JohnnyDAgrower
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So whats happenin people! I've got a little problem. Chicks giving me a ultimatum. Her or the herb?I just want opinions....what would you do?
Whats better? Smokin fine herb or gettin laid anytime?
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So whats happenin people! I've got a little problem. Chicks giving me a ultimatum. Her or the herb?I just want opinions....what would you do?
juleswinnfield
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What's her reason?
UNICRONLIVES
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fuck her REALLY GOOD ONE LAST TIME !!! for the memories!!
JohnnyDAgrower
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She says its caused problems in past relationships and doesn't wanna take a chance on that happening again.
juleswinnfield
Active Member
No compromising is allowed? kinda sounds like she could just be making a big deal out of it, but I don' t know the situation. I'd probably stick with the herb.
Do you know if she's the one? hahahaha
Do you know if she's the one? hahahaha
IAm5toned
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someone that loves you, loves you for who you are. if the person you are smokes weed, then she should love you for it. a true lover will not ask/make you try and change yourself for them, because when you change, you are no longer the person that they fell in love with... and that doesnt apply to just weed either.
c0lchester
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I gave up weed for a girl before I was faithfull to my promise not to blaze, I think she took it as a sign of weakness. after that she started to disrespect me more and more but I was young and nieve, she eventually cheated on me and I dumped her. I wouldn't do it again I'v been with miss MJ for ten years that's alot longer than any woman Iv been with
UNICRONLIVES
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there is many variables and one constant denominator in this equation!!! get my point!!??
Sgt. Floyd
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Fuck her then burn one on the way out.
DoeEyed
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Have you guys been together for awhile? Do you love her? Are you happy? Then forget the weed. If the relationship bombs, the weed will still be there. On the other hand - short time romance, not sure how you feel yet, or maybe she's looking for control? Then tell her you won't give it up. Ultimately though, we can give you advice all night, but it all comes down to how you feel about it.
JohnnyDAgrower
Active Member
I knew I could count on some good advice from my brothers in pot. I don't know where its going. Shes pretty smokin and worth decieving for a while I guess. I'm just gonna ride it out and smoke behind her back. She catches me oh well ya know haha.
Thanks for the help. I'll keep ya posted haha
Thanks for the help. I'll keep ya posted haha
dukeofbaja
New Member
I like that plan. She said it caused problems in past relationships. But the past is not always a predictor of everything. So if she catches you smoking/high one day down the road, it won't matter. She will realize she is happy to be with you, whether or not you get high sometimes. So long as you make her happy.
When me and my fiancee first started dating in college, I was still dealing. No way she would have given me a chance if she even knew I smoked weed, much less dealt. But as we progressed as a couple, she realized that it didn't matter that I smoked, we make each other happy. And now, she smokes more than I do...good times
When me and my fiancee first started dating in college, I was still dealing. No way she would have given me a chance if she even knew I smoked weed, much less dealt. But as we progressed as a couple, she realized that it didn't matter that I smoked, we make each other happy. And now, she smokes more than I do...good times
JohnnyDAgrower
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I was actually thinking that exact thing could possibly happen for us. Once she does catch me (trust me fellas they always do!) eventually I'll be honest then and hope she just realize then that its not an issue that could lead to a problem down the road and we can go without worry.
Haha Just didn't wanna say that and seem too optimistic. You know how crazy females can be now days
HoLE
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true relationships are built on respect and trust,,if you sneak around behind her back you might as well have another woman on the side because when she finds out that is how she is gonna feel,,cheated,,,they say you may have many partners in life but you will only ever find one perfect soulmate,,one who would walk to the edge and back for you,,you gotta ask yourself Johnny,,is this that girl,,when you figure that out,,you'll know what to do
I just want opinions....what would you do?
converseking
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listen to dis poster they know what they are talking about. + if you gave up the bud and you guy's still didnt work out your gonna fell like a dumbass + if she's making you give this up its just the first thing on a LONG list of ish she'll want you to change about yourself. dont do it man keep on toking
