My mom is a Douche...

juicemc22

juicemc22

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I hate my mom. We haven't talked for years. She fucked up my family with her actions and my father divorced her... no need to explain, but shit man... everyone is right. She didn't leave you. She took care of you for at least 18 years. You should appreciate her. Someday she will be gone. Not everyone dies of old age, remember that. You don't wanna look back and wish you would have done something different, ya know. I'm sure if one of my kids posted shit about me online I would be a bitch to... That's just karma. You can't say your mom is a douche... if you were comparing her to some other peoples mothers she would be a godess. I have dealt with a poor mom, but was lucky to have a hell of a dad. I wouldn't change a thing, but I think everday how if my grandma was alive how much I would cherish her and spend as much time with her as I could. Don't go through the same thing w/ you mom.
 
juicemc22

juicemc22

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I kind of rambled on up there. I'm a little gone off this Kush I guess. My point was... Just be the best son you can be! Try to do everything you can right. No one is perfect. Just try to show your love and don't do anything that will make you look back in regret. I do know my post is post-mothersday! Just wanted to give my 2 cents.
 
Biggravy22

Biggravy22

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Grubs said:
Seriously dude, you should do something unexpectedly cool for her, just because you love her. It will make her feel good, and it will help work off some of those negative karma points you just racked up.
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Did you actually read the OP or did you just run in here guns a blazin? I called her a douche for a reason, and not for the hell of it. I also put some serious thought and effort into my decision and took into account all of our experiences over the passed 3 years (Most of which I kept to myself for the sake of anonymity.), and went not for myself...But for her. Or do you not comprehend that? Karma is not defined by what you think, or what you verbally express, but how you act. If that's how karma worked. We'd all be on a one way trip to miserabletown. It's funny how keyboard warriors come storming in AFTER the fact with there Pseudo intellectualism, and wayward logic.
 
Biggravy22

Biggravy22

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juicemc22 said:
I kind of rambled on up there. I'm a little gone off this Kush I guess. My point was... Just be the best son you can be! Try to do everything you can right. No one is perfect. Just try to show your love and don't do anything that will make you look back in regret. I do know my post is post-mothersday! Just wanted to give my 2 cents.
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Thanks, but my douchebag reference was due to how I felt then. Not how I've always felt, or presently feel. So the Karma point is misguided. I don't hate, loathe, or dislike my mother. She pissed me off at that point in time. I appreciate my mother, and have never done anything to prove otherwise besides my decision to move to Toronto to further my career. So I think I have the right to be critical sometimes. I've earned it. Just because she's my mother doesn't mean I have to agree with her. But it does mean I need to put my own pride aside a certian points...which I did.
 
Dr Greene

Dr Greene

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I hear ya dude, I got mom issues as well. My mom and my sister are both huge douche bags that are always up each others ass. My favorite thing to do is just never write or text or call or anything. I practice this religiously and as a result I only have to put up with their bitching once, maybe twice a year now...thank god.
 
Grubs

Grubs

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Let's just say some of us would like to have a mother around to debate the issue about.

And you are upset about just putting up with her shit for a couple of hours when you don't feel like it?

Have a nice one dude.
 
BcKuSh99

BcKuSh99

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Biggravy22 said:
You guys have to understand killing my mother with kindness does not work. She'll think I came to make her happy and not because I wanted too. She'll trivialize the whole day. So if I do go...I'm almost guaranteed an hour or so of tension.
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sounds like my mom dude, she just gave me shit today when we wer in the car cuz i didnt do anythn wit her on mothers day.. n its like 2 days after she says sumthn n i was guna make her a card since im broke lol but i always forget that kinda stuff.. u think i should like make her a card still sayn sry or sumthn..? i just dont want her to think that imm doin it to make her happy n not cuz i wanted to.. like you said:-?
 
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