A question for society - is this bitch too young?

[RainbowBrite86]

I don't even know why this is here. You had to know that not many people were going to say it was OK for you to be fucking a 15 year old CHILD, and YES, that is what she is. I don't care how "mature" you like to think she acts, I don't care how old her soul is or blah blah blah, it's wrong. You're lucky she's not my daughter.

 

[sso]

though, on the other hand,

i remember this story of a teacher that had sex with her 15 year old student, after she got out of jail, they married and had been together quite awhile with kids, the last time i read about it.

and were quite happy

 

[sso]

but, maybe you should just skip the jail part and be a friend till she is legal. (around here, that would be 16 (though most begin to have sex quite sooner (13-14))


for me, well, id have to really love her (As in , i cant imagine my life without her and i want her there at the end)

to continue such a relationship.

 

[Samwell Seed Well]

pedophile i hope you get cought adn sent where you belong, we all know you a liar and are involved with this child more then just a drug buddy and "sucking" friend

your a sick human being to try and humanize the rape of trust your apart of

 

[gogrow]

If there is grass on the field, play ball.

if not, play in the mud

 

[THENUMBER1022]

you wouldn't think shes older than 15? you're a liar.

 

[THENUMBER1022]

though, on the other hand,

i remember this story of a teacher that had sex with her 15 year old student, after she got out of jail, they married and had been together quite awhile with kids, the last time i read about it.

and were quite happy

mary kay! yeah hopefully I dont end up like that but that is a good point. the love prevailed.

 

[RawBudzski]

aww shes adorable. Now let her experience life without you anchoring her down & maybe she will meet someone successful. <3

 

[THENUMBER1022]

 

[gogrow]

View attachment 2034301you wouldn't think shes older than 15? you're a liar.

I'm not getting into the ethics debate, but I will say she's beautiful.
Hope everything works out for you man... Life is funny sometimes.

 

[THENUMBER1022]

thank man it really means a lot. I am successful I'm not a loser, but part of me wants to let her do her highschool thing.

but fuck man, some highschool guys can really break girls and thats when the tone of their life is set. I'd at the least enjoy setting a happy, vibrant bright, natural tone for her future.

The guys who know where I am coming from - thank you for actually reading. The guys with 3 year olds who should move to san francisco and buy a prius, can get the fuck off my nuts. Every women is a mans daughter and a difference of 2 or 3 years doesnt make or break a soul. Shes already been hurt, yes I want to help her, but more importantly we have uncontrollable love for eachother. we are only benefiting laughter over sorrow. When you date a 21 year old slurring white trash alcoholic who hid all of her disgusting qualities from you for the first month, and you get swatted in the face a few times and can't do shit back, or when your brand new car's interior is covered in puke and muddy hand prints from her throwing up on your upohlstry and GPS, and crawling out of the car into the ditch naked at 3 AM screaming in a neighborhood, you might not think 15 is such a big deal.

 

[xKuroiTaimax]

Oh shit....

I'm pissed you referred to her as a bitch, but I'm guessing it was the only way to grab the attention of RU's males.

The fact that you put the time in to describe her and your situation in so much detail, your consideration of her family's perspective and the efforts you've made to connect with them it sounds like you really like this girl. I think it's beautiful her family have accepted you and would subsequently keep an eye on the situation and make sure you aren't hurting their daughter. I suppose she's one of those girls who is mentally beyond her years as well as in body for her to fool you for so long. Poor innocent you wasn't going out to look for an underage girl. Maybe she's so nice because she hasn't had the time/experience to become one of those cynical golddigga types yet...

But As you wen't from 18... to 17.... to 15... I won't say it didn't get uncomfortable. It seems like such a shame to call it all off because of something like this. I mean. I know plenty of couples with a ten year age gap, one met the other when they were still in school etc. Reminds me of the movie 'Big' which gets horribly sad when the protagonist's age is revealed.

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Bi

In alot of countries, the age of consent is 16, so moralistically I was fine until you said 15, but then again, what's 12 months? The question is do you truly love her? Do you trust her and her family not to suddenly change their mind about you and get you arrested? Are you going to fuck her and leave her? Has she even slept with someone else before? Ask here parents if she makes a habit of snagging older men? Ok, I'm not saying have sex with her, but if you two can wait a little while longer, it'd probably be a good compromise.

I'm probably going to get flamed for this, but you talk about this young girl nicer than most 'legitimate' women are on here, which is a sign I guess. I assume most of the guys are going to say it's not worth it straight off the bat because a girl isn't worth trouble to them, but I know some may feel a little wrong about it.

When i was 16, my 14 year old girl friend jumped me once as she was starting to discover her sexuality. She has a boyfriend and a stable relationship now, but at the time I was paranoid I was taking advantage for letting her do what she wanted. Ack.It's a difficult one

 

[Mr. M]

your kinda having a trip about your bad relationship with your ex and you see this relationship with this under aged girl as something new something refreshing from your previous relationship. but you got to realize that she is under aged and you are what 22? your an adult and she is a child you should not be going any farther with this and you should probably not sell weed to kids. so tie up your loose ends with your ex, tell this girl that this cant happen, and move on dont waste your time on on this girl theres plenty of other girls out there that are over 18.

 

[xKuroiTaimax]

but fuck man, some highschool guys can really break girls and thats when the tone of their life is set. I'd at the least enjoy setting a happy, vibrant bright, natural tone for her future.

I will just be honest and say I agree. I've been fucking screwed up by high school boys playing games with me. I don't want a 40 year old daddy figure, but It woud have been nice to meet an older, more mature guy who wouldn't be an egocentric heartbreaker. Though I understand there are still plenty of those in that age group too.

 

[THENUMBER1022]

she has a personality you can't just find. she has her own style. she stands out in her school, to her friends, she has a glowing spirit. shes like a modern day female jimi hendrix, looking for happiness through drugs and music, unintentionally being astonishingly different every day. She knows what good music is unlike most women these days. Fuck even my ex STILL blasts justin fucking beiber for godsake.

 

[RawBudzski]

It is a big world & I think you need to simply explore it more. Only if the issues in life us humans have prevail will this be ok or "normal". Even if 90% of the ppl in here have gone through something similar does not make it ok or normal ^_^.. I mean no disrespect @ all but in Reality if life was all that such as you say, you honestly would not be contemplating relations w/ a 15yo. Something is amiss, either it is you, or the 15 year old. I personally do not think that trying to find good reasoning behind it is healthy. No body is perfect, but it is when we are young we make those mistakes to learn from, you are 22 trying to be one of the 1st mistakes this 15yo makes. Again no disrespect, you guys can be best of friends, you can love her, but @ the end of the day you have to be the grown up, which you are. If it is meant to be, wait a few years & let her decide if your the one (when she is old enough to make that decision)



If I were to have to judge this on a broad flat brutal 1st glance basis. I would have to say, Your life cannot be as great as you say it is, your penis cannot be the chick magnet you say it is, if you talk this way about a 15yo and are serious. You are not even sounding like the big brother role which it should be, sounds like you simply do not want to risk losing such a cute young girl who shows interest.
-_- she is still in school, hopefully you are not the controlling or jealous type.. what happens when/if she attends college? whole new world for her then.

From personal Experience, if you Do Love Her. Wait. Will be only harder for you to put all this time in when she is young for her to Just Grow Up & Mature more than you.. endup leaving you for more. It will suck.

 

[xKuroiTaimax]

I think if you love eachother that much, you'll wait for eachother <3 Though i worry 15 is a little early for acid... I know my friends were doing coke and heroin at 15 but here was something really wrong with them. I sincerely hope she is as serious about you as you are about her. I really hope you can be that guy to show her not all men are hit-it-and-quit-it dicks and she won't turn out to be a whiny golddigga ho. You sound like a nice guy, and guys can be 'ruied' and 'broken' too, I 've seen it. They act like they don't care, talking about pussyshanking and whatnot but they're hurting inside after taking a chance on love with a bitchy woman. She seems nice, but there' only so much we can tell from what we've seen. We don't know her. But I wish you all the best.

 

[THENUMBER1022]

In alot of countries, the age of consent is 16, so moralistically I was fine until you said 15, but then again, what's 12 months? Only 3 lukily. The question is do you truly love her? never been so sure, which is why I am clearly self-concerned at this point, all things considered. Do you trust her and her family not to suddenly change their mind about you and get you arrested? At this point I don't trust anybody but her. They have gone out of their way to tell me they approve of this and we have their graces. Are you going to fuck her and leave her?I don't care if I never get to have sex with her, thats not an intention until she's of legal age. Has she even slept with someone else before? Slept with? Had sex with a man? No. She tells me about her girly encounters which is moot but she still claims to be a virgin. Ask here parents if she makes a habit of snagging older men? Shes only ever liked 3 guys(including myself) first she told him she loved him even though he was dating the 23 year old bitch from earlier in the conversation. Hence the reason why 23 year old bitch had to tell my girl. Second guy was 17 and he's a joke but she definitely liked him A LOT, almost too much for me to deal with. Took some getting used to. Ok, I'm not saying have sex with her, but if you two can wait a little while longer, it'd probably be a good compromise.

I'm probably going to get flamed for this, but you talk about this young girl nicer than most 'legitimate' women are on here, which is a sign I guess. I assume most of the guys are going to say it's not worth it straight off the bat because a girl isn't worth trouble to them, but I know some may feel a little wrong about it.

When i was 16, my 14 year old girl friend jumped me once as she was starting to discover her sexuality. She has a boyfriend and a stable relationship now, but at the time I was paranoid I was taking advantage for letting her do what she wanted. Ack.It's a difficult one

Thanks a lot for the input, always appreciate your kind words around here..

It is difficult. especially if it happened to you 5 years prior, and you told the new girl to get lost to be with the girl you cheated on. = 3 broken hearts. I know it beyond hurt my ex to experience this but it happened and a solution had to be made. Fixing that relationship is like working with the taliban towards peace.

 

[RawBudzski]

View attachment 2034306she has a personality you can't just find. she has her own style. she stands out in her school, to her friends, she has a glowing spirit. shes like a modern day female jimi hendrix, looking for happiness through drugs and music, unintentionally being astonishingly different every day. She knows what good music is unlike most women these days. Fuck even my ex STILL blasts justin fucking beiber for godsake.

If I knew her I would introduce her to new friends.<3

That way she can continue to be the stellar girl she is 5 years from now.

 

[Harrekin]

What's a petter-ass? YOU dude...I'm getting off this thread.

Incase the Feds are watching this looking for paedos...I just grow and smoke pot, leave me out of it.