He cheated on me and had a kid....with his ex

[peacemane420]

dude i had this SAME shit happen to me to man... just minus all the kid stuff.
yea of course your goin to be angry and want to hit him and her, but you know that jsut makes shit worse.
i went to my exs house and the bitch he was fuckin around with me was there! and she was a year younger then me! i hit my ex pretty good in the face, but i didnt hit her cuz it was more my ex's fault then anythin. but i still didnt feel better about that shit.
its better to just move on and get another man when the time is right. yea i know its hard to forget that dude cuz you were with him so long, but just think how many other guys their are who will treat you right and respect you!

 

[purplekitty7772008]

very good points stoney.

 

[Stoney McFried]

Not saying I'm perfect,lol.But I have never cheated on any of my men.I did mess around with an ex boyfriend I'd been in love with for years a long time ago when I was single...he said all the right things.And he had a girlfriend,but he told me he was leaving her.However, that's no excuse.I should have waited till he left her.Which he ended up not doing.So she had a right to smack me in my eye if she found out.

I always welcome your two cents. And I agree for the most part. I detest those who cheat. I detest those who objectify. And I detest those who treat others unjustly.

 

[peacemane420]

if ANY guy on here caught his GIRL with another dude you'd all be coming up with ways to "get him". if i came on here and said "i caught my wife with some dude", you'd all be giving me ways to get even. funny how that works.

word up!
cant fuckin agree with you more.

 

[purplekitty7772008]

dude i had this SAME shit happen to me to man... just minus all the kid stuff.
yea of course your goin to be angry and want to hit him and her, but you know that jsut makes shit worse.
i went to my exs house and the bitch he was fuckin around with me was there! and she was a year younger then me! i hit my ex pretty good in the face, but i didnt hit her cuz it was more my ex's fault then anythin. but i still didnt feel better about that shit.
its better to just move on and get another man when the time is right. yea i know its hard to forget that dude cuz you were with him so long, but just think how many tother guys their are who will treat you right and respect you!

Haha. So you hit your dude in the face too?!

Looks like we have something in common.
I did kinda feel bad after, but at the moment it really made
me feel better.

In my perspective, it was more her fault than his. She knowingly
called him up knowing we were together and offered him sex.

(girls know guys are easy)

And obviously, my ex only cared about getting pussy at the moment
and not about how great our relationship would turn out. (which is
was great, until this happened)

But live and let live I guess.

 

[Stoney McFried]

I have an idea! Purple....poop. Poop in a bucket.Pee in it too.Leave it sit in the sun.Add more.Put it in his car.(the poop, not the bucket.)

 

[peacemane420]

Haha. So you hit your dude in the face too?!

Looks like we have something in common.
I did kinda feel bad after, but at the moment it really made
me feel better.

In my perspective, it was more her fault than his. She knowingly
called him up knowing we were together and offered him sex.

(girls know guys are easy)

And obviously, my ex only cared about getting pussy at the moment
and not about how great our relationship would turn out. (which is
was great, until this happened)

But live and let live I guess.

yes i hit him. shit was funny too but didnt solve anythin lol
oh well, if he continues to be that way for the rest of his life, he will never find a decent woman cuz he hurt them all already. he sounds like he a cheater for life.
he will keep fuckin up over and over again till the point where he cant even be in a relationship with out cheating. pathetic!
i hate men like this

I have an idea! Purple....poop. Poop in a bucket.Pee in it too.Leave it sit in the sun.Add more.Put it in his car.(the poop, not the bucket.)

hahahahahaha!!!!!!!!!!

 

[aceshigh69]

lets not turn this into an evil revenge plot. We want purple kitty to be calm and cool. She has been thru enough. But if you must. Sleep with his best friend. That should do the trick. The only way to get over somebody is to get under somebody else.

 

[peacemane420]

lets not turn this into an evil revenge plot. We want purple kitty to be calm and cool. She has been thru enough. But if you must. Sleep with his best friend. That should do the trick. The only way to get over somebody is to get under somebody else.

i would think that shes tryin to be a better person then him.
that would just put her on the same level as him!
.... like that isnt sleezy.

 

[purplekitty7772008]

I have an idea! Purple....poop. Poop in a bucket.Pee in it too.Leave it sit in the sun.Add more.Put it in his car.(the poop, not the bucket.)

haha. he has no car. But a really good idea would be to take
a huge dump in their septic tank on the toilets!!!

lol. Then they would get fresh shit water every time they flush.

omg, that would be fucked up. still funny though.

yes i hit him. shit was funny too but didnt solve anythin lol
oh well, if he continues to be that way for the rest of his life, he will never find a decent woman cuz he hurt them all already. he sounds like he a cheater for life.
he will keep fuckin up over and over again till the point where he cant even be in a relationship with out cheating. pathetic!
i hate men like this



hahahahahaha!!!!!!!!!!

Well, I wish him luck finding a girl as great as I was. I honestly
don't think he will. I loved him more than anything, and the feelings

just don't go away that quickly.

lets not turn this into an evil revenge plot. We want purple kitty to be calm and cool. She has been thru enough. But if you must. Sleep with his best friend. That should do the trick. The only way to get over somebody is to get under somebody else.

UGH!!! His best friends are ugly, fat slobs. I would never!!!!

eeeeekkkk.......



lmao.

 

[peacemane420]

Well, I wish him luck finding a girl as great as I was. I honestly
don't think he will. I loved him more than anything, and the feelings

just don't go away that quickly.

trust me man... he'll be crawling back cuz he will totally realize that he wont find NOBODY like you... and then you'll be there to say "BITCH, FUCK YOU!"

 

[aceshigh69]

ok it was just a thought. I didnt mean to affend i swear. You do whatever you have to do to make you feel better. Eat ice cream, hang out on the beach, buy a new car. Treat yourself.

 

[purplekitty7772008]

trust me man... he'll be crawling back cuz he will totally realize that he wont find NOBODY like you... and then you'll be there to say "BITCH, FUCK YOU!"

lmao. I love the chicks on this site. You guys make me laugh and make
my day better.

ok it was just a thought. I didnt mean to affend i swear. You do whatever you have to do to make you feel better. Eat ice cream, hang out on the beach, buy a new car. Treat yourself.

None taken what-so-ever.

His friends are just gross. lol.

 

[aceshigh69]

ok cool. the last thing i want to do is piss you off. lol

 

[purplekitty7772008]

ok cool. the last thing i want to do is piss you off. lol

I'm the biggest bittersweet sweetheart there is.



Yes, I am sweet and sour.

 

[DWR]

I'm the biggest bittersweet sweetheart there is.



Yes, I am sweet and sour.

just like all girls

 

[grow space]

sorry girl.you can move always on, common-lets go out.be happy, smoke a bowl and forget that sorry ass...

 

[kubrickzghost]

If you read this, please post.

We were together for 2 years.

And this happened.

I'm very hurt, confused, and angry.

I don't know what to do guys. I just need someone to talk
to I guess.

He was my only friend.
I stopped talking to my girls when we started to get serious.

and now that we're over, I feel very very alone.

I can truly say that I'm so angry inside, if I had the chance
to murder his ex and get away with it, I would surely do it.

I've actually been thinking about how to get away with killing
her, and I know that's not a good thing to be thinking about.

I told him staying with him is not what I want because I'm not
going to be sharing the responsibility of a kid I did not birth.

Sunday, she offered to take him out for fathers day. I told him I didn't
want him going out with her and he said he was gonna go anyway.

He told me he was going to his mom's house after going out to eat.
So I waited at her house (no one was home)

and when I see them pull up, he is driving HER car and hugging her!!!!!
(wtf was he doing driving her car!!!!!!!!!!!)
This really made me go crazy. I went outside, punched him in the head
and told his ex to get out the car so I could beat her ass.

She was like "its my son's birthday..." (it actually was, but I don't
give a shit)


and I was like "Bitch, I don't give a fuck. get out of the fuckin car so I can beat your ass"

She just sat there in the car looking scared and this really pissed me off.


(This bitch has been talking shit to me about "beating my ass" for months.
And has been calling me all types of wenches, whores, and bitches.
So I told her when I get the chance, I'm gonna put her ass in the hospital.)

I tried to get close enough to punch her thru
the window but my boyfriend (now ex) was holding me back. He told her
to leave and then we went in the house. I was so pissed, I attacked him.

He told me to get away from him because I'm "crazy" and he ran in the bathroom. Well, I guess I was so pissed and there was so much
adrenaline in me, I kicked the door down
(great, now I just kicked down his mom's door and he doesn't even live
there anymore)




Then I find out, that his ex fucking snitched on me to his gramma
and mom. (now I really want to kill the bitch)

Then his gramma starts sending me texts being rude. I almost cussed
her old ass out. I know you're supposed to respect your elders, but

I'm not the type of person to let someone sit there and talk shit to me.
(thats why I want to kill his ex).

I absolutely HATE when people test me. And that bitch (ex) has been
testing me for months calling me names THINKING I wouldn't do anything.

Now that she knows I'm serious about beating her to a pulp, she hasn't
said anything to me. And I even saw her at school and she didn't even
LOOK at me.

The sad thing is, I absolutely KNEW if I stayed with him, I would
end up seriously hurting, or possibly killing someone and I'd be the
next person on Oxygen's "Snapped".

I don't know how to deal with all of these emotions and I think I'm going
to hurt someone. I just really need some advice on keeping
my self calm so I don't do something I will regret.


Suggestions.....

Hmmm. First of all, I hope you keep writing to vent these feelings. You have tendencies and that isn't going to help you at all. your angry, but think of who gets the last laugh when you're sitting on death row. Murder or physical harm to anyone is uncalled for in this situation, unless you had to defend yourself. It appears people need to protect themselves from you, so maybe that's exactly what your boyfriend was thinking. Your violent tendencies and language used during this exchange are unhealthy. you must assume that it's one good reason your man strayed from you. Women should not be gangbangers. try wearing a dress and respecting yourself, instead of terrorizing people.

The best advice is to move on and focus on yourself. If you think about how your behavior affected this result, you will come to terms with the why's and move on from the loss. Take this time to work on yourself. Stop hanging around guys that will mislead you just for sex or dependency. I'm afraid to say you do need psychiactric counselling. You're not crazy-- But your lifestyle seems to have affected your behavior and you need to be around people who will improve you as a person. Not just use you as a vessel.

 

[grow space]

wow, those are words 4 like real expert-purplekitty, maybe kubrickzghost is right????

 

[tilemaster]

emotional shit suks..i once had an ex fling herself on my moving car as i sped away.. she clutched the wiper blades like a velasa raptor...until she slid off in the parking lot to the concrete..wut a shitty day that wuz.. ya i feel for ya purple kiitty these kind of incidents can consume ur everyday actions.. i cant even stand being at work during a fight, or something of that nature..the shits really disturbing.. its hard to find loyalty..not matter wut, no matter how bomb the relationship feels. i have finaly got there myself.. im all settled down..and from the cheaters me and my girl have been in former relationships, i think were doing great.. we both finally slowed down as we make the transisition in2 our 30's. I dont miss all the fighting , creeping around, and shadiness, i wuz involved with with exs, and so forth. gotta stop fucking with the gangsters and hustler type..