What's your opinion on spanking kids?
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Urca
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lol no, its not for attention. ill tell the truth about my life, and if you think thats asking for attention, then whatever, but i have nothing to hide. though im sure all of the other threads on here, all the other myriad of posts on here are just calls for attention, right?
you really need to get over yourself.
The Cryptkeeper
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Avoid the subject and continue what you were doing.
It's all about everybody else and not about what you're doing wrong. 
gfreeman
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iii know this threads about child spanking, but i get beat up all the time by my parents, and thats not abuse ok? i know technically it is the legal definition but, seeing as i write my own rules, no, its not. I am not an enabler and i love my abusive parents very much.Avoid the subject and continue what you were doing.
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MrStickyScissors
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iv been wondering. is that you in your avatar?
gfreeman
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coming into a room with parents, and your not one, saying that even though we look down apon beating children, you were a beat child, in our eyes anyway, and they continue to beat you, but its ok because you love them and you turned out normal. right?
your basically saying that what we find wrong, you find ok. that technically its not abuse to slap someone on the face, or beat them with a hanger, or slam their head against the wall. living in a society where a mere phrase can send you to jail. i would find actual physical altercations to be considered abuse. theirs a limit but obviously not in urcas book as long as that dumb bitch deserved it right?
Taking up for the people abusing you doesnt only make you look like a pathetic fool but its also saying that in other cases of abuse, they probably deserved it. complete bullshit.
Urca
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only a few said they didnt like spanking. and i dont believe anyone who was abused deserved it, but the wall thing, the hanger thing, they only happened once. and every single time i ever got hit i deserved it. seriously. i have a venomous mouth and i start screaming and yelling when i get truly mad.
ill give you one part though. my mom does over do it, and lash out when i get her angry. does that mean i was abused? not by a long shot, i just pissed her off really, really bad, so she hit me. most of the time i got the usual hand across the ass, when i was really bad it was the belt, and when i got too old to be spanked, i just got hit upside the head, or if im really disrespectful, across the face.
did i like it? no. Do i condone it? no. did i deserve it? yes.
ill give you one part though. my mom does over do it, and lash out when i get her angry. does that mean i was abused? not by a long shot, i just pissed her off really, really bad, so she hit me. most of the time i got the usual hand across the ass, when i was really bad it was the belt, and when i got too old to be spanked, i just got hit upside the head, or if im really disrespectful, across the face.
did i like it? no. Do i condone it? no. did i deserve it? yes.
Kodank Moment
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I work, go to college, and live on my own. No excuses. Why take the easy ass mooch route? I have a feeling you would be a more accomplished human being if you quit taking advantage of your mothers kindness and tried at life, for once, ever.
gfreeman
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im young, wifes young, both got jobs, 2 kids, she works a full time job and goes to college. we graduated in 06. i moved out of my house in 03, and my wife moved out in 06. so ya, just out of highschool ritoric is old. my cousin is my age and lives at home with mom and pops. zero girl friends. also "cant find a job" hmm. excuses much?
Urca
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well good for you and your wife. i live in ca, rent isnt cheap, bills arent cheap, i dont even know how to drive, im trying to get a job, so i live with my mother. so does my older sister who works full time yet still cant afford to move out. good for you who can move out right after you graduated, and go make a life for yourself.
but its hard, especially if you dont have the money
but its hard, especially if you dont have the money
gfreeman
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ya tell me about hard, back in 03 i was a sophmore. only reason i left home is because there was no home to go to. mommy got all methed out and vamanos'd. i put my big boy britches on and got a job, cleaing carpets, @ 15. still got a G.E.D. still got my license, still managed to moved over 8 hrs awway from my home town and start somewhere new with no suppost but my wits. soo crying about its soo hard and things are so expensive. please girl have you paid a bill in your life? other than a cell phone bill? perhaps your internet? shit is expensive, YET you refuse to help your mother out with the bills giving off the excuse "well im in school." please bitch, tons of women from more deprived situations would LOVE to live in cali and get on their feet at mommas house. but you cant get on your feet, when your dragging them behind you.
The Cryptkeeper
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There we go again, deflect the attention off of you when you don't like it. You can talk about your fatass (pardon me) any other time but you can't now? What's wrong Urca? Do my words sting you? I don't even see DSB sticking up for you anymore.
Marlboro47
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I haven't had kids yet, But I think that if I buy "my baby can read," I won't need to spank him or her.
But then again, I might need to spank him or her if they start lying. Thats where I would start, to make sure that bad habbits don't form.
But then again, I might need to spank him or her if they start lying. Thats where I would start, to make sure that bad habbits don't form.
justcallmenasty
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this is how you make me feel urca.
this is how you make me feel urca.