@Mensabarbie, Just go to their house, this will help on if they're real or not. The only woman I'd ever take to my house are the ones I wanted to stay around. Any where else was so they couldn't find me if I didn't want them to which was most of the time.
Thats about my only input do to I don't have but 3 people even know where I live and only 1 of them ever comes by. I live so far out when I'm not home there is no hope of anybody hearing anything, so my only defense is I tell nobody where I live. If I was single and really liked the girl I'd bring her home only after my gut O.K.'ed it.