I've been through it. Once all by myself, had to gladiator to survive. Not what I'd wish on anyone.
Second time, my arrest, and the US Marshal's involvement kinda' ruined the boss lady's life. And she didn't have a clue about me. She stood by me, answered the phone, wrote when she could, and sent money when she could. We had our struggles, by she stood by me. Having even one person out there is a world of difference. It would have been great, if we woulda' had a benefactor, our lives would have come together faster, but, it worked out. FDD is in a hell of a spot, and so's his family. It's nice to see a person stand by their principle, and help out others, just because they can.