My "girl" not gf may have cheated on me, Is this how i should play this one?

cowboylogic

cowboylogic

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cowboylogic said:
After reading the OPS posts I see why this is in the General growing section. The OP needs to grow a pair of balls.....and sounds like she is just playing him along and buying her time before she dumps him like Enron stock. Sounds like the OPs general insecurities in himself and his life has driven many women away. Women dont like 'needing or clingy'. They want a man that can stand up for himself and her....
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Carne Seca said:
I'm going to go out on a limb here and suggest the problem is you, not her. If you're this immature about a partner that you're not even "official" with I can't even imagine what you would be like if it were a committed acknowledged relationship. So what now? Are you going to make her pay for cheating on your unofficial relationship? Are you going to tear her down and destroy her self-image because of something another woman did to you in the past? I'm wondering if that was entirely HER fault considering how you're reacting to this non-relationship.

Go the therapy. Deal with your shit. Don't take it out on her. Dude, don't become that guy.
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Sugar coated or not sugar coated. It is what it is.....
 
thump easy

thump easy

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dude its hard i got cheated on im the biggest dumb ass thier could be but u gota let that go.. n look for one who knows thier in a relationship that will eat at your mind. fix it.. make the right dissision.. good luck
 
mak

mak

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this thread is funny,but some great advice has been given.

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xKuroiTaimax

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Why don't you tell her you love her? Some of us have been waiting for just one guy to say that for a very long time...

It needn't be so complicated and she doesn't know where she stands. I'm not going to yell at you, but If you want her, grab hold of her, don't let her go and let her know se is the one you want. You sound like you care, I guess.

And stick it in her butt If you really must... XP
 
jeeba

jeeba

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This married chick came over and had a beer with me is that cheating on her husband?Jon B rules. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hDM-XA0-8g4 How do I make you youtube screen show on my post any1 thanks not to hi jack.OP you cant be thinking shes yours on pretenses man.Tell her either way you will know whats up.
 
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xKuroiTaimax

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No. As long as no naughty things are going on. Think about it this way, it says the husband doesn't think much of his wife, if he assumes she is screwing around with every male friend she has. Or the wife doesn't care bout her husband if she knows she can't trust herself alone witha guy. (this so reminds me of a scene with Kat from Eastenders...) If you haven't done anything to her, you are innocent, too. The fact that you are asking shows you're conscientious at the very least. That's a good sign.
 
mak

mak

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jeeba said:
This married chick came over and had a beer with me is that cheating on her husband?Jon B rules. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hDM-XA0-8g4 How do I make you youtube screen show on my post any1 thanks not to hi jack.OP you cant be thinking shes yours on pretenses man.Tell her either way you will know whats up.
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at the top of the message box,there is 4 icons,2 look like planet earth,and 1 is a pic of a tree,the other is a video icon..

click the video icon and just paste the URL to the youtube page and it will show as a video.
 
mak

mak

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if he doesnt bust a move and some other guy comes and sweeps her off her feet ima have to post the song by nelly "over n over again" lol
 
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