An apology for you RIU members.
- Thread starter Brassinosteroid
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see4
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Your best bet? Reincarnate yourself as a new user, and shut the fuck up.
Brassinosteroid
Active Member
That is where I can say you are wrong. I don't expect you to get over the things that I have said overnight Carne. I told you I was sorry and I meant it. That's all there is to it from my end.
i think i said something similar in this thread https://www.rollitup.org/newbie-central/636840-advice-you-newer-users.html
I think the main issue is he was allowed to hound us for like 4 months and he got to do it with pleasure and the second we step up and say were not tolerating your shit, its a big deal its "ive apologize" its "ive said my dues" "why are you guys attacking me" "stop hounding me ive said sorry"
kron used to follow me around and aruge with any point i had to make in support for users, he would challenge my mod status everyday it was quite annoying
I think the main issue is he was allowed to hound us for like 4 months and he got to do it with pleasure and the second we step up and say were not tolerating your shit, its a big deal its "ive apologize" its "ive said my dues" "why are you guys attacking me" "stop hounding me ive said sorry"
kron used to follow me around and aruge with any point i had to make in support for users, he would challenge my mod status everyday it was quite annoying
Brassinosteroid
Active Member
Damn, when the hell did I become the Finshaggy show? The hell?!
most folks when they offend and wish to make amends dont bash... you may have your view point.. but I can assure you.. your view point has and will change...
I am ok to forgive someone once they attempt to move past the issues they have... I am not sure where you are getting your personal guidelines from.. but perhaps you need to rethink that source.
Eclypse
Active Member
When you made this thread...
see4
Well-Known Member
I've already given you my advice. It's really good advice. I suggest you take it. Seriously. We actually have slightly more respect for finshaggy than we do of you. That is saying a lot, because finshaggy is... well.... the best way to describe it, is... only slightly better than the brown smelly stuff found on the underside of a shoe.. better know as krondizzle.
Brassinosteroid
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Forgiving people is a very hard thing to do. I wish I was better at it.
Carne Seca
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You really don't understand the purpose of the program you're in, do you? You honestly don't get it. Apologize to me when it's not a requirement of a program. Apologize to me when you realize the words you use(d) have a negative impact on others. Apologize to me when you can bring up everything you've said in the past that affected me and say you were wrong.
Your words have meanings and consequences. Grow the fuck up and realize that. Own up to YOUR mistakes instead of blaming the booze. Otherwise your twelve-step program will fail you and you'll be back on the bottle in no time . It's about sincerity not meeting a quota.
Fuck. Why am I even telling you this shit? For all I care you can fall the fuck off the earth and good riddance.
You like to dish out the heat but you can never take it, this is going to be an entire thing you'll have to learn through AA and you're going to have to face REAL people here you have options, turn off the computer and go away, never come back to riu, make a new account and pretend to be someone completely different in real life you're going to have to answer to a shit ton of real people face to face who you don;t get to turn away from.
Brassinosteroid
Active Member
It doesn't take a program for someone to apologize for being a complete a-hole to someone Carne. I was a real chump to you dude and I admit it and I apologized in front of everyone and sent you a pm apologizing as well.
Excuses aside, whatever you or I have to say, read this: I was a real chump to you dude and I admit it and I apologized TO YOU in front of everyone.
That's all I have to say to you.
Excuses aside, whatever you or I have to say, read this: I was a real chump to you dude and I admit it and I apologized TO YOU in front of everyone.
That's all I have to say to you.
Brassinosteroid
Active Member
You guys are all drama. I'll see you all later. Have a good night.
part of the banning of RIU is so that the user says "ok.. I screwed up.. and want back..I'll be good"
you created another acct to bypass the "shunning"
let the shunning begin.. if you want to be good.......... be it.. post away.. I wont put you ignore as I am sure most wont..
I will see what's posted and the views you take..
I seriously hope this "apology" was not yet another thread ... and you see clearer what you should do here and in life..
you created another acct to bypass the "shunning"
let the shunning begin.. if you want to be good.......... be it.. post away.. I wont put you ignore as I am sure most wont..
I will see what's posted and the views you take..
I seriously hope this "apology" was not yet another thread ... and you see clearer what you should do here and in life..
Brassinosteroid
Active Member
True and not true. The true part, yeah, I had to suck it up and say "okay, I screwed up, I'd like to come back now and I promise to be good and behave"
The not true part... well, the only way to be able to say that if you are perma banned is to create an account, make sure everyone knows who you are, and then say "okay, I screwed up... "
Brassinosteroid
Active Member
I don't think ones sexuality determines their ability to forgive a person.
Carne Seca
Well-Known Member
Yes you sent me a pm after I asked you not to which I deleted and didn't read. I would have stayed completely out of this thread except for my first post but you had to bring up your homophobia. I was considering writing to you and opening up a dialogue until you brought that shit up all on your own. You fucked that up royally. I have a lot to say to you but I think you get the gist. You haven't changed. You won't change. The more you post the more you prove it.
Carne Seca
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I forgive sincere apologies not attempts to make it up one more level in a sobriety program.