Pleasure the girl.

[Zaehet Strife]

Hopefully i can get some female opinions on this thread, but either way, here goes.

Don't get me wrong, i like sex on occasion, but i more so like giving and receiving oral sex rather than sticking it to her. I'm not sure how to present this to my girlfriend. I would much rather just use a toy on her if anything. How do i tell her this without her becoming offended, or feel like im not attracted to her, because i am. I just have different sexual desires than she does. Do you think she would go for sex once a week or every couple weeks, and just let me use a damn toy on her the rest of the days? If she had it her way, she'd fuck me all day every day, im older than she is, and my sex drive can hardly compare to hers.

I mean shit, those toys can vibrate and do all sorts of crazy spin tricks, you'd think she'd jump all over that right? /sigh

How should i go about bringing this up to her without making her feel bad?

Any advice would be much appreciated.

 

[olylifter420]

Just let her know you are bisexual and dont like that splity thing between da legs

 

[Zaehet Strife]

*Shakes head* The things some people will say who can only get laid when they turn on the porn.

If you aren't going to help olly, why don't you get the fuck out of my thread.

 

[olylifter420]

Well it seems gay to me man... Why would tou not love pussy? Imean, ther aint nothing better then nice warm wet pussy around my meat.

I think however you put it, she will get offended and more then likely feel insecure about herself cause you want to use a vib instead.

 

[RawBudzski]

Woman can use toys better than you, so if its for fun cool, pleasure she might be missing out unless you want to watch and masturbate but that still might not be enough for her.

Woman like men, woman want hot penis with blood pumping though it inside them. I see where this is going.. why don't you & your wife get together, & become friends with the black neighbor on your street.. Before you know it, everyone is satisfied.!!.

 

[Hepheastus420]

Shit dude, that's a hard one.. As long as you get her off, I don't see why she would care..

But you gotta be fair. She'll probably say BS since you get your sexual satisfaction while she gets no ramming time.

 

[olylifter420]

I remember that show... Those dumbass dinos... Lol

 

[Zaehet Strife]

I love eating pussy more than fucking, how is that gay?

Thanks for the shitty advice olly, i'm sure its really going to help man.

 

[RawBudzski]

I would agree with you zs. I am same way. Though.. I don't think there is a way to inform a woman of that, and making her feel bad? what about yourself? you're the one not bringing the beefbus.

 

[olylifter420]

Trust me, she will not like it. How would you like it if she told u she was goimg to start using a fleshlight instead of her pussy, even though you told her you love putting ur penis in her own pussy? Thats fucked up and quit acting like what i told you aint good... She will feel insecure you better believe that homie..

I love eating pussy more than fucking, how is that gay?

Thanks for the shitty advice, i'm sure its really going to help man.

 

[Chief Walkin Eagle]

I can relate, some girls know how to suck a dick and it makes their pussy less desirable. I take pride in my tongue as well. I still love regular sex no matter what though, more body contact and things to hold on to.

 

[Zaehet Strife]

Like i said in the thread starter, it's not like i don't want to fuck her, i just don't want to fuck her as much as she wants to fuck me, im trying to think of an alternative. Once every one or two weeks is enough to satisfy me, but i know it isn't going to be enough to satisfy her.

 

[Hepheastus420]

Trust me, she will not like it. How would you like it if she told u she was goimg to start using a fleshlight instead of her pussy, even though you told her you love putting ur penis in her own pussy? Thats fucked up and quit acting like what i told you aint good... She will feel insecure you better believe that homie..

Not taking sides (lol).. But that's good advice. She'll think it's unfair.

 

[Zaehet Strife]

What is wrong with liking blow jobs better than sex?

 

[olylifter420]

Dude, you obvioulsly dont know women. If one makes them feel good about themselves, is their pussy, their cookie, their goodie... You tellin her youbwould have her suck your dick instead of penetration, just lets her know her pussy aint good enough. You know that less penetration wont satisfy her, so why give her less..?

If you dont love her, fuck it tell her... But if you care about her feelings, dont be a fag or douche bag... Love your woman man.... Or somebody else WILL

What is wrong with liking blow jobs better than sex?

 

[RawBudzski]

Like i said in the thread starter, it's not like i don't want to fuck her, i just don't want to fuck her as much as she wants to fuck me, im trying to think of an alternative. Once every one or two weeks is enough to satisfy me, but i know it isn't going to be enough to satisfy her.

Oh no, once every two weeks is no bueno. Regardless of how you feel, see it as that.. that is all it is, a feeling. Pop those viagras and do your job. for all you know you're broken and shes on point like a freak. Enjoy it! Utilize it! The thought of a woman going unfkd when wanting to in a relationship.. :O is a sign of horrible things to come.. terrible things.

 

[Zaehet Strife]

Welp, guess im just going to have to tell her the bad news then, lol. Thanks Raw, much appreciated.

 

[Hepheastus420]

What is wrong with liking blow jobs better than sex?

Nothing, but does she want head over dick?

I guess just tell her the truth dude.. Be like "babe, I don't know how to say this, but I love giving you head and I love you giving me head. We should get down on that more often"

 

[RawBudzski]

 

[olylifter420]

I guess you are a dick on and off riu...

My guess was right, you are either bi or full blown gay, half way through... Just embrace it, its genetic and not ur fault.., i have plenty of gay friends, they all had similar stories like yours

Welp, guess im just going to have to tell her the bad news then, lol. Thanks Raw, much appreciated.