A Website for Married Dating and Affairs...

Florida Girl

Florida Girl

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Wikidbchofthewst said:
http://www.ashleymadison.com/
What do you guys think about that? I saw a commercial for it and the idea just disgusts me honestly, but I'm not married.
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I'm not married but I'm disgusted all the same. IMO this is nothing more then a feeble attempt to 'class up' the notion of cheating so the scumbags that do it don't feel quite as low as they would had they trolled Craigs List for a quick piece of ass.

Married or not... when you are in a committed relationship and cheat you are nothing more then a lowlife scumbag and deserve to be kicked to the curb... then right off the curb and down into the gutter where you belong.

Also ... if I know someone is cheating on someone I know... I'll tell! I think it's so disrespectful to cheat and put that person that one supposedly loves at risk of some disease because the cheater had to go whore around. So yep.... I'll tell if I know.
 
GordonFreeman

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Sunnysideup said:
I really don't understand why people put things up their ass. Seriously I don't understand, is there something I am missing?
When I was a kid I got married...very short stint. Well when he moved out I cleaned the basement out and I had an old washer down there. When my boyfriend (now husband) went to move it he opened the lid and there were butt pearls....I was shocked, what would a guy want to do with butt pearls? Maybe he had some other chick in the house when I wasn't there, I shutter at the thought of him putting them up his own butt.
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hahaha maybe he flew a kite with them?
 
Seamaiden

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If I hadn't met Dave, I probably would have tried this site: ZombieHarmony - One of the Best Free Dating Sites for Zombies
jamiemichelle said:
I’ve read about that site before. I think it’s ok. Some people don’t want to break up their families and after years of marriage sex could get dull... that doesn’t mean you still don’t love your wife/husband. It’s not the best choice, but breaking up may not be the best choice either.
I mean as long as someone can get away with it without letting their partner find out (and also being safe) I say go ahead. Of course I would freak out if I was cheated on...but at the same time I wouldn’t be the type of wifey to not put out.
With all that being said; a lot of women are psycho and will most likely fall for the man they are cheating with (with us being emotional beings) and it will end up wrecking their families any way. I’ve def been "the other woman" and it’s no fun after reality starts kicking in, but I would never get crazy for a dude…but I know friends who have. Dumb.
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I think I agree with pretty much all of that. Except, seriously, who the hell needs a website to help them have an affair? Isn't that what the Tenderloin is for? :shock:
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korvette1977

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My ass and any chicks ass is exit only in my book.. I aint playing with it , sticking anything in it , I just think its gross ...
 
Sunnysideup

Sunnysideup

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korvette1977 said:
My ass and any chicks ass is exit only in my book.. I aint playing with it , sticking anything in it , I just think its gross ...
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You and me both...I really don't understand it, why why why?
I would smack the shit out of Rick if he tried to put anything up my butt.
 
jamiemichelle

jamiemichelle

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Seamaiden said:
If I hadn't met Dave, I probably would have tried this site: ZombieHarmony - One of the Best Free Dating Sites for Zombies

I think I agree with pretty much all of that. Except, seriously, who the hell needs a website to help them have an affair? Isn't that what the Tenderloin is for? :shock:
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Bwuahahahahahahahaah. :bigjoint::bigjoint::bigjoint:


By the way, I’m not saying I am a cheating type, but in some circumstances it’s needed. It does break up families and is unfair if the other person is giving their all. BUT what about when some needs are being neglected (sex being the example this time) so then people are just supposed to give up sex forever? I don’t think so.

The best decision is to be sure who you are going to marry is one you will not get tired of and that you can’t predict; or maybe just don’t get married at all (wise decision).
Also talking about your problem with your husband or wife may solve all your issues because you never know maybe he/she is craving ass just as bad as you are.
 
gogrow

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Florida Girl said:
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I'm not married but I'm disgusted all the same. IMO this is nothing more then a feeble attempt to 'class up' the notion of cheating so the scumbags that do it don't feel quite as low as they would had they trolled Craigs List for a quick piece of ass.

Married or not... when you are in a committed relationship and cheat you are nothing more then a lowlife scumbag and deserve to be kicked to the curb... then right off the curb and down into the gutter where you belong.

Also ... if I know someone is cheating on someone I know... I'll tell! I think it's so disrespectful to cheat and put that person that one supposedly loves at risk of some disease because the cheater had to go whore around. So yep.... I'll tell if I know.
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i have to wholeheartedly agree with you today florida; marriages are based around trust, mess up that trust, and you have no marriage, or at least shoulnt.... as far as the friend cheating thing, thank god i have never been put in that situation, but i think i would have a loyalty to my friend and to their relationship enough to say something about it also...

here you go, :joint:can we get along today?;-)
 
jamiemichelle

jamiemichelle

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korvette1977 said:
My ass and any chicks ass is exit only in my book.. I aint playing with it , sticking anything in it , I just think its gross ...
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I was talking to a guy (we went on two dates) and he had always talked about butt sex, or ass eating... Asked me if I ever considered 2 dudes at once... I didn’t think anything of it but it was enough to scare me off.
Well a mutual friend called me and tells me that she found out he was posting on a male sex site... I looked it up and what do you know there he was. I’m glad I followed my gut to not further pursue things with him and I’m so confused at how my gaydar was just completely not working. Some guys just like it down there. He def isn’t the first I’ve came across.
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Sunnysideup

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gogrow said:
but attitudes like that help push some people toward decisions such as the site above....
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He isn't into that either. So I don't have to worry....but if he was into that shit, I would sign him up for an account...no, I wouldn't...I would get divorced. If he would feel the need to go outside our marriage over anal sex, well then our marriage would have to end. These things need to be discussed BEFORE marriage...I know we did, and we have been married 19 years this December.
Communication is the key.
 
Seamaiden

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jamiemichelle said:
Bwuahahahahahahahaah. :bigjoint::bigjoint::bigjoint:


By the way, I’m not saying I am a cheating type, but in some circumstances it’s needed. It does break up families and is unfair if the other person is giving their all. BUT what about when some needs are being neglected (sex being the example this time) so then people are just supposed to give up sex forever? I don’t think so.
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I don't think you are. Also, I understand that everyone's situation is different, including how they experience it. Very subjective, just as pain is.
The best decision is to be sure who you are going to marry is one you will not get tired of and that you can’t predict; or maybe just don’t get married at all (wise decision).
Also talking about your problem with your husband or wife may solve all your issues because you never know maybe he/she is craving ass just as bad as you are.
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Americans have a very narrow view of extra-marital sex. And... that's all I'm gonna say about that! ;)

Ever hear the term "serial monogamy"?
 
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korvette1977

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jamiemichelle said:
I was talking to a guy (we went on two dates) and he had always talked about butt sex, or ass eating... Asked me if I ever considered 2 dudes at once... I didn’t think anything of it but it was enough to scare me off.
Well a mutual friend called me and tells me that she found out he was posting on a male sex site... I looked it up and what do you know there he was. I’m glad I followed my gut to not further pursue things with him and I’m so confused at how my gaydar was just completely not working. Some guys just like it down there. He def isn’t the first I’ve came across.
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The Belly never lies
 
gogrow

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Sunnysideup said:
He isn't into that either. So I don't have to worry....but if he was into that shit, I would sign him up for an account...no, I wouldn't...I would get divorced. If he would feel the need to go outside our marriage over anal sex, well then our marriage would have to end. These things need to be discussed BEFORE marriage...I know we did, and we have been married 19 years this December.
Communication is the key.
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i was just throwin it out there.... my wife and i have the understanding that if one of us really wants to cheat, we can get a divorce that day... cause we dont play that either... but i was just saying that rejection at home can push some people to things such as this....
 
Florida Girl

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jamiemichelle said:
I’ve read about that site before. I think it’s ok. Some people don’t want to break up their families and after years of marriage sex could get dull... that doesn’t mean you still don’t love your wife/husband. It’s not the best choice, but breaking up may not be the best choice either.
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I couldn't disagree more! The cheater is making a decision that could affect the health of their spouse without the spouses consent. What the hell gives the cheater the right to do that? What if they bring home AIDS? Is that fair to the spouse??? Their life is now in jeopardy because their fucktard spouse had to go whore around. Condoms break.... and also aren't always effective in preventing herpes or genital warts so there is no guarantee the scumbag isn't coming home with a lifelong disease to pass on to their unsuspecting spouse.

If one doesn't want to break up their family but 'HAS' to go out and have sex with strangers then they at least should inform their spouse that that's what they are doing. If the spouse is ok with it then fine... but if the spouse isn't... at least they can get away from the cheating asshole before their life is wrecked by the loser.
 
jamiemichelle

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Florida Girl said:
I couldn't disagree more! The cheater is making a decision that could affect the health of their spouse without the spouses consent. What the hell gives the cheater the right to do that? What if they bring home AIDS? Is that fair to the spouse??? Their life is now in jeopardy because their fucktard spouse had to go whore around. Condoms break.... and also aren't always effective in preventing herpes or genital warts so there is no guarantee the scumbag isn't coming home with a lifelong disease to pass on to their unsuspecting spouse.

If one doesn't want to break up their family but 'HAS' to go out and have sex with strangers then they at least should inform their spouse that that's what they are doing. If the spouse is ok with it then fine... but if the spouse isn't... at least they can get away from the cheating asshole before their life is wrecked by the loser.
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I never said it wasn’t a selfish act; it is. As far as stds go - well you would hope that your partner is safe but in life there are risks to everything...the condom could break, they could get pregnant or get someone pregnant...but you also could die in a car accident on the way to work. Your seatbelt could fail, just like the condom.
Monogamy IS the best choice but you are not in the shoes of everyone in America to judge why they make the decisions they make. That’s just my opinion. I don’t want to be cheated on (I have and it doesn’t feel good) or be a cheater (which I have also done and it sucks hurting someone) but it is unrealistic to expect someone to only be sexual with one person for the rest of their lives - especially if someone is not as sexual as they once were. It is honestly rare to find someone who is older, married and happy with their sexual relationship.
 
Florida Girl

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gogrow said:
i was just throwin it out there.... my wife and i have the understanding that if one of us really wants to cheat, we can get a divorce that day... cause we dont play that either... but i was just saying that rejection at home can push some people to things such as this....
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I wholeheartedly agree! This nonsense about it being 'necessary' is complete BULLSHIT! No one ever died from going without sex and if the cheater really needs it that bad and isn't getting it at home then the cheater should grow some balls (that applies to both genders in a figurative kinda way) and talk to their spouse.

If it ends in divorce or breakup (for non-marrieds) then so be it... they aren't really together anyway if one person is whoring around behind the others back.

Cheaters are SCUM!
 
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Florida Girl said:
I wholeheartedly agree! This nonsense about it being 'necessary' is complete BULLSHIT! No one ever died from going without sex and if the cheater really needs it that bad and isn't getting it at home then the cheater should grow some balls (that applies to both genders in a figurative kinda way) and talk to their spouse.

If it ends in divorce or breakup (for non-marrieds) then so be it... they aren't really together anyway if one person is whoring around behind the others back.

Cheaters are SCUM!
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my mom was a cheating whore... i had to grow up with it and got drug around while she fucked around on my pops... effectively making me protect her, by me not choosing sides... i have no respect for people like that....

in my opinion, these guys (i say guys cause i am one, and im sure its predominately men) have the internet, why cant they just find a site and use their imagination while they pull one out??? hell, i do it all the time:lol:
 
Florida Girl

Florida Girl

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jamiemichelle said:
I never said it wasn’t a selfish act; it is.
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Selfish? If a cheater brought home AIDS, herpes or genital warts I'd call that more then selfish... I'd call it criminal!
jamiemichelle said:
It is honestly rare to find someone who is older, married and happy with their sexual relationship.
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Not true. I'm 42 and don't find that to be true at all. In fact of all my married friends I've only got one who is unhappy (sexually and just in general). Most of my friends are very happy and the way they tell it have open and candid discussions with their spouses about things they want and do.

Now that I think about it... all my married friends that are happy .... work outside the home... and the one that isn't happy has been a stay at home mom for the last 15 years. Hmmm....
 
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