Roger A. Shrubber
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me too, been asking for over a year now
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Those are ugly decisions that haunt others the rest of their lives.
Roger A. Shrubber
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I've never had much respect for people who commit suicide. my life has had some pretty shitty low points in it, and i just shower the shit off and keep trudging along....just seems like the thing to do....
Indacouch
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My Grandpa on moms side was my hero. He ended up shooting himself and that literally erased all the good memories and fun. Even now that I'm older it's just ugly to think about.
I think it's one of the most selfish things a loved one can do. The people that have commited suicide that I've kinda known((besides my grandpa))Were either mentally unstable to begin with, or seriously bad alcoholics. The thing I can't stand is the fuckers who cut themselves and act like there guna kill themselves on a weekly basis for attention. I have no respect for those kind of people. Sadly it's usually the ones that are quiet that end up doing it.
Suicide is a sad reality.
Edit:
My grandpa was a terrible alcoholic ....and very drunk when he shot himself.
Chunky Stool
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That's nice.
I'm pretty sure dead people don't give a shit whether you respect them or not.
BudmanTX
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9 times out of 10 that's the best way to do it.
in the end you do have to talk to someone and or something to get whats going on inside of you out into the open. Pent up frustrations and anger is not the answer in cases like these, they will sit there and fester untill one day, you at the same circle you started with in the beginning. I've had my bout with depression sometimes severe in cases, but i learned over time is to talk, weither you talk to yourself, your maker or just another person, it's a good idea.....get a sound board of some kind....
i just had a nephew try to, luckly he's in the hospital right now cause his mom caught it in just in time.....
MichiganMedGrower
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The self cutters are also in need of mental health treatment. They are not doing it without chemical imbalance. It can be a sign of bipolar manic attack.
Don’t hate them. Suggest help please. They are not really themselves.
One of our close friends of almost 30 years just took her own life last week.
Gave her beloved dog to a friend, - Pills (we think) and she was found fully dressed in the shower with a note and her will on the dresser.
Her poor adult son was left to tie up all the loose ends & he's beside himself with questions and grief (as are we).
Gave her beloved dog to a friend, - Pills (we think) and she was found fully dressed in the shower with a note and her will on the dresser.
Her poor adult son was left to tie up all the loose ends & he's beside himself with questions and grief (as are we).
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tangerinegreen555
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Depression is a terrible thing.
I learned to alter my moods with the flowers of an ancient plant. Probably will add years to my life, being able to change moods rapidly. So you forget the shit before it consumes you.
BudmanTX
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on a different note....mental health issues are a major problem all around. Think it come to alot of people not being able to talk or the verbally express themselves as they need. So much pain in a person, alot of the time you can see it in the there eyes, they way they hold themselves in certain situation. Dunno...maybe i'm just rambling like an idiot here......
in a short, and this is something i tell my wife as well...."get out of your damn head, if you stay in there long enough that rabbit hole with get deeper and deeper without you knowing it"
in a short, and this is something i tell my wife as well...."get out of your damn head, if you stay in there long enough that rabbit hole with get deeper and deeper without you knowing it"
Chunky Stool
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Everyone gets sad once in a while but real depression is VERY different.
It's hard to explain to people who have never experienced it.
Roger A. Shrubber
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maybe, maybe not, i have no idea whats on the other side, and neither does anyone elseThat's nice.
I'm pretty sure dead people don't give a shit whether you respect them or not.
tangerinegreen555
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Yeah, but like my wise old buddy always says, 'whatever it is, it sure as fuck doesn't match the pleasures of the flesh'.
I'm inclined to agree.
I am sorry
BudmanTX
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yeah, i sorry to hear that mate...
just a wild thought, have you tried to talk to him or maybe just give him a hand????
Indacouch
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I don't hate anyone tbh .... I'm not talking about "Cutters" even though they can be very annoying as well. I'm talking about people who cut their wrists just enough to bleed and act like it was an attempt at suicide. Solely for attention.
MichiganMedGrower
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I didnt think you really meant you hate them. But no one tends to cut their wrists just for attention. There is an underlying cause.
It is very hard to understand why and how some people are like his but it is very real.
It has to do with how an individual perceives their own brain chemicals. Cutting for attention is a bipolar 1 symptoms believe.
Bi polar 2 things start to get worse even.
Please someone in the know correct me if I am wrong.
MichiganMedGrower
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Where is the vanilla mocha?