Ah... I see..
And don't worry that wasn't directed at you; I know you're a respectful, decent guy x
That's a shame
Must be really frustrating.. The thing is with hookers is there are 5 types:
1) The desperate types who have nothing left to sell but themselves or have nothing to lose
2) The ones who know what they've got and are just up for the fun and variety
3) the ones who have a libido too big for one relationship
4) The ruthless powermad who will literally do anything for M. O. N. E. Y
5) The ones who are actually nice girls with low self-esteem
Who knows, you might find type number 5, who really gets you going, you get talking find out you like her and she feels you like her for her as well as getting your rocks off. I dunno, maybe. Unlikely, but I know form experience there is such thing as first night chemistry >_>
I seriously hope to find someone (or even just a method or technique she shows you) that will get you there. Do you think you have any repressed feelings of guilt? Maybe be you need to emotionally engage to feel passion fully. Maybe you need the opposite, completely random no strings attached sex. Maybe you need a girl to really show you she enjoys you and giving herself to you and who appreciates all of you.
Good luck PadPad. Maybe The One is out there for you and she is some crazy mind blowing sex goddess :3 Good things come to those who..