Anyone Have A Stalker?

I have an underage girl who has been trying to get into my pants for the past 12 months, calling me incessantly no matter what i say to get her to go away. Scary shit. I need to change my number for real. Anyone ever had a similar problem? It's kind of embarrassing.

Usually the best way to deal with stalkerish people is direct confrontation. Don't play games with them. Go up them and tell them bluntly that you're not interested, or to leave you alone or you will take steps that insure that they leave you alone.

It IS kind of a tough situation, because nobody is really going to take you seriously. I have had something similar happen to me years ago, and it just went away over time. I think eventually she gave up. An infatuation can seem like a chemical imbalance. Change your numbers. That's pretty easy.

lol, as a musician ive had some experience with stalkers.last summer some girl saw my band at the torch club in sacramento. after the show she came up to me and acted like we had known each other for years.then she started showing up at shows in tahoe and even the bay area, it was getting creepy. when my ol' lady heard about it from my roadie she came to the next show. i dont know what was said but i havnt seen my groupie stalker since, i sure do miss her.......lol

I had one. It was partly my fault. She gamed me up at a bar. Bought me drinks all night, and took me home. lol. After that she kept calling me. Sometimes 10+ times a day. Talk about role reversal for ya. I ended up switching cell phone carriers and that was the end of it.

damn.. pretty easy measures right there guys haha. I've been wanting to change my number.. but it's MY number. I've had those digits for 3-5 years. The next time she calls me, I'll tell her if this isn't the last time she ever calls me, I'll issue a restraining order. Which means I'll have her arrested, which is kind of lame considering she's an underage girl.. and I also don't like restraining orders, they are fucking stupid and no one obeys them anyways. Maybe she will never call me again.

oh, and 2much, if that old guy with the sunglasses next to that sativa is really you.... mad fucking props on being the coolest old fucker from the moustache up i've ever seen! + rep

how did you meet this chick?

Biggravy22 said:

how did you meet this chick?

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I met her through a friend a few years ago, she was pretty young when I met her wall and now she is 16, and is still incessant about trying to be with me. I have a girlfriend and we've been together for the past year, and the underage girl hasn't let up much. I think I'm just complaining too much.

But really, some little girl running around telling people she loves me, calling me, acting like we're involved.. it could get ME in some trouble, for real. This girl is such a slut, it's sickening. Whilst she has been so overly-infatuated with me she's been fuckin a bunch of guys haha, it's just so stupid. This is so stupid. She's got a boyfriend now and she still insisted on calling me last week. Her guy needs to keep that vagina on a tight leash, for real. No telling where that thing has been now.

Online, yes, IRL, no, because if someone starts getting stupid with me, I'll get stupid right back.It's a little harder to dissuade them online. If this underage girl is calling you, I'd change my number.If you can't do that, get a tape recorder and inform her you are recording her calls from now on,because you're not going to be arrested for rumors. In the conversations, state clearly,"I am not interested in you,please do not call here again."Then hang up.After three of these calls,you may be able to do something legally, if it comes to it.However, I'd just speak to her parents first.

Pnuggle said:

I have an underage girl who has been trying to get into my pants for the past 12 months, calling me incessantly no matter what i say to get her to go away. Scary shit. I need to change my number for real. Anyone ever had a similar problem? It's kind of embarrassing.

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You just need an over the top quick release method or approach to it.
All you need to do is act in such ways where said individual ends up wanting to be rid of YOU. The problem solves itself and Dependant on the scenario you can reap the benefits as well.

Shave your head in a manner as if you were balding from old age. Get a wifebeater stained with your household condiments and wear army cargo pants with flip-flops. Then proceed to mock roll play as 'her abusive father', I'm sure you can appreciate where this is going.
One of many examples you could use, don't mention it. You're welcome.

How under age?

Pnuggle said:

I have an underage girl who has been trying to get into my pants for the past 12 months, calling me incessantly no matter what i say to get her to go away. Scary shit. I need to change my number for real. Anyone ever had a similar problem? It's kind of embarrassing.

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oh yes and the asshole lives with ME

can't these newer phones block #'s?

Stoney McFried said:

Online, yes, IRL, no, because if someone starts getting stupid with me, I'll get stupid right back.It's a little harder to dissuade them online. If this underage girl is calling you, I'd change my number.If you can't do that, get a tape recorder and inform her you are recording her calls from now on,because you're not going to be arrested for rumors. In the conversations, state clearly,"I am not interested in you,please do not call here again."Then hang up.After three of these calls,you may be able to do something legally, if it comes to it.However, I'd just speak to her parents first.

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her mother is a stripper and probably could care less what her daughter is up to. I've tried being polite, I've tried being extremely blunt and rude, nothing works. I went as far as to fuck with her and tell her I was going to cheat on my girl and get with her that night, and then eventually I exposed her as a little tittied undeveloped cunt who's a pathetic excuse for anyone's "desire" in a girl. It only made her try harder. It seems the LESS attention or emotion I put into things, the more time it creates in between calls. but the calls still emerge.

DJBoxhouse said:

You just need an over the top quick release method or approach to it.
All you need to do is act in such ways where said individual ends up wanting to be rid of YOU. The problem solves itself and Dependant on the scenario you can reap the benefits as well.

Shave your head in a manner as if you were balding from old age. Get a wifebeater stained with your household condiments and wear army cargo pants with flip-flops. Then proceed to mock roll play as 'her abusive father', I'm sure you can appreciate where this is going.
One of many examples you could use, don't mention it. You're welcome.

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I don't see her in person. I haven't seen her in person in over a year. that is how obsessive this girl is. I'm not incredibly attractive nor do I pay this girl any kind of compliment or decency when we speak. I do not know what her problem is but i am HOPING she will grow out of this as she ages.

milowerx96 said:

How under age?

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16, as of a few days ago

howhighru said:

oh yes and the asshole lives with ME

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hahaha damn. that's funny... but really, can you stalk someone you live in the same house with? haha I think that might be "domestic _______". I can't find the word.

robert 14617 said:

can't these newer phones block #'s?

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That would not really help, she calls me from an array of phones/friend's cell phones/friend's parent's cell phones. I could eventually end up blocking every single number.. but I'm sure she would find another way to get to me. I want to tell her boyfriend that she's STILL trying to get all up on my nuts. But that would create some drama, and make her think im concerned with anything to do with her. Man. Oingo Boingo used to be my favorite band, but lately... I just don't know...

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Just because she's a stripper doesn't mean she's a bad parent.You can't be with them 24 hours a day,7 days a week.Just give it a try, contact her mom, ask her to please make her daughter stop calling.Tell her you don't want to get law enforcement involved, but you will if you have to.That should scare her mom into action. Never tease the girl and say you are going to get with her, because that could come back on you.If her mom does nothing, then it's time to contact the phone company and see about getting the number blocked on all the phones she calls.How did she get ALL of your numbers, anyway?

Pnuggle said:

her mother is a stripper and probably could care less what her daughter is up to. I've tried being polite, I've tried being extremely blunt and rude, nothing works. I went as far as to fuck with her and tell her I was going to cheat on my girl and get with her that night, and then eventually I exposed her as a little tittied undeveloped cunt who's a pathetic excuse for anyone's "desire" in a girl. It only made her try harder. It seems the LESS attention or emotion I put into things, the more time it creates in between calls. but the calls still emerge.

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wow man sunds like this little girl is a lil whore, that is gunna be a walking std by the time she is 22!!

Tell ur g/f, mmayb r g/f can do something to persuade this lil skank to lv u alone

it sounds like you are eating this up and don't want it to stop , i think your playing games with this kids head ,leave her alone

Leave her alone? I'm not playing any games, I'm living my life in happiness and could care less about this girl. It's the fact that when I'm doing just fine, I'll get a phone call from some drunk little cunt trying to coax me into picking her up or fucking her, asking me what im wearing. This upsets my girlfriend, and I have to go through a bunch of bull-shit to get my girl not to do anything, because it will just stir up more late night phone calls. I'm not eating anything up, I don't feel like the popular guy, I feel stalked. Let me get your number robert, I'll redirect her to you next time...

hell no my wife would strangle that little kid

Stoney McFried said:

Just because she's a stripper doesn't mean she's a bad parent.You can't be with them 24 hours a day,7 days a week.Just give it a try, contact her mom, ask her to please make her daughter stop calling.Tell her you don't want to get law enforcement involved, but you will if you have to.That should scare her mom into action. Never tease the girl and say you are going to get with her, because that could come back on you.If her mom does nothing, then it's time to contact the phone company and see about getting the number blocked on all the phones she calls.How did she get ALL of your numbers, anyway?

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The remark about her mom being a stripper was a little over the top.. but she is a stripper. And though she cannot keep a 24/7 watch on her daughter, she plays DUMB to the fact that her daughter is someone who looks for the nearest cock to jump on, and sneaks out every single night to pursue it. I dont want to give parenting tips because I have ZERO experience.. but I couldn't live with myself if I knew my 16 year old daughter had been getting dicked and corrupted all night for years, while I'm setting the example, taking my clothes off and giving handjobs for 30 bucks. it almost makes me sad, but you have to help yourself in this world, for the most part.

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