doitinthewoods
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It's folks like you who make it easier for folks like me to get away with it. Thanks. Sorry about your situation though. That sucks.
Got caught!! Just got out =(
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Katatawnic
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Babymama?! 
Any woman who would allow her man to refer to her with a description like that couldn't have any class in the first place. Try getting involved with a woman you can respect... this means you need to be a respectable person yourself, first. 
It's not the gender; it's strictly the person. Period.
The fact that many more men grow pot than women doesn't factor into this scenario in the least.
As to the rest, agreed! I tired of volatile relationships in my 20s. Not worth my time, energy, or grief. My hubby and I give each other plenty of space and privacy, but we likewise don't keep secrets as huge as growing pot in our home from each other.
Gender has nothing to do with it.
I'd like to, again, insert both genders into this. So many people are too focused on man-and-woman-hating, instead of figuring out that not only do people in general suck, but also that when we make these remarks we're just feeding and adding to more hatred. Then we can't figure out why so many relationships fail.
What could be better than settling down with one's best friend? 
Having been "best" friends for ten years before we got involved ensured tons of trust and respect between us. We may have our private thoughts, but we have zero secrets between us. We feel 100% safe with each other, in 100% of our actions, legal or not.
Having been a vocalist working in bands for two decades, the vast majority of my acquaintances, and therefore friends, were men. (There just aren't a lot of female drummers and bassists. lol) But that was simply circumstance due to my career choice. Now that I'm retired and housebound, I've got the same friends I did back then... hell, my hubby and I began our friendship in 1995 based on performing together!
Oh, and phooey on the chemicals that make us more sick!
Any woman who would allow her man to refer to her with a description like that couldn't have any class in the first place. Try getting involved with a woman you can respect... this means you need to be a respectable person yourself, first. Thank you!
It's not the gender; it's strictly the person. Period.Nice to see all the sweeping generalizations in this thread. Also nice to see that there are men who seem to think that fear and obedience are the path to a harmonious relationship. I'm sure trust and mutual respect have nothing to do with sleeping better at night.
Yes, that's exactly what the world has come to.
The fact that many more men grow pot than women doesn't factor into this scenario in the least.Exactly! Considering marriage vows are made till death do you part, common sense would dictate that absolute trust would be a requirement before walking down that aisle. Same goes with choosing with whom to have children. Abstinence and reliable birth control alleviate the latter problem.
At that poster's defense, referring to his (ex?) significant other as his "babymama" did come off as very trashy, and difficult to sympathize.If you have a volatile relationship to begin with then yeah keep the secret but if you have a good relationship with spouse/ baby's momma no need to keep secrets. Hows she gunna feel if she does find out? She'll feel untrusted and betrayed and the chances of her turning you in are even greater.
Also lets be friendly, "do your unborn child a favor and get an education" Calling someone ghetto trash, or whatver, not so nice.Thats a bit harsh. To each his own, thats what makes the world go round.
As to the rest, agreed! I tired of volatile relationships in my 20s. Not worth my time, energy, or grief. My hubby and I give each other plenty of space and privacy, but we likewise don't keep secrets as huge as growing pot in our home from each other.
Right! My hubby and I both have the right to know what is going on in our home. Especially when legalities are involved. Guilt by association indeed applies when something is going on in a home in which more than one person lives. If you grow in your home and somehow get busted, the unknowing spouse will not be just let off the hook by pleading ignorance. Both spouses are 100% responsible for what goes on in the home in the eyes of the law. Anyone who's willing to put their spouse at risk of jail without allowing the spouse to know about said risk and making a choice is just as low as the person that would turn his/her spouse in to the cops.
I don't trust people in general, period.
Gender has nothing to do with it."Class" is the key word!
LOL!!!
Primitive, indeed!
I'd like to, again, insert both genders into this.
So many people are too focused on man-and-woman-hating, instead of figuring out that not only do people in general suck, but also that when we make these remarks we're just feeding and adding to more hatred. Then we can't figure out why so many relationships fail.Although I'm not "all about the drama" I also don't "do everything to avoid confrontation and arguments" either. I tell it like it is, the good and the bad equally. What I don't do, however, is run and tattle on someone for something I had no problem with until I got pissed at the person. It's about not being a hypocrite.
DING DING DING! We have a winner!
What could be better than settling down with one's best friend? Having been "best" friends for ten years before we got involved ensured tons of trust and respect between us. We may have our private thoughts, but we have zero secrets between us. We feel 100% safe with each other, in 100% of our actions, legal or not.
Having been a vocalist working in bands for two decades, the vast majority of my acquaintances, and therefore friends, were men. (There just aren't a lot of female drummers and bassists. lol) But that was simply circumstance due to my career choice. Now that I'm retired and housebound, I've got the same friends I did back then... hell, my hubby and I began our friendship in 1995 based on performing together!
Oh, and phooey on the chemicals that make us more sick!
'Nuff said.
gardenhose
Member
Man...your unborn child is gonna have a great life. For the sake of all mankind, You should learn how to use a condom. Grow up and figure out how to be an adult before you completely fuck up your unborn kids life like your parents (or lack there of) did to you. Growing should be the LAST thing on your mind. Idiot...
Bosson26
Active Member
back guys.. for all the guys who got a thing against me on this story. came to find out . the baby is not mine. so yeah. phuck you. lol
Katatawnic
Well-Known Member
So it's not yours, now she can rejoice. Doesn't change the fact that you thought is was yours, which means you don't know how to practice this thing called "birth control" which, WOW, controls unwanted pregnancies... go figure! Keep it in your pants, or put a raincoat on it. Then you won't have a baby scare, will you?
strain stalker
New Member
...dude, get the fuck away from all that crazy shit. You need to get even on her ass! I know alot of people may not agree w/ me....but, I play fire with fire....I'd set that bitch up...give her a taste of her own medicane!
...if you always do what you've always done, you'll always get what you've always got.
INSANE = repeating the same thing over and over, expecting different results....don't be insane, get the hell away!
...if you always do what you've always done, you'll always get what you've always got.
INSANE = repeating the same thing over and over, expecting different results....don't be insane, get the hell away!
robert 14617
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funny thing GWN my wife is canadian , i met her here in so. texas,5 years so far and she is my peach
Katatawnic
Well-Known Member
My hubby has referred to me as his peach (among many other pet names), but the "title" he's given me is his Princess... and he doesn't mean in any spoiled brat sense, either!
I've always said that there's no such thing as a Knight in Shining Armour, so I jokingly dubbed him my Knight in Tarnished Armour... which he loves.
(And tarnish cleans up quite easily and beautifully.)
I've always said that there's no such thing as a Knight in Shining Armour, so I jokingly dubbed him my Knight in Tarnished Armour... which he loves.
(And tarnish cleans up quite easily and beautifully.
)
Love between two soul mates is undescribable - I'm very thankful I was graced with her.
GWN
GWN
Good luck with that one Mr. Dahmer.