when their young(married my high school sweetheart 28 yrs ago) they are sexually charged nymphos, (or else you wouldnt be dating them?) and see themselves through your eyes, devote much of their mind time to you, and really need to please you.they love the attention you give them while biding for sex. Later, they no longer need this attention, but different kinds of it, that usually dont include acting like the babysitter in a nighty, or tooling your cock in front of a camera, which could be a major loss for some sexually charged perverts among, you. uhhh