He cheated on me and had a kid....with his ex

jrh72582

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Has anyone else noticed that recently, a spat of women, toting themselves as attractive and coming across as vulnerable, have started threads whose intent clearly display narcissism? It's weird. The threads instantly get attention from guys (either pathetically flattering or disdainfully insulting) and infractions are thrown around. If a male had started the thread, it wouldn't get the attention, people wouldn't respond so polarizingly, and the overall response would be different. I'm not drawing any conclusions here - just wondering...

If a thread reads "girl looking for guy", the thread instantly gets hundreds of replies.

If a thread reads "guy looking for girl", the thread dies.

What do you guys think?
 

Stoney McFried

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I disagree, I've seen plenty of threads about troubles guys have with girls getting responded to.As for the responses to "looking for" threads, well...there are more guys than girls on here.....:peace:
Has anyone else noticed that recently, a spat of women, toting themselves as attractive and coming across as vulnerable, have started threads whose intent clearly display narcissism? It's weird. The threads instantly get attention from guys (either pathetically flattering or disdainfully insulting) and infractions are thrown around. If a male had started the thread, it wouldn't get the attention, people wouldn't respond so polarizingly, and the overall response would be different. I'm not drawing any conclusions here - just wondering...

If a thread reads "girl looking for guy", the thread instantly gets hundreds of replies.

If a thread reads "guy looking for girl", the thread dies.

What do you guys think?
 

HAT TRICK STEVE

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Smoke some weed and relax, it's all going to be okay :joint:

First, realize that beating someone up or killing them isn't going to solve anything."

here, here!! if you want to be tied to these people, karma wise, for the rest of this life and maybe a few in the future, then thats a sure fire way to do it,... just kill him! then you;ll never be rid of these people,.... EVER!!
 

dahamma

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I firmly believe a lot less girls would try screwing somebody's old man if a proper ass whooping came back in style,lol.
Good old fashioned ass-whoopins are far and few between these days, Why I remember back in the day when a person would get they're ass whooped just because. haha But seriously there are a lot less righteous ass kickings these days and a lot of people feel that they can get away with more bullshit because of it. I don't always condone a correction, but some people just need it as a reminder. my 2 cents
 

oldmandroman

Active Member
ok the first thing to u need do is posted a pic on here if that you on your avatar you are hot

2 smoke a big bunt

3 repeat after me i am hot i dont need him

4 go get layed
5 if he got aby friend of brother have sex wit them

6 the girl you want to beat up dont do it just get a guy to screw her and video tape it then show ex she a slut

now he is mad at her for being a slut aand hurt that you fucking his friend

and you got your payback without going to jail for murder
 

fdd2blk

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Thank you very much.
And have you noticed those two haven't posted back?

I guess they knew they were in the wrong.
Calling me names for telling a story and venting is unjustifiable.
i was gonna jump them for that, but i know you. you are strong enough to just let it roll off your back. if it continued i was gonna nail them or anyone else though. i didn't what to dramatise your thread. :weed:


they both sound perfect for each other. i would give them both my best and as Tahoe says "walk-on". :hump:
 

sw33tganjababe

Active Member
That really sucks, Purplekitty. I know that rage and anger you're talking about.

I will never forget the moment I spent meeting my fiance's ex-girlfriend for the first time, in person. She was at least 7 inches shorter than I am, you know what I'm saying....perfectly sized for pick-it-up midget tossing-style. I remember at the time, I didn't know that my fiance cheated on me one time with her while he and I were newly exclusively dating. I just knew she savagely BEAT and STARVED my fiance's puppy because she was taking care of the dog at the time. You better believe I told her that she deserved an ass-beating accompanied by a gang raping a la rusty tire iron. The searing hatred was boiling away and burned all throughout my body...you get my point.

It's better to let the whore sit in pained waiting, if you get my drift. After I found my my ex cheated on me with her, I decided that BOTH of them deserved a stealthy beating. Preferably involving a baseball bat. You better believe I dreamed of breaking every bone in that bitch's body. But I didn't. I sent one simple text message stating the following:

"Now that we both know you're a dirty c*nt, let me tell you something you don't know....one of these days when you've gotten over the fear and paranoia that sometime, somewhere very soon, you will be in the hospital in intensive care from the beating you KNOW you are due for...Something is going to hit you, very hard and possibly make you feel like you're being beaten like a red-headed stepchild. After you are done collecting your knocked-out teeth off the cement in some parking lot, please remember that the next time you cheat with someone else's boyfriend or hurt an innocent animal in ANY way, you might not be around the next time to collect your teeth."

Eventually the intense feelings of anger subsided and I sat back and relished the glee I felt thinking of that bitch's knees shaking together anytime she had to walk anywhere alone. I've seen her out a few times in public and each time she's left wherever we're at, usually with her head down walking straight and fast towards the door....ahahahaaa!! I also tried turning her in for the animal cruelty, but her Dad is a police officer and had the case dropped.

This guy doesn't deserve the best that you have to offer and it sounds like he's been getting it for a few years now. Don't waste any more of your time and energy on him because really...how much longer is it going to be until he knocks some other girl up? Or something equally as stupid? You CAN find someone better.
 

LastOneLeft

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I feel sorry for you (i dont know if you want that but yeah) for what had happen and shit hits the fan all the time. I'm in difficult situations myself. Tell me what guy crys for three months over a girl? You really shouldve took a hint that he really loved her and that you might have been his rebound. Sorry call as I read it. My 2 cents
 

purplekitty7772008

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I firmly believe a lot less girls would try screwing somebody's old man if a proper ass whooping came back in style,lol.
lmao. tell me about it!!!

yes... but she isnt the real ass here... its the guy; he's the one pullin 2girls at once.. not cool... he's the one i'd be lookin to fuck up pretty bad:evil:
sadly, i wouldn't want anyone else but me to beat him up. :?
I feel like whooping his ass because he is the one who hurt me.
I mean, after all, its not like he didn't deserve that punch in the head. ;-)

Oh,I agree....but...the other girl knew he had a girlfriend...at least, that's my understanding.So she needs her ass beat, too.:mrgreen:
yes, she did know and she still decided to call him up knowing i was
away in NY. and he was dumb enough to accept the offer. fuckin dickwad.

I'm almost done catching up. So far, its cheering me up because its making
me laugh. :-)
 

purplekitty7772008

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You're the one that put in the thread title if you read this please respond Not "If you agree with me respond" Dude could of been nicer about it but you asked for his opinion.

Yes. I said respond Louis. Not insult or call names.





Is that ironic or what? you were going to yank that girl out of her car for wanting a relationship with the father of her son. CAn you really blame her?

Did you read the thread? Not because she wants a relationship with him, but because she told ME that she was going to beat my ass because I
was with her ex boyfriend. I just said "ok, I'll be wating".
So time goes by and everything is fine, until she starts calling his
phone talking shit to me and threatening me and calling me names.
She texted me calling me a dumb bitch for no reason.

Ok, I said "call me what you want" and she starts calling me more
names. I just cut her off and said, save it to say it to my face.

That was it after that. I was fed up with being taunted, called names,
and threatened. I promised her an ass whoopin. What's wrong with

keeping a promise?




PS: you got some serious growing up to do. You seem like a total Narcissist. The world doesn't revolve around you, and nothing good is gonna come from beating the shit out of everyone that gives you trouble in life walkin around with a chip on your shoulder.
Louis, do you really come to my thread just to disagree with everything
I say? And please, don't call me names. I never called you anything.

I don't see why all you people are calling me names? Is it your only
resort for a comeback because you can't win the argument with me?

it's beyond me why you hold resentment toward HER, when HE'S the one who knowingly betrayed you in the worst way. HE was the one who was in a commited relationship and didn't think about his commitment to you before gettin with her.


He may be a guy (as am I) and jesus christ, our hormones are hard as hell to keep under control, but hey- I'd rather not hurt somebody, and that's why i'm single (for now atleast)...but i'm also 22.

Sometimes I really do feel that guys were wired to spread their seed and weren't wired to be monogamous but who knows, could just be my view on it

Anyway I hope ya feel better about this and no matter what ya do, think rationally about your decisions

finding creative ways to calm your rage by biking, kickboxing, doin SOMEthing physical may help your mind, body and spirit in overcoming this split

stay strong
thank you. as I said earlier, i not only hate her because she called up
my boyfriend to fuck knowing we were together and I was out of town,
but she has been constantly talkin shit and threatening, and taunting me. I got sick of it and I said I'd be handing her an ass whooping.

btw...this story sounds like the plot to the song "murder she wrote" LOL ohh man hahahah


forgive me lol
lmao!!!

I forgive.
 

Cannabolic

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relax ma. it aint that serious, fuck that dude and that smut. it aint worth gettin yourself in trouble over some dude who obveously dont give a fuck about you. u get in touble do u think he gunna give a fuck? hell na. he'd prolly move on to your sister or some shit. so fuck the both of them. go right now and take a hot ass bubble bath, go get dressed and go out and have fun. i learned this the hard way but you gotta live for yourself even if you are in a relationship because you might not be in one tomarrow..........................real talk
 

purplekitty7772008

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Didn't you post a thread about how you mooch off your grandmother? I would have to agree with the growing up comment

https://www.rollitup.org/toke-n-talk/194506-grandma-being-b-tch.html
Didn't you still leave my questions unanswered?
Why is that?

Me living with my grandmother has nothing to do with me wanting
to beat up a girl thats been talking crap to me, or nothing to do

with me being cheated on.



you know what girl, its okay I went through the same thing with my ex but no baby just cheating. In a couple years you will be watching those two on Jerry Springer show accusing each other of all sorts of crap. cheating lying whore mongering what ever. You will be so glad that you dumped him and your life turned around for the better. Focus on something like school or church just something other than that mess. I believe in Karma!!!
haha. I could so imagine seeing their asses on there. This made me happy.
:-)

why does it not suprise me that you would not only say to whoop her ass, but to make her wait and worry.... classic:hug:
HAHA!!! I know!

I should just leave her scared and worried every day because it would
probably stress her out more than actually fighting me.
 

purplekitty7772008

Well-Known Member
ok the first thing to u need do is posted a pic on here if that you on your avatar you are hot

2 smoke a big bunt

3 repeat after me i am hot i dont need him

4 go get layed
5 if he got aby friend of brother have sex wit them

6 the girl you want to beat up dont do it just get a guy to screw her and video tape it then show ex she a slut

now he is mad at her for being a slut aand hurt that you fucking his friend

and you got your payback without going to jail for murder
lmao!!!!!

I actually do know about a few slutty things she did when drunk.
haha. I don't think I'm that fucked up to tell everyone though.

Now that would be majorly fucked up, even more fucked up than
gettin an ass whoopin. at least in my opinion.

That really sucks, Purplekitty. I know that rage and anger you're talking about.

I will never forget the moment I spent meeting my fiance's ex-girlfriend for the first time, in person. She was at least 7 inches shorter than I am, you know what I'm saying....perfectly sized for pick-it-up midget tossing-style. I remember at the time, I didn't know that my fiance cheated on me one time with her while he and I were newly exclusively dating. I just knew she savagely BEAT and STARVED my fiance's puppy because she was taking care of the dog at the time. You better believe I told her that she deserved an ass-beating accompanied by a gang raping a la rusty tire iron. The searing hatred was boiling away and burned all throughout my body...you get my point.

It's better to let the whore sit in pained waiting, if you get my drift. After I found my my ex cheated on me with her, I decided that BOTH of them deserved a stealthy beating. Preferably involving a baseball bat. You better believe I dreamed of breaking every bone in that bitch's body. But I didn't. I sent one simple text message stating the following:

"Now that we both know you're a dirty c*nt, let me tell you something you don't know....one of these days when you've gotten over the fear and paranoia that sometime, somewhere very soon, you will be in the hospital in intensive care from the beating you KNOW you are due for...Something is going to hit you, very hard and possibly make you feel like you're being beaten like a red-headed stepchild. After you are done collecting your knocked-out teeth off the cement in some parking lot, please remember that the next time you cheat with someone else's boyfriend or hurt an innocent animal in ANY way, you might not be around the next time to collect your teeth."

Eventually the intense feelings of anger subsided and I sat back and relished the glee I felt thinking of that bitch's knees shaking together anytime she had to walk anywhere alone. I've seen her out a few times in public and each time she's left wherever we're at, usually with her head down walking straight and fast towards the door....ahahahaaa!! I also tried turning her in for the animal cruelty, but her Dad is a police officer and had the case dropped.

This guy doesn't deserve the best that you have to offer and it sounds like he's been getting it for a few years now. Don't waste any more of your time and energy on him because really...how much longer is it going to be until he knocks some other girl up? Or something equally as stupid? You CAN find someone better.
This made me laugh so much and really lightened the mood. I smoked guys, and I'm actually happy. He called me today and asked where I was and I was like "don't worry about it. bye"

omg, i was so proud of myself and I didn't even call back. :hump:

relax ma. it aint that serious, fuck that dude and that smut. it aint worth gettin yourself in trouble over some dude who obveously dont give a fuck about you. u get in touble do u think he gunna give a fuck? hell na. he'd prolly move on to your sister or some shit. so fuck the both of them. go right now and take a hot ass bubble bath, go get dressed and go out and have fun. i learned this the hard way but you gotta live for yourself even if you are in a relationship because you might not be in one tomarrow..........................real talk
actually, that is real. thank you.

i can't give out anymore +rep tonite to everyone that gave advice, so tomorrow I will finish up.

I want to thank everyone for posting, even if I didn't agree with you.

Sleep tight!!!!

See ya in the wake and bake room in the mornin!!!!
:-P
 

Louis541

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Louis, do you really come to my thread just to disagree with everything
I say? And please, don't call me names. I never called you anything.

I don't see why all you people are calling me names? Is it your only
resort for a comeback because you can't win the argument with me?

Lol. I got the red text, I feel special.

I call em like I see em. People are calling you names because it's obvious that it will get a fight out of you. See? You're taking me as being argumentative right now. You asked for my opinion and I gave it to you. I also gave you my advice, but you didn't want to hear it. She called his phone talkin shit to you and you're mad at her? Not him for tellin her not to call?
You're not gonna beat me up too are you?
 

Louis541

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(not directed to you bro, you handle well)
im throwing out infractions and bans where necessary in here.... no need for some of these fucked up posts:evil:



who doesnt at 19??:confused::shock::confused:... i damn sure didnt have my head on exactly straight at that age... still growing up a little bit every day that i am alive.... as i said before... cut her a little slack and consider the age.... also consider she has been with this guy for she said 4years... so since 15... being 18 only makes you a legal "adult"... which means you are responsible for your own actions, not that you actually always take responsible action...

be a bit more understanding, and the other party would be alot more receptive to your GOOD advice;-)

I think 19 is a great age to grow up. I'm only 20. I like to think I grew out of that stage by around 14... Then again that is also the year I got thrown out of my parents house and realized that there are bigger things to worry about then getting my wittle heart bwoken. So maybe I'm biased. But OP is gonna do what she wants no matter what so I'm done.
 

GrowTech

stays relevant.
Gotta make a few points here...

1) Attacking a pregnant girl for a decision that doesn't involve you -> Wrong.
2) Your ex got a girl knocked up, and he's doing the right thing. Kudos to him!
3) Your ex will probably cheat on her too some day.
4) These people most likely aren't going to waste any time worrying about you, but might get a restraining order against you... I wouldn't blame them though... seriously, think about it. :lol:

Regardless of anything, you were not a victim of any crime... You chose to stay with this guy, and you don't own him... A relationship only lasts until one person is unhappy... Obviously he wasn't happy with you or truly in love anymore, otherwise he wouldn't be boning some other girl...

Reality of the world is this... and PREPARE YOURSELF 'CAUSE YOURE NOT GONNA LIKE IT... Nobody HAS to respect you, nobody HAS to be honest to you, and there is NOTHING you can do about it.

What can you do? Well, first you can get control over yourself, you can stop letting your emotions get the better of you, you can realize that you have absolutely no control over the decisions, or actions of other people. You can influence others, and you can scare others - but neither of them last forever.

Is he a dick for cheating on you? Sure why not. BUT He got this girl knocked up, and he's man enough to stay with her, and raise the kid.

Why make yourself the psycho ex girlfriend they joke about with their friends?
 

fdd2blk

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I think 19 is a great age to grow up. I'm only 20. I like to think I grew out of that stage by around 14... Then again that is also the year I got thrown out of my parents house and realized that there are bigger things to worry about then getting my wittle heart bwoken. So maybe I'm biased. But OP is gonna do what she wants no matter what so I'm done.
why the jabs? do you feel bigger about yourself now? for the most part you seem like a cool cat. then you throw out these little insults. i think if you actually wanted, you could offer some sound advice in a kind way. but then again, i'm a total prick these days so i can't really jump in. :wink:
 

fdd2blk

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if ANY guy on here caught his GIRL with another dude you'd all be coming up with ways to "get him". if i came on here and said "i caught my wife with some dude", you'd all be giving me ways to get even. funny how that works. :wink:
 
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