nah, this was years ago...I learned that love is just another hypothetical construct. Much like God and "justice."
is that so?
Every thought is a construct.... so if yor definition of LOVE comes from AWARENESS of some definition form the mind... then I agree with you..
BUT lets say that the word LOE is a signifier... which POINTS to something that can not be understood by the mind...?
Asking the mind to understand love is like asking the finger to understand TASTE...
SO what other faculties are there...
YOU are awareness,,, everybody is awareness.... from what I can perceive, most people have focused THEIR awareness for so long on the mind, that they forgot that they are actually just awareness... and NOT the mind... PEOPLE actually believe that the mind has some say or some understanding of reality... this is actually CRAZY.. or INSANE...
it is like watching so much TV that you start to forget you are a person and think TV is reality....
If you can shift your awareness from THE mind... less than 1% of the people on planet MAMA have achieved this ability.. although the numbers are growing.. especially amongst woman.... then you will experience something that is LOVE.... something tha thas no opposite.. something that the mind can not grasp... the mind is a doing, defining machine, that depends on duality and opposites to form understanding... thus, the mind can NEVER perceive anything that is real.. NEVER!!!!.... LOVE is "NO THING", has no opposite, is a NON DOING activity..
the mind is trapped in BIG - SMALL, tall - short, all opposites..... anything that has an opposite is a CONSTRUCT....
LOVE is ONLY a sign post pointing to something that the mind cannot see, feel, understand.. etc..
iloveyou