He cheated on me and had a kid....with his ex

GrowTech

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fdd2blk said:
if ANY guy on here caught his GIRL with another dude you'd all be coming up with ways to "get him". if i came on here and said "i caught my wife with some dude", you'd all be giving me ways to get even. funny how that works. :wink:
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you know i'd be the first to tell you to calm down, and dont get yourself into any shit. :lol:
 
Louis541

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fdd2blk said:
if ANY guy on here caught his GIRL with another dude you'd all be coming up with ways to "get him". if i came on here and said "i caught my wife with some dude", you'd all be giving me ways to get even. funny how that works. :wink:
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You'd be surprised. I'm so over the high school she cheated on me drama. I got that out of my system a long time ago. I caught my girlfriend cheating on me in my bed in my house that I pay the mortgage on. I calmly told her to leave. They wouldn't so escorted him out of my house and told her my sister would do the same to her if she didn't kick rocks. Sure I was pissed, but I'm not gonna let that shit bring my world down. I smoked a bowl and beat my meat and got on with my life.

PK if you feel you can't do that well then it's not there problem it's yours. However, if you feel the need you can make it there problem with something like this.

http://www.revengecrabs.com/
 
GrowTech

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Louis541 said:
You'd be surprised. I'm so over the high school she cheated on me drama. I got that out of my system a long time ago. I caught my girlfriend cheating on me in my bed in my house that I pay the mortgage on. I calmly told her to leave. They wouldn't so escorted him out of my house and told her my sister would do the same to her if she didn't kick rocks. Sure I was pissed, but I'm not gonna let that shit bring my world down. I smoked a bowl and beat my meat and got on with my life.

PK if you feel you can't do that well then it's not there problem it's yours. However, if you feel the need you can make it there problem with something like this.

http://www.revengecrabs.com/
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Dude beating your meat is awesome... I've got a gorgeous girl I've been with for 5 years and I still like to handle the bacon at least once every week :)

Don't ever let a relationship take away your RIGHT to masturbate! :)
 
Biggravy22

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fdd2blk said:
if ANY guy on here caught his GIRL with another dude you'd all be coming up with ways to "get him". if i came on here and said "i caught my wife with some dude", you'd all be giving me ways to get even. funny how that works. :wink:
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Nope I'd be the first to tell you to grab your shit and bounce. Attacking/fighting someone who doesn't want to be with you is about as smart as going skydiving with no parachute.
 
Biggravy22

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GrowTech said:
Dude beating your meat is awesome... I've got a gorgeous girl I've been with for 5 years and I still like to handle the bacon at least once every week :)

Don't ever let a relationship take away your RIGHT to masturbate! :)
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Ahhh...nothing like a quick nut. lol
 
purplekitty7772008

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Louis541 said:
Lol. I got the red text, I feel special.

I call em like I see em. People are calling you names because it's obvious that it will get a fight out of you. See? You're taking me as being argumentative right now. You asked for my opinion and I gave it to you. I also gave you my advice, but you didn't want to hear it. She called his phone talkin shit to you and you're mad at her? Not him for tellin her not to call?
You're not gonna beat me up too are you?
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lol. its ok louis. I'm in a much better mood today and I forgive
and apologize.

It was fun debating you though. So whats with everyone today?
 
Biggravy22

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Dude... I've been listening to Collie Buddz at work all day and I can't fucking wait to get home and twist one up. First time in a long time I feel like a fiend.[Zombie voice] Must smoke marijuana. [Zombie voice]
 
purplekitty7772008

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GrowTech said:
Gotta make a few points here...

1) Attacking a pregnant girl for a decision that doesn't involve you -> Wrong.
2) Your ex got a girl knocked up, and he's doing the right thing. Kudos to him!
3) Your ex will probably cheat on her too some day.
4) These people most likely aren't going to waste any time worrying about you, but might get a restraining order against you... I wouldn't blame them though... seriously, think about it. :lol:

Regardless of anything, you were not a victim of any crime... You chose to stay with this guy, and you don't own him... A relationship only lasts until one person is unhappy... Obviously he wasn't happy with you or truly in love anymore, otherwise he wouldn't be boning some other girl...

Reality of the world is this... and PREPARE YOURSELF 'CAUSE YOURE NOT GONNA LIKE IT... Nobody HAS to respect you, nobody HAS to be honest to you, and there is NOTHING you can do about it.

What can you do? Well, first you can get control over yourself, you can stop letting your emotions get the better of you, you can realize that you have absolutely no control over the decisions, or actions of other people. You can influence others, and you can scare others - but neither of them last forever.

Is he a dick for cheating on you? Sure why not. BUT He got this girl knocked up, and he's man enough to stay with her, and raise the kid.

Why make yourself the psycho ex girlfriend they joke about with their friends?
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Whoah whoah whoah!!! Hold on there. I never attacked a pregnant chick.
She wasn't pregnant, and I didn't attack her. Just wanted to.

And yes, my emotions did get the better of me and I realize that.
I guess its better if I take Stoney's advice and leave her sitting

there worried and bothered!!! :-P

fdd2blk said:
if ANY guy on here caught his GIRL with another dude you'd all be coming up with ways to "get him". if i came on here and said "i caught my wife with some dude", you'd all be giving me ways to get even. funny how that works. :wink:
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thank you!!!

I know I'd be throwing in a few ideas. kiss-ass
 
Stoney McFried

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I can only tell you...if it was me...yeah...she'd get it.And probably immediately, because I have a really bad temper.And don't worry,folks, he'd get it, too.I still scare the shit out of a guy that cheated on me on occasion.He started asking about how my old man and I are doing, and I sent the message along that I had forgotten about his ass,and now he just reminded me he was still alive.He stopped asking about my sex life.
Because what pisses me off about cheating, is it's somebody playing Russian roulette with YOUR genitals, and you have no say in whether you wanna play or not.It certainly isn't fun getting tested for STD's and living in fear for six months out of your life until you know you're in the clear.Yes, some folks say,"Karma will teach them." Well, I say, Sometimes YOU are the instrument of karma.:mrgreen:
 
purplekitty7772008

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Stoney McFried said:
I can only tell you...if it was me...yeah...she'd get it.And probably immediately, because I have a really bad temper.And don't worry,folks, he'd get it, too.I still scare the shit out of a guy that cheated on me on occasion.He started asking about how my old man and I are doing, and I sent the message along that I had forgotten about his ass,and now he just reminded me he was still alive.He stopped asking about my sex life.
Because what pisses me off about cheating, is it's somebody playing Russian roulette with YOUR genitals, and you have no say in whether you wanna play or not.It certainly isn't fun getting tested for STD's and living in fear for six months out of your life until you know you're in the clear.Yes, some folks say,"Karma will teach them." Well, I say, Sometimes YOU are the instrument of karma.:mrgreen:
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Damn. That doesn't sound fun. Waiting to see if you're infected or not.
But Stoney, I will take your previous advice and just let her sit there

and worry about when its coming to her. I bet she'll be scared to go out alone. Especially since she knows I KNOW where she lives. hahaha.

She better be scared.


But to everyone, I just want to put this out there.

My ex wasn't cheating on me the entire time we were together.
And I'm POSITIVE of this. (200%)

He cheated on me shortly after we got together AFTER I went on
vacation to NY. I left 2 days after we started dating. So it wasn't

a surprise he did it when I left seeing as there were no feelings
involved yet.

I know he regrets it, and will always regret it, but I have to move on.

I never attacked the girl, but she will get what she deserves also
for being a scandalous trick ass hoe.

Taa taa!!!

Ttyl
 
Stoney McFried

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Still..he was playing Russian roulette with your box.You're well rid of him.
purplekitty7772008 said:
Damn. That doesn't sound fun. Waiting to see if you're infected or not.
But Stoney, I will take your previous advice and just let her sit there

and worry about when its coming to her. I bet she'll be scared to go out alone. Especially since she knows I KNOW where she lives. hahaha.

She better be scared.


But to everyone, I just want to put this out there.

My ex wasn't cheating on me the entire time we were together.
And I'm POSITIVE of this. (200%)

He cheated on me shortly after we got together AFTER I went on
vacation to NY. I left 2 days after we started dating. So it wasn't

a surprise he did it when I left seeing as there were no feelings
involved yet.

I know he regrets it, and will always regret it, but I have to move on.

I never attacked the girl, but she will get what she deserves also
for being a scandalous trick ass hoe.

Taa taa!!!

Ttyl
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jrh72582

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fdd2blk said:
if ANY guy on here caught his GIRL with another dude you'd all be coming up with ways to "get him". if i came on here and said "i caught my wife with some dude", you'd all be giving me ways to get even. funny how that works. :wink:
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There is a huge double standard on this board, I agree. But it goes both ways. Would you care as much about this thread if it were started by a man? If another guy was attacking a male OP, it would be business as usual, but since the OP is a girl, it's inappropriate to attack?

And BTW, I'm making NO judgment towards the OP. It's a shitty issue, but in a year, you will forget about it and in ten years, it will be ancient history. Your anger will go away and all will be forgotten. You will be the better person. Just handle it the best you can and keep everything in perspective. In the grand scheme of things, this is no big issue.
 
Stoney McFried

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If it were a guy, I would personally also tell him to whip ass.I'm not a pacifist,and I personally think that fucking someone you know has a partner behind that partner's back is a dirty thing to do.I think not giving someone the option of whether or not they want an STI or STD is a pretty crappy thing to do.People in general, men and women,should try not to fuck other people over.If you don't want to be with someone,leave,or if you can't be monogamous, this should all be laid on the table at the beginning of the relationship.I try to avoid hassles...so I'm not trying to sound like a badass or anything.But girls that have met me know, I will go crazy on their ass if they try to mess with my boyfriend.If he were to accept an offer and screw around, then he's gonna get it, too.If the girl was with him, and didn't know about me...then I'm not mad at anyone but him.I can respect a man if he says he doesn't want to be with me.If he thinks he's gonna fuck me around, though, I will not take it.There are certain principals...you don't cheat,you don't fuck your friends over, you don't narc,etc.I lay this all out on the table at the beginning.And don't get me wrong...if the people involved agree to an open relationship...there's nothing wrong with that,because everyone has been given a choice in the matter,and there is no deception.I know you were talking to fdd, but this is something I fell pretty strongly about, so I decided to throw in my two cents.:peace::mrgreen:
jrh72582 said:
There is a huge double standard on this board, I agree. But it goes both ways. Would you care as much about this thread if it were started by a man? If another guy was attacking a male OP, it would be business as usual, but since the OP is a girl, it's inappropriate to attack?

And BTW, I'm making NO judgment towards the OP. It's a shitty issue, but in a year, you will forget about it and in ten years, it will be ancient history. Your anger will go away and all will be forgotten. You will be the better person. Just handle it the best you can and keep everything in perspective. In the grand scheme of things, this is no big issue.
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jrh72582

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Stoney McFried said:
If it were a guy, I would personally also tell him to whip ass.I'm not a pacifist,and I personally think that fucking someone you know has a partner behind that partner's back is a dirty thing to do.I think not giving someone the option of whether or not they want an STI or STD is a pretty crappy thing to do.People in general, men and women,should try not to fuck other people over.If you don't want to be with someone,leave,or if you can't be monogamous, this should all be laid on the table at the beginning of the relationship.I try to avoid hassles...so I'm not trying to sound like a badass or anything.But girls that have met me know, I will go crazy on their ass if they try to mess with my boyfriend.If he were to accept an offer and screw around, then he's gonna get it, too.If the girl was with him, and didn't know about me...then I'm not mad at anyone but him.I can respect a man if he says he doesn't want to be with me.If he thinks he's gonna fuck me around, though, I will not take it.There are certain principals...you don't cheat,you don't fuck your friends over, you don't narc,etc.I lay this all out on the table at the beginning.And don't get me wrong...if the people involved agree to an open relationship...there's nothing wrong with that,because everyone has been given a choice in the matter,and there is no deception.I know you were talking to fdd, but this is something I fell pretty strongly about, so I decided to throw in my two cents.:peace::mrgreen:
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I always welcome your two cents. And I agree for the most part. I detest those who cheat. I detest those who objectify. And I detest those who treat others unjustly.
 
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