Home-wreckers.

april

april

Pickle Queen
420God said:
Or in yours, maybe you're giving a reason for him to wander?
Click to expand...
LMFAO so understanding ur logic me fucking my "man" 1-2 times daily was not enough, so he needed to cuddle with an 18 old blond at his buddies( they posted pix and tagged me lmfao, they did not agree with his choices). Some people are addicted to feeling wanted/loved not anyones fault but their own if they cheat.
 
Justin00

Justin00

Active Member
april said:
LMFAO so understanding ur logic me fucking my "man" 1-2 times daily was not enough, so he needed to cuddle with an 18 old blond at his buddies( they posted pix and tagged me lmfao, they did not agree with his choices). Some people are addicted to feeling wanted/loved not anyones fault but their own if they cheat.
Click to expand...

i'm thinking thats wasn't exactly what he meant when he said giving him reason to wonder, not that that would be an excuse even if you are a cruel cold person to him. he should still have the balls to break up with you first. I'm pretty sure 1 or 2 times a day is more then enough for 95% of guys =), but once or twice a year might not be.
 
Justin00

Justin00

Active Member
neways on topic, i'm very sorry for you, it is sickening how cruel humans can be to others, and most of the time they never even realize how terrible they are. obviously that is still no excuse but we are often so self centered that the lives of others are simply not of enough significance to us to be bothered by. Some ppl say we just animals and just like all other animals, but in reality we are monsters. we choose to do the things we do, we take pleasure of others pain, we know the meaning of words like spite, revenge, hatred, and grudge, and we are the only creatures on this earth that do.
 
Dankster4Life

Dankster4Life

Well-Known Member
All bullshit aside.

Only thing you can do is have a long talk with him girl and go from there,every thing else is irrelevant.Have a talk and make your own decision.
 
DSB65

DSB65

Well-Known Member
[video=youtube;KiIP_KDQmXs]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KiIP_KDQmXs&feature=player_detailpage[/video]
 
D

dbgrow

Member
Morgan Lynn said:
What do you do when a woman tries to seduce your boyfriend/husband?

What happends if she knows you are with your boyfriend/husband and have a child?

Thoughts on both gender's perspectives...
Click to expand...
You talk to your husband about it. By virtue of respecting you, himself and the relationship he should be more than willing to completely cut off contact or make it painstakingly clear in front of her, that her advances are not warranted or desired. Confronting her yourself, will not solve the issue it will just escalate everything.

EDIT: after reading more of the whole thread and not just the original post, I have another comment. If you make him secure in the relationship by your actions, and he refuses to with his, then that is no kind of relationship. He should respect you enough, being the woman he comitted to (no matter what), and love you so that you come first before other things. If you feel insecure about this, you should confront him about your lack of security with blatant honesty, not accusation. I would like to think whatever girl I am with knows that no girl regardless of what she may look like or act like poses any kind of threat. If I don't like the girl enough to make her the centerpiece and only one, then I should respect her enough to let her know.
 
sso

sso

Well-Known Member
well, first of all i wouldnt give a rat´s ass.

i only married cause my heart feels miserable without my wife, she obviously feels the same way about me.

having sex with other women, the idea is really a joke, having sex with women you dont truly love, is like smoking halfway decent weed after having smoked the best weed in the world (and have a constant supply)

it gets ya barely high (in comparison) and is often more trouble than its worth.

so, id be very surprised if she did have sex with other men, plus its rather easy to see..

people in love dont fuck around (we all love intimacy and you only get it with lovers, not strangers,and people dont tend to be so loving that they love more than 1 that intimately)

and you tend to notice if someone doesnt love you and it takes a bit of time for people to get that estranged, usually..

less kissing and hugging for one. less sex. obvious less interest in sex.

more arguing and fighting.

looking sneaky or something lol

cause if they really love and are fucking around? well, then they got a problem, some sexmania or something.

and in those rare cases where they dont love you and fool you into thinking that they do, either dealing with a sociopath of sorts or you got money (or do soon)

either one rather easily spottable.

but there is one thing that can destroy a relationship

and thats a lack of trust.

so id be asking myself.

am i wondering this, because..

of personal insecurites? (past experiences f.e)

or is it because i actually notice something is off?


though personally i think any relationship not born of the heart is destined to break up anyway, so id check my heart, is it content?

is this a mental anxiety and paranoia or genuine feelings?
 
You must log in or register to reply here.
Top