He Has A Daughter.

Urca

Urca

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This guy I've been talking to for a while just told me that he has a 4 year old daughter in Texas... which blew my mind but Im pretty cool with it since she lives with her mom and we're in CA. Just... makes me slightly uncomfortable.
 
racerboy71

racerboy71

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omg a kid.. no way, lol... urca, if you're going to be dating a lot of older guys, you'll soon find out that a lot of them have a kid or two some where in this world... i know at my age, it's damn near impossible to find a girl who doesn't have at least one, if they haven't already been married and divorced at least once as well... you've got to either be willing to accept it, or not, but either way, you've got to be honest with yourself and the dude, and everything will be fine..
 
ganjames

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So he has a daughter in texas but he lives in california...

He obviously doesn't see his little girl enough so that makes him a fucking loser.
 
Urca

Urca

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ganjames said:
So he has a daughter in texas but he lives in california...

He obviously doesn't see his little girl enough so that makes him a fucking loser.
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hey hold on... my dad lives in nevada and I rarely get to see him, does that make him a fucking loser or a victim of circumstance?
 
elenor.rigby

elenor.rigby

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how very judgemental ganjames. you would be a better person if you didnt call people that..besdides it wasnt stated WHY they are not together...
ganjames said:
So he has a daughter in texas but he lives in california...

He obviously doesn't see his little girl enough so that makes him a fucking loser.
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ganjames

ganjames

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I bet your dad has much better reasoning than a 24 year old kid..

Plus this guy doesn't sound like he's making too much of an effort if he's out chasing young pussy.
 
Urca

Urca

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ganjames said:
I bet your dad has much better reasoning than a 24 year old kid..

Plus this guy doesn't sound like he's making too much of an effort if he's out chasing young pussy.
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not much he can do, he lives far away, came out here for work and school
 
Urca

Urca

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eh none taken. he and i are just kinda talking right now... and honestly with how crazy life is gonna be when I start college, and have a job, problably wont have time for a boyfriend anyway
 
Urca

Urca

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i dont know the story of his life, but who am I to judge? It's a daughter not like he has a gf or a secret wife... And since I dont even know where we are going to go, why trip off a little thing like that?
 
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fdd2blk

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Urca said:
i dont know the story of his life, but who am I to judge? It's a daughter not like he has a gf or a secret wife... And since I dont even know where we are going to go, why trip off a little thing like that?
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yet you start a thread about it on a pot growing forum. :)
 
medicalmaryjane

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he may have a wife too lol. with these men, you really never know.

actually, i've never dateed a guy with a kid. isn't that weird? not that i knew of anyway. probably dated a few married men, maybe dads too back in the dday... but yeah, people lie.
 
Urca

Urca

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lol honestly i was looking for input, and since i thought this was "toke n talk", which is more conversational then me posting in an area which is devoted to growing weed, unless starting a thread about hot wheels has to do with growing weed, we're on the same level. :)
 
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fdd2blk

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Urca said:
lol honestly i was looking for input, and since i thought this was "toke n talk", which is more conversational then me posting in an area which is devoted to growing weed, unless starting a thread about hot wheels has to do with growing weed, we're on the same level. :)
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so defensive.

try to relax a little.

it was YOU who said "why trip". i was simply pointing out the irony. no harm meant.

bongsmilie

would you like the link to my current grow thread?
 
Urca

Urca

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medicalmaryjane said:
he may have a wife too lol. with these men, you really never know.

actually, i've never dateed a guy with a kid. isn't that weird? not that i knew of anyway. probably dated a few married men, maybe dads too back in the dday... but yeah, people lie.
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Im pretty sure he doesnt have a wife. idk how weird it is, I try not to judge though cause my stepdad was 21 when he hooked up with my 30 year old mom who had a 4 year old and two three year olds...

Or any of my friends i went to school with who had children.. its a mistake, doesnt mean they cant have relationships
 
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