By the same token, i own my house, didn't know they were their until i moved in, and there is a drug dealer in every hood. And about my growing with kids, my garden is STRICTLY after the kids are in bed, and not only in and area of the house that has a locked door, but heavy furniture must be moved to get near it.
I decided to have kids yes, but i support them and have the happiest kids you have ever met, i have already almost lost one and i will not let it happen. I am only in a slightly worse position now, and even if i do stop growing this instant, then i have already fucked up and they won't have a clue if i am or not.
I do not drive a flashy car, i do not have a house that you would look at and say "we gotta rob that house" but my kids have my toys and love than most kids could hope for. Before you talk shit remember life isn't as easy as you think, and if i payed for my smoke (i am in a legal state with a legal grow) i would spend at least $600 a month, because i grow i pay maybe $100 a month.
So in short, even if you weren't trying to be bitchy, you were, and you don't know a mother fucking thing about how i parent!