AC, from Toke's posts I'm guessing he's an 80's child like I was. Back then, our classmates (for the most part)went into the military because they couldn't either get into college, or make it once there. Especially during the early 80's when there were less labor jobs that could feed a family.
It was different after the 9/11 forced patriotism, but before that, the best and brightest avoided military and most of the grunt makeup was high school drop outs and criminals given a choice of military or jail. After vietnam, we pretty much scraped the bottom of the barrel to fill the hundreds of thousands of unnecessary posts around the world.
Again, this is just in general terms. I appreciate yours or anyone else's service and don't want to diminish it all but we had a 25 year period in this country where joining the military was the last resort for many.