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Vnsmkr

Vnsmkr

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MjMama said:
I'm sorry you had to watch that. I used to try to convince myself it wasn't effecting the kids. I tried not to fight in front of them but as things got worse that didn't work and they saw more and more. He started trying to fill their heads with lies and would literally tell them I was dating other guys. I wasn't. I took the kids camping just me and the girls and he insisted I was going to meet up with some other guy. Like I would do something like that in front of my kids. I couldn't even go to the grocery store without him thinking I stopped to have a quickie on the way. Anything to convince himself that I was a bad person so he wouldn't feel as guilty for the stuff he turned out to be doing behind my back. In the end another woman can forward and put him on blast for trying to screw her in her sleep. I can't even begin to explain how disgusted I am with him. Mostly I'm sad that I can't trust him anymore even on a basic level. I can't trust him as a father. If he would do that to anyone woman, I can't trust him with our girls.
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People are fkn crazy huh. Sorry you had to deal with crazy. Brighter lights ahead!
 
Vnsmkr

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ruby fruit said:
A strong man isnt a jealous one its one who never lets his family be boxed in and lets their minds be in a happy place 24/7
I grew up watching my dad beat on my mum...its why i havnt spoken to him for 34 yrs
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Agree 100% rubes. Man I feel for anyone who has been through or goes through that. It just shouldnt be that way. Very strong belief in that! I cant imagine someone hitting my 2 girls, I would fucking kill them and the same with my wife. Ok time for some garden :)
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ruby fruit

ruby fruit

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Vnsmkr said:
My father never hit mum that I saw or knew of but he was verbally abusive from the time I can remember, bad vodka alcoholic for years. My first memory of me getting angry at him was when I was about 5 and he woke me up screaming at mum because he was shitfaced and she was pouring his vodka down the sink. I remember wanting to fuck him up from an early age and once I moved out at 17 we didnt speak for years (again we are not speaking for few years now). Kids shouldnt be around any sort of abuse as they remember it all.
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I waited one day for an hour in a tree with a 2 ft steel pole after he got stuck into mum for the last time I jumped down and he copped a fair wack needed stitches can remember yelling if he hurt mum again I would go to the police and tell them everything..he left that day and mum found the courage to move on..hell of an episode for a 9 yr old boy to go through...can still remember jumping from the tree and shitting myself
 
MjMama

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ruby fruit said:
I waited one day for an hour in a tree with a 2 ft steel pole after he got stuck into mum for the last time I jumped down and he copped a fair wack needed stitches can remember yelling if he hurt mum again I would go to the police and tell them everything..he left that day and mum found the courage to move on..hell of an episode for a 9 yr old boy to go through...can still remember jumping from the tree and shitting myself
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I can remember being very protective of my mom like that too. I ran a few losers off our front porch. I guess she taught me how to pick the good ones... Never again though. I've learned too much. Hopefully it's early enough to change the cycle for my kids.
 
ruby fruit

ruby fruit

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MjMama said:
I can remember being very protective of my mom like that too. I ran a few losers off our front porch. I guess she taught me how to pick the good ones... Never again though. I've learned too much. Hopefully it's early enough to change the cycle for my kids.
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it IS early enough mama cos love and happiness over rules everything for young and innocent kids...its the 10-13 yr age group that worries me.1 the girls tend to accept the bad behavior by males at an older age and normally don't end up looking and caring for themselves like they should because of it and 2 the boys turn into men and either learn from past exp not to swing a fist or be abusive to woman OR go totally the other way if intelligent enough and treat their woman like a queen..( im a lucky one I do this for my wife I met when I was 16 im 43 now)
you will be ok they are young enough but still will have thoughts and memeories about past experiences so just talk now and then to them about it don't hide it use it as a vehicle to teach!

enough of the dr ruby shit wheres that sweet boy TWS and your green plants lol
 
MjMama

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Hey everyone! How has life been treating you all? The Photon Blaster finally went through puberty and filled out. I can't wait to try the buds.
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I kind of met someone new that I'm seeing. It's just the beginning stages but so far so good. Another woman. She smokes too. She's a (sexy) nurse and eventually wants to open an elderly care facility that caters to cannabis patients. I didn't know anyone that perfect for me existed in this world. So yeah, I'm in a good place right now. I hope everyone else is doing well too.
 
treemansbuds

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MjMama said:
Hey everyone! How has life been treating you all? The Photon Blaster finally went through puberty and filled out. I can't wait to try the buds.
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I kind of met someone new that I'm seeing. It's just the beginning stages but so far so good. Another woman. She smokes too. She's a (sexy) nurse and eventually wants to open an elderly care facility that caters to cannabis patients. I didn't know anyone that perfect for me existed in this world. So yeah, I'm in a good place right now. I hope everyone else is doing well too.
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Good for you girl, nothing like a sexy nurse to cure your wounds(::hump:.
I was just in your area last week up HWY 80, I sure like that area, but getting very busy. When I lived in that area 25+years ago it was much more sparse.
O'ya, the plants look great!
Keep up the good work, and good luck on your new relationship.
TMB-
 
MjMama

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Right! I didn't know I had a thing for nurses but now I do lol.

It's beautiful up 80 but yeah I really miss when there was less people and I could go someplace and be alone for the day. It's getting harder and harder to find those secluded spots. Thanks for stopping by to check in on me and the girls. :)
 
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fandango

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MjMama said:
Hey everyone! How has life been treating you all? The Photon Blaster finally went through puberty and filled out. I can't wait to try the buds.
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I kind of met someone new that I'm seeing. It's just the beginning stages but so far so good. Another woman. She smokes too. She's a (sexy) nurse and eventually wants to open an elderly care facility that caters to cannabis patients. I didn't know anyone that perfect for me existed in this world. So yeah, I'm in a good place right now. I hope everyone else is doing well too.
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Great looking plant MjMama...and I hope your new love and you have a great summer...
 
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