Here's My take on it:
1. I'm a fat bastard. I wouldn't expect anything different from anyone in my life that I personally would/wouldn't do myself.
2. I'm a fat bastard who can cook real well. Probably the reason why I'm a fat bastard in the first place. The best compliment a lady-friend can give my cooking is to pull up a chair, dig in, and not be shy about it. The universe isn't going to end if you have another slice of raspberry torte, honey.
3. Cool people come in all shapes, sizes, and colors. But what else is there about this person? What are her hobbies (well aside from the obvious one that brings us all here)? What music does she like? What's her favorite movie? There's a lot more to a girl than just her size. Unfortunately for some girls who consider their size as everything, it's also the only thing about them.
My first girlfriend in college was 4'11" and weighed 100 with her pockets full of coins. She was also immature, self serving, viewed sex as a rather unpleasant step required for making babies, and generally was as dumb as a box of hammers. My first girlfriend out of college was 5'2" and had to have weighed north of 220. She also had a wicked sense of humor, taught me how to make veal french, and unlike her predecessor, was capable of carrying on a conversation about something other than soap operas or her stick up the ass family. The sex? Like being locked in a cage with a wild animal.
One of my current lady-friends, who also isn't of the slender persuasion, was generous enough to give me a huge collection of bag seeds to experiment on. She has also shared her wisdom with me when we talk shop about growing. She went as far as offering me an AK-47 cutting to try out propigation. If it wasn't for the fact that she was already seeing someone, I'd definately be looking into spending more quality time with her.
I'll look at the whole person both inside and out before I pass my judgement. Besides, who was it that said "Jazz musicians and fat chicks in Camaros always have the best weed"?
