretty simple.