get a po box in a nearby town, it's not 100% free from 'problems', but it's close
I disagree.. This is even more obvious.. Why would you get a P.O. box in another town/city ? You STILL HAVE to show a VALID I.D. to get a P.O. box.. I have no earthly idea why people think that P.O. boxes are safe for ordering seeds.. Its just doesnt make sense..
I have heard of cases where someones order was seized by customs and then customs notifies the highway patrol ( because shipping/recieving MJ seeds is considered interstate drug trafficing.. look it up ) and the highway patroll then works with the local sherrif to obtain search warrants and have been known to bust you right away OR they set up surveillance and watch for months ( im sure they do this anyway, even if its only for a week or so ).. So in reality, even having them shipped to a "safe house" is not "full proof".
IMHO its jsut a crap shoot at this point.. IMHO there is no full proof way to order seeds online and be 100% "safe"..
Some people say never use a credit/debit card and to always send cash or money order.. I say why? All that does is makes it take 3-4 times longer to get your seeds.. When your seeds come to you they dont have a gd reciept w/ your card info or anything else.. There just adressed to the name and adress you put on your order ( which brings up another myth.. see below ).. So ( IMHO ) I dont see using a card to order them any more "dangerous" than using a money order.. And you dont have to sit and wait and wonder ( the worst part of ordering seeds ) for 2-3 extra weeks if you just use a damn card..
Also, some people say to always use a "fake name" on the order form and on the adress.. This is where I think the worst mis info is going around.. Alot of seedbanks ( ESPECIALLY Attitude ) send there seeds in a way ( registered mail? ) that THE PERSON THAT THE NAME SAYS ON THE PACKAGE MUST SIGN FOR IT.. So if you use a "fake" name, even though the adress is right, you WILL NOT BE ABLE TO GET YOUR SEEDS.. Alot of times, the postman will not even attempt to get your signature at your home, but instead will leave a note saying you have a package at the post office and to come get it.. EVEN THOUGH YOU CHOOSE "NO SIG REQUIRED SHIPPING" or w/e the case may be..THIS HAPPENS ALL THE TIME!!. So if you use a fake name you will be "S.O.L.".. And trying to pick up the seeds with a fake I.D. etc is a really good way to really get into trouble..
So, IMHO its best to just use a credit/debit ( note- most "gift" cards WILL NOT WORK TO BUY THINGS INTERNATIONALLY, this incldes seeds obviously, and will be basically a waste of money ) card and to put a REAL NAME ( doesnt "have" to be yours.. But the more people that are involved, the more risk youa re taking ) on the shipping address.. Where you have them shipped is up to you. Whether it be your house or a relative or friends.. But this is another issue that is debatable.. Jsut make sure that if you sue someone elses adress that they know about yout plan and are OK with it..
be safe.