Different women are *attracted* to different men. I say "attracted" because it is materially different thank "likes". A woman may be attracted to a certain man because of something subliminal but she may not like him. That is why a woman that marries a wife beater, and finally manages to get free of him, winds up marring another piece of shit just like the one she left, just different name - because she was attracted to something. As a general rule, women want men that are strong in character, body, mind, and spirit. They want their man to be gentle and rough, and know when each is appropriate. They want you to PAY THE FUCK ATTENTION! They want you to LISTEN; they don't want you to "fix it", just listen. They want flowers, chocolate, cards and lots of your time talking your ear off about the most worthless and ridiculous things to a man - but it's important to them.
Women are stronger than most men in many ways so don't ever patronize them. Men should take the lead in romance; women don't usually have time for that and they appreciate your efforts, and even if you fuck up they will probably never say anything. They like kissing, and passion, slaps on the ass and hugs for no reason. Learn how to kiss! Women do not want you ramming your tongue down their throats; that's porn bullshit. Tongue play is nice and she has ways to let you know if she wants more. Also, don't open your mouth like you're sucking a fence post; keep your lips to about 3/4 open. Women want to be taken out for dinner and treated especially good when they've had a bad day. They like getting their hair and nails done, clothes and shoe shopping, talking on the phone to family and girlfriends. The main thing you never want to do is even acknowledge the existence of another woman - anywhere in the universe; your mother is the one begrudging exception. Mention an old girlfriend and you're "taking the situation in hand" tonight buddy. Look in her eyes and - in sincerity - tell her how beautiful she is. Then speak those three little words that every woman wants to hear: "You wanna fuck?" LOL, just kidding. No cheesy one liners; they've heard them all. Anything that you do for them in an attempt to get their clothes off sets of an alarm "DICK ALERT! DICK ALERT!". Be sincere or don't be anything at all. When you do get her clothes off, take some *time* to touch her softly, and admire her features; don't rush this; it can be some of the best times you can spend together.
If you are a "minute man", start doing Keagles; they are exercises for your PC muscle that help you completely control when you blow your load; you can go til you're too numb to nut; it's just that effective. Be sure your hygiene is flawless, and that includes trimming your fingernails. Bring a bottle of wine occasionally instead of beer and don't plan on getting sloshed and getting laid; the two are just not that compatible; smoke a big bowl of good pot before making love. She wants to feel your body weight on her but not for long; use your elbows and knees to keep most of the weight off her. Focus on her pleasure and her satisfaction; yours will come in due time. Observe her body language as you try different techniques and when you see her respond positively - keep doing it. Learn what drives her crazy sexually; she is probably more kinky than you might think. Afterwards, LOOK at her and smile; talk softly to her; run your fingers through her hair and trace a finger or two down her body; admire her body and say so; kiss her tenderly; stick your face in her hair and breathe in her aroma and tell her how nice she smells. Pull the sheet over her (to her arms) and snuggle with her; kiss her on the back of the neck and whisper little naughty things to her - and pay attention to her response. If she's really special, tell her you are going to plant a kiss on every square inch of her body. Do this in advance so she can enjoy the anticipation, then DO IT, front, back, toes to head. Save the best parts for last because by that time she won't let you finish the job. I wrote a book about 10 years ago called "The Elements of Eroticism" but my computer crashed before I could send it to a publisher and I lost it. I could go on and on but I won't even though I didn't even get into the really hot stuff. Guys, study this; it's pure gold. ...and feel free to rep me.